19/f i am not allowed to date. my parents are very controlling and don't allow me to do what i want. Well there's this one guy i met. He goes to the same gym as me. He saw me at the mall and he was like I've sen you before at the gym and we started talking. He told me his name was will. well he asked for my number and said maybe one day we could work out together, and i told him i wasn't really allowed to hang out with guys, and he was like not even workout? and i told him i would be at the gym the next day. I went the next day i went to go work out and my dad came with me. ha. and i saw will there and he said hey to me and high fived me. He was there with his friend so we didn't talk much. But when i was leaving i asked him if he was coming the next day and he said he might in the evening, and i told him i might too since i had to babysit, but i didn't because it wasn't a good day for me. i said bye to him and when i turned around he smiled and i smiled too. But i think he's a lot older than me im not sure though. But yeah this guy seems really cool and i want to get to know him but there's so much stopping me. :( please help!!! cause i don't know what to do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? rissagurl answered Monday May 3 2010, 9:04 pm: Your 19 like seriously your grown. your parents can't keep you shelterd all your life try talking with this guy give him you number. Get to know him. If your parents find out tell them that you won't dissappointthem but you just want to for once be the teen you never got to be. I mean they need to understand. Ask him how old he is and tell him how old you are because if you instinct is telling you that he is to old gor you i am pretty sure that he is too old for you....good luck...hope i helped.... [ rissagurl's advice column | Ask rissagurl A Question ]
sunshine1232 answered Sunday May 2 2010, 7:55 pm: You need to sit your parents down & tell them how
you feel say that you'd like it if they didn't control every aspect of your life they've got to let
you be your own person & be independent make decisions and mistakes and be able to learn from them say it would make you happy if they allowed you to see the boy that your liking tell your parents that your responsible & won't do anything stupid make them trust you so they'll allow you & won't be so controlling.. say you simply want to talk to him & possiblity hangout with him there's no harm in doing that(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.