soo i used to like this guy a lot and we were really good friends. i had known him for like 9 years from kindergarten to 8th grade. i didn't realize i liked him till the end of 8th grade when we were gonna go to different high schools. we ended up talking like everyday during the summer and going to the movies and stuff. but ever since high school started we just haven't been talking as much. i miss him a lot and i still really like him. what should i do to get him to talk to me again and possibly for us to go out???
Ok, start to open up to him more. Your in highschool now so it shouldn't be really hard to express to him that you like him. But if you are shy about it tell one of hid friends or tell somebody that you know will tell him. It is ok to miss him. But he also may just be adjusting to highschool and everyhting so don't take it really personal. Understand if he doesn't like you as much as you like him. You could also start off as being his friend and then start to work your way up to his girlfriend....follow your heart.... good luck hope i helped...
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okay im 15/f and i think i love this boy but hes turning 13 and im fixing to be 16 im not sure how to handle the age difference and all. how do i know if hes to young and/or if i love him?
I think that the age thing isn't really such a big deal if you say that you love the boy. I mean i have been in realationships were i have dated younger boys and most of the time had no problem with it. Also think about it this way when people get older and they get married they are most of the time not the same age and lots of marriages last. I think that you should just stick it out. And also don't let anyone tell you an different if they have a problem with it forget them
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ok there is some guy that i really like a lot , let just called him jason for now,
so jason is in my two period class, and u really like him like a lot , and there were one day i was walking and he open the door for me and he was behind me walking and he said that i was really a nice girl ,and i dont know why since that day i have butterfly in my stomach and i cant stop dreaming about him ,the good thing is that he is also a good guy, he is not really cute but i dont care about his personality ,and im feeling kind of shy talking to him
any advice ,,but there is just one thing that im wondering about, our skin color he is white and i dont know if he like me
Awww... that is so sweet. Ok, well i would suggest that you find some way to express to him that you like him. And asking one of your friends to ask him if he likes you. Try and start conversation with you. I honestly don't think the color thing will make a difference. I mean he did tell you that you are a nice girl in all. I mean color shouldn't stop him or you if you like him it doesn't matter if he is not that attractive like him for who he is...... follow your heart... good luck... hope i helped....
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16/f : sorry its so long. i need help!
so over a week ago my boyfriend of 8 months broke up with me. it was random because nothing was that wrong that week. normally things use to get really ugly because i use to get frustrate because we couldnt see each other during the week and i took it out on him.
once he broke up with me he texted me right after saying it was a break for now and i believed it because he had nationals this weekend and this is something he needs to focus on cause its do or die for getting in to college. but the next day after he broke up with me i texted him bugging him by what he had meant by the break and he said that we were done but then the next day he said we werent then again the next day he said we were done again. i was confused but i know i pushed an answer out of him and i think he just wanted me to shut up but im not sure? does he really mean its over or was he just trying to get rid of me so he could focus for this weekend?
the only reason he gave me for the breakup was that his feelings faded but then the last text he sent me was im just busy and i got that. it just made it seem like things were still open and he just needed time away.
im not sure if im just making this up in my head or if we could still get back together. his regionals were this weekend and i havent talked to him in five days because everyone said i should keep away which i have. but his birthday is on thursday and im gonna say happy birthday but is that all i should say? ive been thinking myself about things and i figured some stuff out and i would like to tell him but i dont know if it would be too much or not.
Awww.... well it is very obvious that you are really into him because if you weren't you would be able to understand all the hints. You could be rite about him blowing you off to stay focused but i doubt because if that was the case he should have just told you that you would have understood. But your feelings are defenitely strong so i believe you should give it a shot. Tell him happy birthday and tell him you want another shot for you guys to be together again. Tell him how much it means to you that you guys are together. If he doesn't feel the same way understand him and support is decision. Which doesn't mean be all golly about it and just put it behind you it means just want him to be happy good luck.... hope i helped.... i think that it is still worth the possiblity it seems as if you are making excuses for him try and work things out i think you two should get back together because it is obvious that you really like him..... good luck
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13/f
how do u flirt with a guy you like...i have no idea and i really like him
wow..... ok , i am thirteen too so this shouldn't be too hard to explain to you. ok, talk to him look him in the eyes.... try and start conversation. Try and write him like little notes. Don't be afraid to tell him that you like him. I mean you should find out if he likes you. Stare at him occasionally have fun with it. Say hi to him then after a while get his phone number and don't be afraid to talk to him. good luck.... hope i helped you.....
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16/f
hi so i'm really shy and i get so nervous talking to new people. my hands sweat really bad and its so gross. do i have anxiety or something? and how can i get rid of my sweaty palms? thanks!
It is ok, about being really shy. I mean a lot of people are just try to open up to people. Like for starters you know say hi yo a few people every once in a while because hi can go a very long way sometimes. But sorry idk what you should do about the sweaty palms thing. I honestly, don't think you have anxiety problems a lot of people are nervous. But then again i don't know you very well so if you think it isthat bad mention it to your mom and dad and see if the can take you to the doctor....good luck... hope i helped
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So i have a good friend, we were friends since grade 5. now were in grade 8. in facebook, she tagged all her friends. she tagged me as "a good friend" and she tagged other friends including my crush as "the one you can trust on". so my friend doesnt trust me :(... what should i do? we were like sisters...really close to each other. maybe i was acting a little mean to her. thats coz she doesnt care if a guy makes fun of me ... (being racist with me)..
wow, you are taking that a little too serious. I mean she said that your are a good friend doesn't that mean a lot to you. I mean maybe she felt like you guys were so close that ir shouldn't matter to you if she didn't tag you as her friend. But anyways since it is bothering you tell her how you feel about the whole situation. And try and open up to your crush... you just might have a chance.... good luck... i hope i helped....
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I'm in love with my physics teacher. OMG someone help me!!
I don't concentrate in class anymore, I'm so distracted. And in public, he's pretty much an asshole so I can't approach him, In fact I never considered it.
I just don't know what to do!!
I think about him allll the time, I'm that far gone!!
Please give me a solution!
Sorry hun... he is like way older than you if he means that much to you wait till your out of high school and apporach him then or wait till your not a minor anymore. Try and date someone your age someone that you know that you have a chance with i mean that in the nicest way possible... good luck.. hope i helped....
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My first boyfriend ever dumped me a while ago and im still hungup on him.He wants to be friends and stuff so ofcourse I don't want to deny friendship.He was sick for a week and i didn't see him and i didnt forget about him but i definatly made more progress without seeing him and talking to him. (except one of the days he was gone,he had Imed me on the computer).But today,after 7 days he returned to school and I had to see him and all my feelings came back.I can't avoid seeing him entirely because I have a class with him and he sits right in front of me and talks to me all period.Then after class,walks me to my locker then walks me to my next class.And says hi to me at lunch.I don't want to be mean and ignore him because im still crazy for him and he's still friendly and nice to me and we get a long so good.But ofcourse since he was my boyfriend,i still like him and he obviously doesnt feel the same way about me anymore.He told me when he broke up with me that i was the first girl he's ever liked and im the most amazing girl ever...So since that..i still have hope even though it probably won't happen anymore.When we are all in a group together,i try not to talk to him but just him being there in my presence on a daily basis in class is enough for me to like him! i just want to get over him!
Yeah, i am with you on this one you need to get over him, if you don't want him bcak. I mean you seem like your stuck in between both of them. i would tell your to ask yourself is it worth asking him out again and giving it another shot. If he says no accept it but it seems like he is feeling the same way that you do just try and express the way you feel or mve on... good luck... hope i helped...
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19/f i am not allowed to date. my parents are very controlling and don't allow me to do what i want. Well there's this one guy i met. He goes to the same gym as me. He saw me at the mall and he was like I've sen you before at the gym and we started talking. He told me his name was will. well he asked for my number and said maybe one day we could work out together, and i told him i wasn't really allowed to hang out with guys, and he was like not even workout? and i told him i would be at the gym the next day. I went the next day i went to go work out and my dad came with me. ha. and i saw will there and he said hey to me and high fived me. He was there with his friend so we didn't talk much. But when i was leaving i asked him if he was coming the next day and he said he might in the evening, and i told him i might too since i had to babysit, but i didn't because it wasn't a good day for me. i said bye to him and when i turned around he smiled and i smiled too. But i think he's a lot older than me im not sure though. But yeah this guy seems really cool and i want to get to know him but there's so much stopping me. :( please help!!! cause i don't know what to do.
Your 19 like seriously your grown. your parents can't keep you shelterd all your life try talking with this guy give him you number. Get to know him. If your parents find out tell them that you won't dissappointthem but you just want to for once be the teen you never got to be. I mean they need to understand. Ask him how old he is and tell him how old you are because if you instinct is telling you that he is to old gor you i am pretty sure that he is too old for you....good luck...hope i helped....
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ok there is this guy in my class and he is my best guy friend. ive had a crush on him since we met. i know he only likes me as a friend but my feelings keepgetting stronger and stronger. i want to go out with him so i asked him out and he said "OH GOD NOOOO" but i still like him and my friends keep asking him out for me and i dont want them to. what do i do about him and my friends?
Tell your friends that you want them to just leave it be. Also tryand get over him because you might totally freak him out and lose him all together. Respect his decision for not wanting to go with you. Want the best for him even if it is not you... {i say this like all the time lol} Still be there for him as any best friend will. If it is meant to be it will happen but for now just let it be. Try to migle or meet new guys not saying find a new crush but keep a little bust to keep your mind off of him. good luck.... hope i helped....
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ok i might be thinking too much but what does it mean when a guy friend of yours give you a hug. its almost just like every other time he hugs you, except different. normally we let go after like 2 seconds or something, but for some reason he pushed me to the wall, and then he lets go. we just talked regularly afterwards. im thinking too much arent i? was it a joke? or was it suppose to mean something?
It depends how you felt or how youor how you took it, to me it seems as ifyou took it has more than a friendship hug. Honestly, i couldn't tell you what kind of hug it was because i wasn't there. I think you could be thinking to much of it. I think you wanted to be more than a friend hug which is perfectly fine. Ask him if he thinks your attractive or likes you as more than a friend... see what his answer is. ask yourself if you like him more than a friend and see where that takes the both of you... good luck.. hope i helped...
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I know that it's really not right to want revenge, but I have to have it. Before Halloween this past year, my friend (let's call her Tori)stole the guy I liked, and we were almost going out. She knew I liked him. But I let it go... we became friends again. But now: she did it again. I can't stand her. What can I do to get revenge?? (if you tell me revenge isn't the answer I'm rating a 1)
Your like so right i would get revenge that's the honest truth. Tryand be cool with tori for a little bit and find out who she really likes or even who her boyfriend is. Get him to ethier cheat on tori with you or even get him to leave her. Give tori a little taste of her own medicine....good luck... hope i helped....
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ok well there is this girl in my class. shes such a retard and her name is dana, she is fat and bucked tooth. i hate her!!!!!!!she is soo mean to me and my other friends!!!!!why !!?!? she always wants to hang out with me. i gave her a chance but she turned out to be a stupid fat bucked tooth lard!!! and she is a couch potato. when i can to her house she would eat oreos and watch TV the whole time!!! what should i do to make her stop bugging me?!?!help!!! oh and she says MARR HARR just like nicole does.
Ok, just tell her you don't want to be buddy budyy with her. i mean you are making very clear to me that you don't like her do the same to her. i mean just do little things to express that you don't like her. Or tell her that you would like you and her to just be cool and not best friends. Also, when you tell her try not to be so mean about it. I mean she is a human being... good luck... hope i helped...
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im 15 years old and in the 9th grade ive been best friend with this girl named rebecca, we've been best friends since 6th grade and we were pretty much inseperable! we hung out every chance we could, she's slowly starting to change though and now its like she doesnt even want to hangout with me anymore. everytime i ask her to hang out with me shes always like ''i cant im grounded'' or ''my moms being gay and wont let me do anything'' and then like 20 minutes later on myspace she'll post her status as hanging out with so and so! when she just told me she was grounded. why would she lie to me? i mean i understand shes going to have other friends but that doesnt mean she has to get rid of all of her old ones.i'd rather her tell me the truth then lie to me, if she doesnt want to hangout with me i'd rather her just tell me instead of her just making some lame excuse! i mean why would she tell me shes grounded and then post that on myspace when not only is she my friend on there but i was online too! im her only true friend and she treats me like dirt, she doesnt even talk to me at school she just walks past me and looks at me. she took me off her top and everytime i try taking to her shes really short with me expecially when shes with her other friends. i even bought her something for christmas i messaged her on myspace saying that i got her a gift and that if she wanted me to i would bring it by after my mom gets off. all she replied back with is i have a friend over and then she signed off! i still havent been able to give her gift, because she still has no time for me. i want to confront her about it but i have no idea what to say i dont want her to hate me because she is my best friend i just dont know what to do. i actually care about our friendship and is willing to do anything i can to fix it so any advice will help!
Ok, you should just give her a little more space. you know how us girls are we can't stand each other over the smallest problems. I can understand that you are her best friend but maybe she has madea new one. You need to confront her and when you do just tell her how much you want to be friends with her. Tell her just like you told me about how you are willing to do anything for your friendship. Also, find a few other friends she will soon realize what a great friend she is missing out on. I mean you are a really good best friend and she needs to know that. Maybe she is just going through one of those phases we all have with our friends you never know..... just try to confront her in a nice way.... good luck... hope i helped...
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my friend and her boyfriend have been dating for a little over 2 months and he practically lives at her house with her, her brother, and her brothers friend. her boyfriend cory is controlling of her and doesn't ever let her hang out with her friends without him and when she does hang out with me cory gets really mad at her thinking that she would rather spend time with me then him. so when me and my boyfriend wanted to go to the beach with my friend, Cory didnt want her to go so when i called her house he said she was in the shower and would tell her i called and tell her to call me back which she never did. but, cory always goes and hangs out with his friends all the time without my friend while she is working and even when shes not. im just very concerned for my friend because im scared for her when she realizes what a jerk he is being and if she decided to break up with him, that he might want to hurt her, i dont want to ruin our friendship but i just dont know what to do, me and my boyfriend are both very concerned. does anyone know what we can do? please help
You guys can try and give her some space. I mean she will probably have to realize it herself. sge might even be aware of the problem but she loves him so she deals with it. You should also try and open up to her sbout it tell her how you feel. Explain to her that her being happy and her not getting hurt means a lot to you. Have a conversation with cory too.... good luck... hope i helped
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19/F
I've fallen hard for this boy, Taylor, since last January of '09. Last summer, we had a 'thing'...Taylor kissed me and essentially let me know that he reciprocated the feelings. However, things didn't work out because I was entering my first year of college while he was entering his senior year of high school. We were at two different places and decided what was best for us is that we did our own thing. Taylor got a girlfriend, and I began talking to other boys. However, I couldn't stop comparing them to him.
Well, February of this year, we started talking again. He broke up with his girlfriend, and I found out through his best friend that Taylor just didn't feel anything with her and that every time he talked to a girl, he compared her to me. His best friend continued to tell me that Taylor was still in love with me. But (I know this is weird) I saw on Facebook that he was always talking to this girl from work and it got me jealous. I never did anything to confront him or scare him away. After all, we weren't dating. He took me out on a date and ended up kissing me and making moves to basically show that he still had feelings.
He ended up getting real drunk and making out with some girl. He doesn't remember the night. We had a talk and I legitimately believe that...I mean, it doesn't take away the hurt but I've been there and understand. However, this led to a talk about "us", and from what he said, all I can gather is that "he doesn't know where he's at" and "he's in love with me but he wants to try being single for awhile" (he's always had a girlfriend). I called bullshit and he asked me what I wanted, I said I wanted to be with him but what was best for me was to not talk to him until I got my feelings together...he was really upset about this. But today I found out that he's trying to decide between me and the girl from work...me = long lasting relationship, someone who cares, a nice girl...her = a short term fling, really hot but no depth...
Basically, I just don't understand why he would take me out and do all of those nice things when he didn't want anything out of it...he said in the future if he wants a relationship, he wants one with me but I don't want to be the stupid girl that waits. All of his guy friends are telling me he's going through a "phase" but I feel like that's an excuse. I'm tired of feeling like Im not worth the risk. But at the same time, I have never ever ever felt this way for anybody. I really feel something with him and we have something good going on...
Ok, i think that Taylor is just not a one girl type of guy. I mean everybody makes mistakes and the whole getting drunl thing sounds like a mistake. But i honestly think if he loves you the way he says that he does he wouldn't even be condisering going out with the girl from work. It is obvious that you love him too so this means that you should try to work it out. But you are having a lot of doubts which means maybe it is not meant to be. Things happen for a reason if it is meant to be it will most likely happen. Do what you heart tells you to do. Try and work it out... Good luck... hope i helped...
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Me and my bf have been broken up for almost 6 weeks and its still taking a lot for me to get over.He wasn't at school for 4 days because he had strep throat and it was good because i was starting to forget about him,but then he randomly IMed me online and began talking to me :/ and ofcourse that made me like him again.He basically brokeup with me because he didn't like me or have feelings for me any more but we had a great relationship before that day. Im almost forced to be around him because of all of our mutual friends since we conjoined friend groups when we started dating.We still get a long and are friends but i still have feelings for him ! It's so hard to avoid him ! I want to either get over him or get him back.It seems like everyone always breaks up and gets back together but i wouldn't begin to know how to do that considering we already talked about it like a week ago and he said just strictly friends for now :/ but we havent seen or talked to eachother in a week (besides the day he IMed me online just to chat) so maybe the next time we see eachother it will change things.help!!
I think that you should tell him that you want to try and give it another shot. If he doesn't want to then accept what he has to say and tell him that you want to be his friend too. Do you feel like you guys had a great realationship while going out? or no? Also if he doesn't want to get back together you should try and move on. I would say hook up with someone but test the waters a little lirting wouldn'e kill you. It will also test if he wants to get back with you...... good luck really hope i helped...
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I'm pretty sure that my best friend is mad at me.
Like everytime I message her on myspace she just reads it. every time I text her she just ignores it and doesn't reply either. Everytime I try to hang out with her she makes up lame excuses like she's grounded from hanging out with people and then like an hour later she's hanging out with someone else. I wanna talk to her about it but I don't wanna start a fight with her. If I was to talk to her what should I say? Am I just being to overdramatic or do I have a reason to think she's mad at me?
She is probably give her a little space. She may be mad at you but maybe she is going through something. Just try and tell her that you are sorry for whatever you did wrong. tell her that your friendship is very important to you. If she doesn't want to be your freind anymore then just want her to have the best and be happy even if that means you'll have to find a new best friend. good luck follow ur heart
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13/f
I have written so many stories abot this guy I like. So If u wunna know about him just look at my other stories. Anyways, I have liked him for a long time but has started REALLY liking him about a year ago. He has asked me out and I wasn't aloud. So I said no that I wasn't aloud. But I am actually thinking about defyin my mom and lying to her. And going out win him. I knew he wouldn't ask me out again. So I kept on wondering how to ask him out. My frend txted me (she is also his ex) and she asked who i liked. I said david (that's his name) and she said that we look like a good couple. Then the next day she toldme that she had asked him out for me. I was like /WAT!!!!!!! / and she replied /is that ok???/ and I was like /it depends, watd he say/ and she told me that he said no. And I thought that he really liked me. So maybe it's jut her saying no because she still likes him. But then he txted me asking /were u too chiken to ask urself/ i said /about wat/ and he said /nvm/ so now I'm REALLY confused. Wat should I do. I think I might be IN LOVE with him. So pleas help me. Thankyou in advance.
Wow, i think that it was wrong for you friend to ask him out without your permission. I have been where you are abou the not being allowed thing. The boy could like you but is wondering why you didn't ask him yourself. Ask him yourself and see what he says. I think that you friend still likes him. I also have been in the i think i am in love stage but remember we are only thirteen. Did you ever ask your friend how she felt about you liking him. Ask her how she feels about it. I would suggest not to go with him though because she will probably say no and then deep down still want to be with him. But follow your heart. I wish you the best good luck.
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