soo i used to like this guy a lot and we were really good friends. i had known him for like 9 years from kindergarten to 8th grade. i didn't realize i liked him till the end of 8th grade when we were gonna go to different high schools. we ended up talking like everyday during the summer and going to the movies and stuff. but ever since high school started we just haven't been talking as much. i miss him a lot and i still really like him. what should i do to get him to talk to me again and possibly for us to go out???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? rissagurl answered Monday June 14 2010, 6:52 pm: Ok, start to open up to him more. Your in highschool now so it shouldn't be really hard to express to him that you like him. But if you are shy about it tell one of hid friends or tell somebody that you know will tell him. It is ok to miss him. But he also may just be adjusting to highschool and everyhting so don't take it really personal. Understand if he doesn't like you as much as you like him. You could also start off as being his friend and then start to work your way up to his girlfriend....follow your heart.... good luck hope i helped... [ rissagurl's advice column | Ask rissagurl A Question ]
gr8fruit answered Monday June 14 2010, 9:56 am: Hey,
The only way you are going to get him to talk to you, is to talk to him or text him (at least). If you were talking to eachother a lot over the summer, then you must have common grounds. Say hi to him in the hall, it is one of the basic ways to get a guy to talk to you. Then comment on his clothes. Say "Hi _____(put name there), Nice _______". It will be sure to strike a conversation. Just keep the momentum going by saying something after whatever he says. Make sure you smile so he will know you are being friendly. Once you two start talking again and are comfortable with eachother, you can flirt with him by: making conversation, winking at him, grinning, touching his arm/leg if you are sitting near him, looking into his eyes when speaking. Do one of these things every time you see him. Eventually he will get the hint and once he does, you will be sure to start some sparks. And...
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