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"personal" problems with my boyfriend
I've been seeing this guy for a while now and we've slept together 3 times only. well tried to. every time that the situation has come up he doesn't perform very long before it just doesn't work anymore. He says that maybe it's because he likes me "too much" but it makes me think that maybe he really doesn't like me at all. i even tried to "encourage" him this last time and it still didn't work. I don't really know what to think or how to take this. it doesnt change my opinion on him because i really care about him, but im worried about what he's thinking or feeling and why this is going on. any advice as to what you think is goin on or even how to make the situation better is much appreciated, thanks in advance.
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You both need to get comfortable still with each other during sex. How long does he last? If you don't mind me asking. Some guy's can't last that long. There might not be anything wrong, just that he don't last that long. But, like the person who also answered this said, there might be something medically wrong. Try to change things up, foreplay a little more. If he thinks it might be something serious, have him go see a doctor to find out.
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By doesn't work do you mean that he goes soft? This could be because he is either thinking about it too hard, he isn't attracted to you(which is doubtful because most guys just get so excited when sex is on the table), or he may have a medical problem like erectile dysfunction. Not sure how likely that last one is but you never know. Have you tried oral with him, change up the positions, even try acting out his fantasies. Make sure that he is relaxed and not thinking about it too hard, he doesn't need to stress out about it, just go with the flow. I would try giving him head for a while and see how he does with that, then move to sex. Make sure to change things up and keep him interested, ask him what he likes and do it. Make him look forward to it and make it memorable. Good luck.
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