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I don't want to be a toy anymore.


Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 1:18 pm

I'm so tired of people seeing me as a toy, and of me letting them treat me like shit. My last bf broke up with me and told me he saw me as a doll. A small pretty girl that let him "play" whenever he wanted. And was more liked when she wasn't talking. Teachers have even told me to "rely on my looks" or "marry rich". I try hard in school... I don't know what I do that makes people see me this way... I know I'm not a naturally assertive person but is that really why I'm getting treated like this?? I don't understand... How can I get people to take me seriously? How can I get a back bone?

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Iam scared to tell my mom and iam 21!


Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 12:16 pm

I had sex with my ex when we was still together of course and iam considering to tell my mom that her little girl is no longer a virgin but i don't know how to break the news to her even though iam 21 years old i still live with my mom and my mom treats me like iam still 12. what should I do?

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Getting scammed by a gym


Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 8:59 am

My fiance and I joined a gym about 2 years ago. We went for a year, then decided to trim it out of our budgets because $80 a month for the two of us was a little steep. We received a letter notifying us that we had 30 days to cancel in person or we would have our membership automatically renewed for another year. My fiance (whose name both memberships were under for credit purposes) was, at the time, away on military training, and unable to make it in to the gym. He called and asked if he could cancel over the phone because of his circumstances. They said it wouldn't be a problem, and that they'd take care of it.

Fast forward a few months, and we're still paying. We call, he talks to the manager, manager apologizes and ...

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happy sad alone together


Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 8:16 am

my ex and i are mates.
but i dont know if he likes me one day he does the next i dont seem to matter.
i want to go out with him again, but my friend likes him also.
what should i do?

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how can i stop flirting and still be me?


Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 8:14 am

okay i dont think this is normal.
14/f
i hang out with the guy group at school (only girl in the group) im not a tomboy and not princessy blonde either. i wear glasses and am over weight slightly so i dont get why each guy in the group has liked me or is liking me. im not just asuming this they told me.
i know you may say its just personality but it happens everywere any guy i talk to for a period of time falls for me. and for some reason im never interested.
the thing i find odd is they have all liked me but none of them were game enough to ask me out due to my ex. so what should i do?
and i feel like im playing them all. i flirt, but only cause its natural for me i dont intend on doing this, how can i stop flirting and still be me?

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fed up with being the girl people call the slut


Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 8:07 am

im so tired of being the girl people call the slut.
im not. im 14/f and have only been out with two guys.
i dont dress slutty nor do i act it, im quite hippy so often im maxy dresses. i dont swear and even a virgin, i dont get why people call me a slut.
i hang out with alot of guys but thats only cause the girls do the same thing every lunch.
what can i do to make people see im not who they think i am, i have a brain and am quite reserved.
can you please not say hanging out with the girls more, because i was bullied by them last year and dont really want to start it again. thanks

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WHAT IS LOVE??!


Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 5:56 am

I Honestly think I am in love!! I know most people say it's an UNDESCRIBABLE feeling! But if you can describe you perspective of love to me, PLEASE do

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guitar buying advice


Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 5:04 am

i was offered a signature dean dime razorback for about $1000 at local music store... is that way too much or just right?

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Posted Saturday July 17 2010, 12:19 am

What would you say are the three biggest mistakes you made in college your freshman year?

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head


Posted Friday July 16 2010, 11:52 pm

any guys or girls have tips on how to give good head? i dont really like giving it but i want my partner to be happy and i would love to know how to do it well. please any and all tips you have.

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Do you think that he's interested in me?


Posted Friday July 16 2010, 11:46 pm

There is a guy that works at the same store as me but in a different department. I always catch him staring at me. I've seen him stare at me from upstairs, at our morning briefings, even he has come in on his day off once and I saw him staring at me. He seems nice but on the shy side. The looks I get are not lustful but more puppy dog looks. I have also noticed that he seems more cheerful around the other workers since I have been smiling at him and saying hi. He used to be a lot quieter and looked a bit down. Also he is taking better care of his appearance. Do you think he's interested?

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Why was I detained and charged just because my friend shoplifted?


Posted Friday July 16 2010, 9:53 pm

I was shopping with my friend. When we left the store we were stopped by two lady loss prevention agents. It turned out my friend was shoplifting, which I didn't know. She fessed up right away. I didn't steal anything. They said we both had to go with them to the security office. I tried to leave but one of the LP agents grabbed me and handcuffed me, hands behind the back. They separated us and tried to get us to admit we were in on it together. My friend and I stuck to the truth which was that I wasn't involved. We were both taken to jail and charged with misdemeanor theft. My friend pled guilty later and the charges against me were dismissed. I spent three hours in handcuffs and a night in jail. Why would they do this to me just because I...

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Speed up my period?


Posted Friday July 16 2010, 8:20 pm

Is there anyway that I can speed up my period? So that the end of it comes sooner?

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arm hair on girls. guys opinions needed as well :)


Posted Friday July 16 2010, 7:16 pm

15/f

hi. so this my be a weird question. but hey, this is what this site is for right?
well i hate hair (besides on my head).
well i was wondering if girls (but mainly guys) thinks its weird to shave my arms
i have before, but my step sister thought it was kind of weird.
well i would like opinions of this.
please and thank you.

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reactive c protein


Posted Friday July 16 2010, 6:50 pm

my doctor said my cpr blood work was very high is that erally bad im freaking out a bit


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How much does a CHI flat iron cost?


Posted Friday July 16 2010, 2:32 pm

What's the average cost of a CHI flat iron from a salon?

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perfect skin


Posted Friday July 16 2010, 1:10 pm

i was watching this infomercial about a skin care line called perfect skin. i wanna order it, but even though it's 30 dollars, i wanna make sure it's worth my money. i used proactiv, and i built an immunity to it. it stopped working for me. has anybody used perfect skin?

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Repetitive and Excessive Bleeding


Posted Friday July 16 2010, 12:51 pm

Hi all :) I'll make this as short and simple as I can to conserve your time and patience.

I have never had sex and don't intend to engage in doing so for a good while. In the meantime, my boyfriend has fingered me many many times, not to be rude or anything. By this time, my hymen is already broken, no big deal. Yet I still bleed, kind of excessively. And it's really annoying.

Now I'm not sure, and I apologize if I sound ignorant, but I think I might have a hunch at why this is happening? I thought perhaps because the uterine lining is built with blood to nest a baby or shed during menstruation, that's he's possibly irratating the lining and causing a large amount of blood from the lining to end up on his fing...

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did he cheat on me with my cousin??


Posted Friday July 16 2010, 9:29 am

I need help!

I met a guy and we really like each other.. I've only known him for about 4 weeks but I'm in Germany visiting my parents. (I've been here for about two of the weeks I've known him for.) We talk on the phone everyday and he says he wants a relationship with me when I get back in three days. Well I was talking to my cousin on the phone and told me not to trust him...Because she heard he was a whore...She also said in that same conversation she wishes I was single..
She was over at my sister's house one night and told her, "My ex didn't know I slept with him." but then switched it to, "I mean talked with him." (let him be the guy's name) My sister told me all of that.
It's terrib...

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getting gfs... adivce needed!


Posted Friday July 16 2010, 5:05 am

how do i get a gf and know she is the one?

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