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fed up with being the girl people call the slut
im so tired of being the girl people call the slut.
im not. im 14/f and have only been out with two guys.
i dont dress slutty nor do i act it, im quite hippy so often im maxy dresses. i dont swear and even a virgin, i dont get why people call me a slut.
i hang out with alot of guys but thats only cause the girls do the same thing every lunch.
what can i do to make people see im not who they think i am, i have a brain and am quite reserved.
can you please not say hanging out with the girls more, because i was bullied by them last year and dont really want to start it again. thanks
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You don't have to do anything to prove yourself to anyone. If they don't like the fact that you hang out with alot of guys that's their problem not yours. Just live your life and don't pay attention to the negative comments. :)
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The people who call you sluty are just clearly jealous. Probably because your everything they aren't & the fact that you hangout with all the guys. Trust me, I know where you're coming from. I have the sam problem, and always have. Let it go though, if they see you're not offended by it then they'll stop. Don't worry, only you know who you truly are.
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Girl, If the girls are calling you a slut because thats how they feel then apparently they think you are threatining. Most girls will do anything mean to others they are jealous of. If you hang out with alot of guys then that could be it. Don't let them get to you and ignore them all. Do your own thing and be proud of it.
-f.c.
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WHY DO YOU CARE????? look forget them i dont care what people say to me you shouldnt either. people are jerks and always will be... just ignore it and dont let it get to you do your own thing
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Hang out with whoever you want to.
People will say what they will. It'll only get worse when they realize they can change your behavior by teasing you.
The bullying will stop when you make them think they aren't upsetting you. Ever wonder why some people get bullied and some people don't? It's because the bullies know they can't bother some people and that they would only make themselves look stupid to try.
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but ignore what other people call you. I was a skinny, nerdy kid, sucked at sports, and always got beat up and called a faggot. I started working out and not letting the guys that bullied me see that they were bothering me. Worked like magic. I realized they only bullied me because I LET them.
Bullies always go for the weaker, less assertive kids. Once I got some self respect and confidence, they lost interest.
Be yourself. I know it bothers you that you're called a slut, but if you want it to stop, you've just got to ignore it. Those girls will look like morons teasing you to no avail.
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