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This summer has been kind of bad for me. I did some not so great things so far, especially for my age (16). I've had sex with probably close to 15 or 20 guys already this summer and one of them was pretty old (like 35). I was falling into some really bad stuff and even accepted money for a few blow jobs.
I am now seeing that this is probably not the best thing to do. I am so glad I am not pregnant but there seems to be this one really big problem.
I started to have some weird discharge from my vagina and burning when I peed. I thought it was just a yeast infection and kind of ignored it. I tried some of that store brand stuff and it didn't go away.
Things kind of got stranger. I had sex with another guy and it was pretty painful but I couldn't figure out why. I started having some lower pains all day long. The pains haven't stopped.
I looked up signs and symptoms of STDs because I was afraid I might have caught something. I do have a lot of the symptoms of chlamydia and I think it's very possible that I have it. Some of the guys I did were...not so clean...
What do I do now? I can't tell my mom about this because she's going to be mad she has to take me to the doctor. Will it go away on it's own? Can I buy medicine at the store for it? If I have sex like tomorrow would I pass it to the guy or could I do something to clear this up and make it safe again? (link)
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Honestly, I am not going to be mean. Just because you slept around with many guys this summer doesn't mean you are a slut. I know people who have dont worse so don't let people get to you. I just wanted to put that out there.
Now, as for the STI, you can go to a clinic yourself and ask to be tested for it without your mom knowing anything about it, but my advice would be to tell your mom you might have it. That doesn't mean you have to tell her everything that you have done or all the guys you have had sex with, but tell her could make your options easier. All parents will get mad when they find out that their kid is sexually active, its how parents are. But you need to go get checked out soon or it could be worse. And yes, You could have passed it on to a guy. Condoms do not protect agaisnt STI's, its proven (also to put that out there). If you have sex while you have a breakout of it, then your partner could get it too. The good thing is, If you do have it then there is medicine that can help you get rid of it. Best of luck to you.
-f.c
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im so tired of being the girl people call the slut.
im not. im 14/f and have only been out with two guys.
i dont dress slutty nor do i act it, im quite hippy so often im maxy dresses. i dont swear and even a virgin, i dont get why people call me a slut.
i hang out with alot of guys but thats only cause the girls do the same thing every lunch.
what can i do to make people see im not who they think i am, i have a brain and am quite reserved.
can you please not say hanging out with the girls more, because i was bullied by them last year and dont really want to start it again. thanks (link)
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Girl, If the girls are calling you a slut because thats how they feel then apparently they think you are threatining. Most girls will do anything mean to others they are jealous of. If you hang out with alot of guys then that could be it. Don't let them get to you and ignore them all. Do your own thing and be proud of it.
-f.c.
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16/F so this might be a dumb question, i dont know, but me and my boyfriend were messing around and we had had sex earlier but he didn't go inside me or anything but than later i gave him a hand job and it went every where and i was on top of him and some could have gone in me... so i don't know if that could be bad. but i am on birth control. so could you help? (link)
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You probably are not pregnant, but if you are really wanting to find out..wait 2 weeks and take the test. Even though you two didn't have intercourse, if the sperm got inside you and reached the egg then you could end up pregnant. Just don't freak out and be calm, its a very rare thing.
-f.c.
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ooook! so if my boyfriend and i havent had sex for a few weeks because i was scared i was pregent, but i had my period yesterday.. is there a chance im pregnant? because ive read that if you have your period then your good but ive also read that some women still had there period even though they were prego?!! (link)
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If you are freaked out because you think that you might be pregnant, but you have your period. Go to a doctor and take the blood test, that is the most accurate way to find out. If your period is on its normal cycle then you probably might not be pregnant, but its always good to double check becuase some women do still get their period when they are pregnant.
-F.c
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I've been in love with my ex who is just my friend. He loves his ex who just wants to be his friend. I'm friends with the girl. I find out if she likes him & she says she doesn't know, he gets mad at her for leading him on for so long. She decides that they should hangout a lot so that she can tell if she likes him or not.
I really just want him to go through the same thing i am.
i really just want to end up together
advice? (link)
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The chances of your friend actually going out with the guy is slim since she says that she is unsure. Most of the time girls will say that and try to spend time with the guy to find out how they feel about him, but most of the time, they don't feel anyting more than the frienship bond.
If you are really in love with the guy, tell him. Don't hold anything back and don't be afriad to get hurt. Just sit him down and tell him how you feel, even if he doesn't feel the same way back, at least he knows.
-F.C
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I'm starting to get a feeling that my boyfriend is losing interest. Its temporary long distance relationship (LDR), we'll see each other again in September.
What do I do? I love him and I don't want it to be over.
In the beginning of the summer we used to text everyday, and then it turned into one word answers on his part, but he'd still text me back right away. Now, if I text him, I'll get a reply late at night with a one word answer.
Things changed about two weeks ago. A week ago we got into a minor disagreement where he lost his temper a little bit, but I apologized the next day and he said I'm good. Since then he won't text me back til the end of the day. I texted him twice first, and he texted me once first.
How much time should I give him before I mention whats going on in our relationship? And I'm not texting him first for a while, unless he texts me first (oh the rules of texting, lol), just to give him some time to himself.
Any advice will be much appreciated
19/f (link)
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I do agree with the calling part. I think that you should call him and talk on the phone. It is alot better than texting, that way you can hear hows he's feeling through his voice. You might want to ask him if he has been busy or how you feel. Nothings better than just telling someone the truth instead of poking around trying to find it out yourself. Good luck hun!
-F.C
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