This summer has been kind of bad for me. I did some not so great things so far, especially for my age (16). I've had sex with probably close to 15 or 20 guys already this summer and one of them was pretty old (like 35). I was falling into some really bad stuff and even accepted money for a few blow jobs.
I am now seeing that this is probably not the best thing to do. I am so glad I am not pregnant but there seems to be this one really big problem.
I started to have some weird discharge from my vagina and burning when I peed. I thought it was just a yeast infection and kind of ignored it. I tried some of that store brand stuff and it didn't go away.
Things kind of got stranger. I had sex with another guy and it was pretty painful but I couldn't figure out why. I started having some lower pains all day long. The pains haven't stopped.
I looked up signs and symptoms of STDs because I was afraid I might have caught something. I do have a lot of the symptoms of chlamydia and I think it's very possible that I have it. Some of the guys I did were...not so clean...
What do I do now? I can't tell my mom about this because she's going to be mad she has to take me to the doctor. Will it go away on it's own? Can I buy medicine at the store for it? If I have sex like tomorrow would I pass it to the guy or could I do something to clear this up and make it safe again?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: STD Information? deadlygorgeous9 answered Monday July 19 2010, 10:36 pm: Honestly, I am not going to be mean. Just because you slept around with many guys this summer doesn't mean you are a slut. I know people who have dont worse so don't let people get to you. I just wanted to put that out there.
Now, as for the STI, you can go to a clinic yourself and ask to be tested for it without your mom knowing anything about it, but my advice would be to tell your mom you might have it. That doesn't mean you have to tell her everything that you have done or all the guys you have had sex with, but tell her could make your options easier. All parents will get mad when they find out that their kid is sexually active, its how parents are. But you need to go get checked out soon or it could be worse. And yes, You could have passed it on to a guy. Condoms do not protect agaisnt STI's, its proven (also to put that out there). If you have sex while you have a breakout of it, then your partner could get it too. The good thing is, If you do have it then there is medicine that can help you get rid of it. Best of luck to you.
xkatiex answered Saturday July 17 2010, 11:49 pm: You're an idiot. If you're going to be a slut, use condoms. Then you wont get STDs. Serves you right for being a whore! Go to a clinic and get some antibiotics before it gets worse and u lose the ability to have children when you're older.
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In response to your feedback... I have this to say:
Condoms DO protect you against STDs. How about YOU get informed. Stop sleeping around. Have respect for yourself and your body!! [ xkatiex's advice column | Ask xkatiex A Question ]
OhMyLucyDarling answered Friday July 16 2010, 1:58 am: See a Gynecologist
Also, Stop prostituting yourself because basically that's what you did and start using your head more. This is not healthy, and a 35 year old man is old enough to be your frigging father for Christ sake. [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
fixer44 answered Friday July 16 2010, 12:53 am: Well, I really hate to say this, but you are describing textbook symptoms of Chlamydia- the discharge, the burhing, the abdominal pain (with possible PID). Look, it's an infection, and requires fairly strong antibiotics. There should be a clinic you can go to for privacy and for little cost. At this stage of the infection, you will most likely pass it on to anyone you have sex with. [ fixer44's advice column | Ask fixer44 A Question ]
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