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I feel like I got something moving in my stomach....thing is I've had my periods like normal an everything I just had it two weeks ago an I havn't done anything! thats kinda weird to me, feels like gas sometimes but a day ago I had an upset stomach, but now it feels like the gas is in my stomach! any advise anyone? :( (link)
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I prefer the pink liquid for digestive pains; it lines the tract very well. However, keep track of the degree of the pain, and the location. If the pain worsens, the pain area becomes firm, the pain becomes sharp, or does NOT move anywhere- seek medical attention.
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What can I do to be the center of attention at school this year? I'm tired of being overlooked. I dont want to do anything extremely bold though. (link)
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Without knowing the year of school you're in, many kids want attention because they are feeling undervalued or ignored. This directly attacks their self esteem. Be proud to be you. Work hard, respect those who deserve it, and spend time with friends.
Ways to get attention vary, but some are: academic achievement (IE good grades), standing up for those in need (usually when it goes against a group or click), be the first to answer questions in class, be the first out on the dance floor, where clothes that you like (even if they aren't the same as your classmates).
Just be sure you're wanting attention for the right reasons, such as an earned achievement or an incredible discovery, not vanity or selfishness.
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My boyfriend and I got back together, the night we did though he was explaining something personal to me, how he had been hurt really bad by his ex... and I know he loves me unconditionally... but the way he looked when he said her name... it makes me wonder if i'm his second choice.. that if she moved back that maybe i wouldn't even exist anymore.. and it scares me more than anything because i would go to the ends of the earth for him and only him.. and i'm scared that he feels the same way i do about her but he thinks he feels that way about me... i'm willing to be patient... i know he loves me and cares for me... i just wonder if he cares and loves her more.. but doesn't let anyone know...he gave something to me he said he'd give to only one girl in the world... but that fear is still there.. am i just paranoid? (link)
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Well, you're not being paranoid. Matters of love are very important. I think he was simply trying to express his feelings to you about his past relationship. I actually applaud the fact that he's so open and honest about it. It's tough for us guys to open up sometimes. Just let him know how you feel often, and your relationship is only going to grow. Besides, even IF his ex comes back, hopefully your guy is smart enough to realize that she isn't reliable and would probably leave again. After all the worrying, just understand that life goes by quickly and no matter what- spend this lifetime with those you love.
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do younger people both girls and guysz orgasn faster than older girls and guys? (link)
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I wouldn't say younger people are quicker to orgasm. However, I believe men, in general are quicker than women.
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I came to a point in my life where I just don't like anybody I think people are real stupid they don't even use comon sense and they do stupid things all the time at least I think before I do is there something wrong with me I guess I was brought up to work hard and earn what u get but it seems to me that now days people expect everything to be hande to them on a silver plater I know wh3n I was young my dad didn't hesitgate to use a belt on me if I was to get in trouble now if you as a parent spank a child that's wrong but that's the whole problem today parents let their children control them insted of the parent controling the child why do you think the prison poulation is so huge because it started as a child NO DISIPLIN but what I'm geting at is why do I hate people (link)
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You're not the only one that feels this way. The entire family dynamic has been nearly destroyed. Children are definitely lacking discipline. Parents are determined to make their children happy- no matter what the cost. I'm not sure if they, the parents, aren't happy with their lives or just don't care- but the problem is getting worse.
Children are growing up thinking that they deserve everything- food, clothing, a home, the new cell phone, etc.
However, there is a small portion, inc. parents, that are still using the good judgement. So, don't give up. Most people aren't stupid- they're just lazy and complacent.
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I met this guy, Kory, about a year ago. We hit it off quick, but later I found out he had a girlfriend the entire time we were seeing eachother.
We've worked hard to get to the point we're at now, where we can have a friendship, because everytime we've tried in the past he's made it impossible by bringing feelings into it.
Now, I'm dating this guy named Matt. He's great. But Kory, who's also friends with Matt, had a problem with us dating. He say's he's too controling for me,and too needy. He also threatens to kick Matt's ass if he ever hurts me, physically, or emotionaly.
It seems like he really does care, and he's told me he still has feelings for me saying:
"I'm not saying I want to date you, but I still do have feelings for you".
Everybody we're both friends with tells me he still cares about me and likes me, and always talks about me.
Typically he dates picture perfect girls who let him do what he wants, and walk all over them. Me, I'm not the type to let anybody walk over me. So why am I different?
What do I think? Why is this boy who cares about nobody,and nothing twisting my brain like this? (link)
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Well, I can't really tell you what your're thinking. Heh, especially not from a few sentences.
It seems to me that Kory definitely has feelings for you. Whether or not he wants to 'date' doesn't seem like a big deal- since he enjoys spending time with you. What he probably means is that he's not ready to go 'steady', or be with you only. He's playing the field a bit and having some fun. Most guys need to feel that they have done certain things with women, before 'settling down' with the right one. Offering protection from others, including your new boyfriend, is somewhat nice, but can come off as controlling- just make sure his intentions are right.
Interestingly, the fact that he's driving you crazy tells me that you probably have feelings for him- most likely feelings that come from more than a friendship. Also, I can't tell you why you're more confident and/or controlling than the other girls he dates. There are a number of factors that account for that.
One last thing that I'd like to say. As a guy, it's often difficult for me to express how I feel. You have to understand, most guys can speak up but we don't always choose the right words. I hope that makes sense.
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you resonded to my question about if it was weird to shave my arms. im not talking about my under arms, i shave them, but im talking abou tif guys think hair on your actually arm is gross. the little hair on my arms are blonde so thats not bad, they dont look bad, but im so worried if guys think that its gross. so is it? (link)
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Oh. Well, everyone has a little peach fuzz on their arms, even girls. I don't think it's a turn off, unless it were long- over 1/4". Plus, your hair color seems to be on the lighter side, so it will stand out even less. I think you'll be fine.
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I started dating my boyfriend a month and 1/2 ago and he's been good to me. Unfortunately, I keep wanting to call him the wrong name. I dated a guy for awhile last year and for some strange reason when I open my mouth the wrong name starts to come out.
I usually catch myself before I let it slip but it's getting on my nerves. I don't want to hurt his feelings or make him think that I'm thinking of another guy. How can I make this stop? I want to call my BF the RIGHT name. haha (link)
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First off, if you make a mistake- quickly apologize. No one likes being called the wrong name. There are two things I would recommend trying: 1) Use his real name at all times during a conversation for the next two weeks. For instance, instead of saying 'you' or 'him', use his first name; and 2) Say his name out loud to yourself. You'd be surprised the effect hearing your own voice has when remembering names. That's why I always try to repeat someone's name when I'm first introduced.
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hi. so this my be a weird question. but hey, this is what this site is for right?
well i hate hair (besides on my head).
well i was wondering if girls (but mainly guys) thinks its weird to shave my arms
i have before, but my step sister thought it was kind of weird.
well i would like opinions of this.
please and thank you. (link)
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From a guys perspective, hair under your arms is ugly. I can honestly tell you that a little stubble isn't a big deal, but keep it shaved. Shaving or waxing is the way to go.
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I am a victim of internet fraud and i want that website to be banned and to be shut down. to whom i will ask for help? (link)
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The best site is www.RIPOFFREPORT.com for reporting any type of internet fraud. It lets many others know what's going on. It also gets occassional tv coverage as well.
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i'm 19, going into my sophomore year of college. last month me and my best friend/roommates got citations for minor in possession of alcohol. we were on private property and all blew low [i blew a .007] and it was our first offense so we were praying to get some leniency but didn't. anyway we went to court 2 days ago, pled guilty, and now have fines and 6 months probation with alcohol classes & drug/alcohol tests. our PO is supposed to talk to the judge about the first offender plea to try to help us out and clear this from our record. we've realized our wrongs, have not drank since and dont plan on it. what i'm worried about now is this staying on my record and interfering with my future. ironically im in school studying criminal justice/forensics. it's a misdemeanor charge, but regardless will i even have a shot at my desired career with this on my record? like i said its my first offense so i really have no idea what to expect or think. can anyone give a little insight on this?
we live in Georgia if it matters. thanks! (link)
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Don't know too much about Georgia, but it can't be any more strict than California- so I will do my best to answer. When you become an adult and are convicted of a crime- it stays on your record. Even if you have the records sealed- it does not prevent law enforcement or the government from looking at it (even juvenile records are kept, just not weighed heavily). Any career that is going to require a background investigation or check, will know this information. So, I would recommend being up front about the misdemeanor conviction. Most likely, you will be given some slack since it was basically an underage drinking situation, and your BAC was less than 1%. In terms of your career, go for it. Talk with your future employers about the situation. Call and talk with the FBI before your background investigation- if you have questions. Put it this way, there are cops working today who were smoking pot in their late teens. No one is perfect- period. Everyone has something that needs explaining to get a job in government or emergency services.
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I forgot to take my pill one day, but I was only late by about 14 hours. I've been spotting for over 48 hours now and it's really annoying. The weird thing for me is that when it's time to take the placebo pills, it usually takes about 2 days to get my period, not 14 hours. (I've been on it for almost a year now) Is this normal? If this has happened to anyone else, how long will it take to go away?? (I'm not having sex so I'm not worried about getting pregnant, I just want to know when this will be over)
Thanks! (link)
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Taking your pill late by 14 hours isn't a big deal. As long as you don't miss two days in a row- you should have any issues. Most medications aren't flushed out of your body in 24 hours; especially if you've been on the same medication for several months. Some spotting can be normal when on the pill- your doctor should have explained this. Spotting for 2 days doesn't seem strange either. The period pills, or placebo pills, allow your natural cycle to occur. Again, taking two days for this to occur doesn't seem abnormal. If the spotting doesn't go away with the next day- I would recommend going to your doctor.
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What do you say when the guy you like
asks you who you like but don't want to sound corny? (link)
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Sound corny? Huh? As in funny? Being a guy, I can tell you that if I ask a girl if she likes me- all I want is a honest answer. Answer him truthfully and with a smile.
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okay so my medication comes in packets, like you pop them out and i wanted to put them into a pill bottle(just because its easier for me). A pill bottle like this one http://www.globalpackagegallery.com/main.php?g2_view=core.DownloadItem&g2_itemId=26972&g2_serialNumber=2 would i be able to use that heron(panadol)pill bottle to put MY pills in it and still not go bad? because ive been told once you pop the pill out of the packets, that they go bad so i want to know if i can stop them going bad if i put them in the bottle. (link)
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I would not advise reusing pill bottles. This can create all sorts of bad situations. Also, many pills come separated for a reason. Many can be sensitive to light or moisture. Finally, NEVER store different pills in the same container. The only exception to this rule, is if your organization daily pills in a weekly case. If you do this, PLEASE for the love of God or anyone else, make a list of your medications for emergency personnel.
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well this girl ive liked for a long time finnaly dumped her bf for me and weve been going outfor a couple hours and this girl ive liked a longer time said shes dumping her bf and that she likes me and think me and the girl im going out with will only say together about 1 or 2 weeks so i want her to dump me so i wnt be like a jerk and that she wont talk to me and never go out again . please hep. i need advice . i really dont know what to do. (link)
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Wow. I would figure out who I really cared about. Seems like this second girl didn't give you any attention until you were 'taken'. It's hard to tell after reading your post of 4 lines. Usually, the one I think about the most, is the one I want to be with more.
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I want to start masturbation so I don't have to have sex to get an orgasm. I am a female. How do I start masturbating? My friend says she mastibates often and I want to too but I don't know what to do. I don't have any dildo or anything so I am confused... (link)
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First off, find a place you can relax without fear of interruption (unless that gets you off). Next, pick any material you enjoy to look at. Then, put your mind in whatever fantasy you enjoy. Finally, for a female, you can start touching your clitoris. On a female, the clitoris is the most sensitive part of the vagina; compared to the head of a penis on a man. The clitoris is located on the top most part of the labia minora. Try using your finger just to the inside of the top hood section. You'll have to try it yourself, obviously, to find the right spot. Believe it or not, MOST girls actually get off more by clitoral stimulation that by vaginal insertion. If you want to get a dildo, try one that fits your size the best. However, I would recommend a small vibrator for starters. You can use the vibrator to stimulate your clit, which should get you excited very easily.
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This summer has been kind of bad for me. I did some not so great things so far, especially for my age (16). I've had sex with probably close to 15 or 20 guys already this summer and one of them was pretty old (like 35). I was falling into some really bad stuff and even accepted money for a few blow jobs.
I am now seeing that this is probably not the best thing to do. I am so glad I am not pregnant but there seems to be this one really big problem.
I started to have some weird discharge from my vagina and burning when I peed. I thought it was just a yeast infection and kind of ignored it. I tried some of that store brand stuff and it didn't go away.
Things kind of got stranger. I had sex with another guy and it was pretty painful but I couldn't figure out why. I started having some lower pains all day long. The pains haven't stopped.
I looked up signs and symptoms of STDs because I was afraid I might have caught something. I do have a lot of the symptoms of chlamydia and I think it's very possible that I have it. Some of the guys I did were...not so clean...
What do I do now? I can't tell my mom about this because she's going to be mad she has to take me to the doctor. Will it go away on it's own? Can I buy medicine at the store for it? If I have sex like tomorrow would I pass it to the guy or could I do something to clear this up and make it safe again? (link)
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Well, I really hate to say this, but you are describing textbook symptoms of Chlamydia- the discharge, the burhing, the abdominal pain (with possible PID). Look, it's an infection, and requires fairly strong antibiotics. There should be a clinic you can go to for privacy and for little cost. At this stage of the infection, you will most likely pass it on to anyone you have sex with.
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I gave this guy head at my school. He really wanted me to do it so I did. No, it wasn't my first time giving a blow job though.
Now I heard that he has some STD or something. I don't know much about it. It could be a straight rumor for all I know about this. I just want to know if I'm clean because I've been doing some stuff with my BF lately.
My boyfriend would totally kill me if I gave him something. haha
Can you get STDs in your throat or mouth or am I safe? Can I test myself some way without having to go all the way to the doctor? (link)
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To answer your first question: Yes, you can get a sexually transmitted disease via your mouth. Often, all it takes is bodily fluid contact for the transmission to occur. If you're first partner had a STD and you gave him a BJ, for instance, you could get that STD. Depending on what disease it was, it probably wouldn't stay just in your mouth. It would be in your entire body. Therefore, any sexual acts you perform with your second partner could result in giving him that disease.
For your second question: At this point, I am not aware of ANY at home STD testing kits that are accurate. There are most likely clinics in your area that will maintain your privacy, and are inexpensive.
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My boyfriend and I were fooling around last month or so and we ended up having sex. We used protection though because we're both 15 and a baby is something we do NOT need right now. I had bought a small box of condoms just a few days before then, luckily.
So, we had sex and I had lost my virginity to him. I wasn't really worried about getting pregnant because I thought we were safe and doing it responsibly by using a condom. We had a great time but haven't had sex since then, by the way.
Now I am having a serious problem. My period hasn't come yet and it's pretty late (which is REALLY weird for me). I went out and bought a pregnancy test from the store and took it. It showed the positive sign on it so I guess I'm pregnant.
How'd I get pregnant? This doesn't even make sense to me! I mean, for one I was a VIRGIN. For two, we used a CONDOM. I didn't even have an orgasm when we were actually having sex. Is it really possible to get pregnant even though we used a condom?
My mom is going to be sooo mad! :( (link)
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First off, the fact that you were a virgin has nothing to do getting pregnant- it can happen ever time. Secondly, orgasms, again, have no effect on getting pregnant. So, back to the condom issue. If he was wearing a condom the ENTIRE time you were having sex, the likelihood would be low that you his sperm could enter your vagina. However, it doesn't take much of his fluid to fertilize one of your eggs. Other things to consider is whether or not is was properly put on or if the condom was defective (IE porous); again, even a small amout of semen could cause the pregnancy.
I would recommend going to your doctor or clinic, many are very inexpensive and have them run a pregnancy test. After that, you can make the decision of what to do from there.
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