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Romantic Feelings for Online Friend


Question Posted Thursday July 15 2010, 9:21 pm

I have been talking to this girl online for awhile now. She is really nice and kind even though she lives a few states away from me. I really enjoy chatting with her almost every evening. She has been a good friend to me.

Well, I am starting to have these feelings for her. I know she is real and is who she says she is so please don't go on about how she could be a serial killer posing as a teenage girl. She has been completely honest with me and there is so much about her that I really like and want.

Is it wrong to have feelings for her? She has only been an online friend to me even though I've had these feelings starting for a little while now. Should I tell her that I like her? Should I try to turn my online friendship into a relationship? Even if I don't pursue a relationship with her should I still tell her that I'm developing these...feelings?

Thank you.


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vikkikimberly answered Sunday July 25 2010, 5:39 pm:
i say do it :) im in the best relationship ever through and online meeeting =)

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Faith42 answered Friday July 16 2010, 7:51 pm:
Well online relationships...can start into something great xD It doesn't matter that she lives a few states away, long distance relationships can work. I met my boy friend..from a mutal friend of facebook, and we've been dating sense January 5 >.< I met him and I've never expierenced anything so great! <3 No its not wrong to have feelings for her! You can't help the way you feel. :) Please do tell her, you never know what could happen. You never know she could be feeling the exactly the same thing. <3
I hope I helped and good luck ! :)

-Emily <3

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AnonmousHelper answered Friday July 16 2010, 1:18 am:
I think you should tell her exactly how you feel. Most likely she feels the exact same way. If not she'll understand.If she likes her try and make a relationship out of it. You cant live your lifes sayin "What if?" So go for it.

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keepitsimple answered Friday July 16 2010, 12:10 am:
Your case is not uncommon, even before the internet people fell in love writing letters to each other.

As for breaking the ice. You gotta just tell her how much you appreciate her. You don't have to start with the words "I love you", but let her know a little bit about how you feel, that you really enjoy talking with her and that you think she is a great person, etc.

How about copy and paste the question you wrote above and see what she thinks... What you wrote there sounds very sincere.

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