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boys.
Posted Tuesday August 15 2006, 12:12 pm
well i really like these 2 guys but the one guy broke up with me and his life is really messed up but hes willing to take me back and the other guy is soo nice and sweet but i like the other guy more. im a 13 year old female.
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cheating ex-boyfriend
Posted Tuesday August 15 2006, 9:31 am
about a 6 months ago i caught my b/f cheating on me. we were going out for about two years before that and i thought everything was perfect. no warning signs or anything. it hurt me really bad. after that i wouldnt go out with anyone because im so afraid that they'll hurt me like he did. i guess i have a huge trust problem. now theres this guy i like but i just cant go out with him. i know i should because he seems like the perfect guy, but so did my ex. thats my first problem. the other one is that i saw my ex a couple of weeks ago and that brought back old feelings. and he started to call me a few times too. i thought i was over him but now that hes made an appearance im not so sure. he says that he thinks we could patch things up and go ...
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Torn between two loves
Posted Tuesday August 15 2006, 8:32 am
Hi there. This is the first time asking advice like this. First let me start by saying. I am a 31 years old man.
now for my problem.
I have been with the same woman for 12-13 years. we have had 2 children together, one of whom passed away last year and the other that was just born this year. Lately we've been going throughsome rough times. She has been playing with my emotions. A virtual rollercoaster ride. One day i try to cuddle get intimate, and she'll say "We shouldn't do this" the next she's kissing me pationately. The problem i have, is that i have feelings for her how ever dwindled that they are, while exhibiting feelings for another woman. One who has captivated me over the last few weeks. <...
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i know he is useing me but i dont knoe what to do about him.
Posted Tuesday August 15 2006, 5:09 am
I really like this boy but know he is useing me. he and i are "friends with benifits" It doesn't matter how much i tell myself he doesn't like me, i just can't keep myself from callig him, answering his calls and hanging out with him..I don't know what to do about him and he's all i think about.could someone please just try and help me decided what to do about him?
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relationships
Posted Tuesday August 15 2006, 4:06 am
Hey my name is Rachel and my bofriend jesse and i are both 17 years old and the problem is that we don't have any classes together and my mom won't let me see him after school i've talked to her about it I talk to him on the phone quite alot and the only time I ever see him is about 15 minutes at breakfast before the bell rings at school what should I do?
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stay or leave him
Posted Tuesday August 15 2006, 2:26 am
if a guy says he luves and then wen he wit his friends he starts to act diffrently tease and hurts me but i dumped him but when i did i felt so lonely and empty inside like i'm missing something then i kan't stopp thinking about him should i get back together with him or stay alone until i find someone better?
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kissing
Posted Tuesday August 15 2006, 1:47 am
i am not really sure how to KISS a guy, there is this one guy that i like and i know that he knows how to kiss good and i am gonna ask him out but if he says yes at sometime we are gonna kiss right??? so um how do u kiss or makeout with a guy and i am to embarrased to ask my mom or any of my friends.
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depresion
Posted Tuesday August 15 2006, 1:43 am
all of my friends have boyfriends, everytime i sleep over one of they houses they talk on the phone wit them and i tend to get really depressed cause i dont have one... there is this guy that i reeeally like and i think he miight like me but i am not exactly sure i want to ask him out but i am to afraid...what can i do to handle the depression and what do i do about asking him out?
ADVISE PLEASE!!
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I'm in love with my teacher
Posted Tuesday August 15 2006, 1:10 am
I came to a new school in April and met a great bunch of guys who are into the same music as me and who get me. They're really good friends with one of the young teachers we have, so they introduced me to him and we all usually hang out together at school.
I thought that I had a crush on the teacher but I left it thinking that he was just young and my hormones were going crazy (as a young girls do haha). The thing is, we got really close from April to June and he kept me after class once and we kissed.
We've been seeing each other, not a lot, but in secret this summer. He was at my house when one of my guy friends walked in on us kissing. Dave (my friend) is one of my best friends so I don't know if he will tell the rest of th...
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hard to get
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 11:37 pm
i have a guy friend who was definitely in to me at some point. he called me every night, and we talked on the phone for hours at a time -- sometimes until seven in the morning. we never ran out of things to say, and if we did, the silence wasn't awkward for us. i told him many times that i didn't want a boyfriend, and wasn't interested in any one at that time. when he kept asking about it, i told him maybe there was one guy i sort of liked, but i know he was positive it wasn't him. (even though it was) basically, i played hard to get to the highest degree possible, but it turned out wrong for me. i made it seem like i didn't like him at all, maybe not even want to be his friend. now he has a girlfriend, and i don't know what to do. he's in ...
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hard to get
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 11:36 pm
i have a guy friend who was definitely in to me at some point. he called me every night, and we talked on the phone for hours at a time -- sometimes until seven in the morning. we never ran out of things to say, and if we did, the silence wasn't awkward for us. i told him many times that i didn't want a boyfriend, and wasn't interested in any one at that time. when he kept asking about it, i told him maybe there was one guy i sort of liked, but i know he was positive it wasn't him. (even though it was) basically, i played hard to get to the highest degree possible, but it turned out wrong for me. i made it seem like i didn't like him at all, maybe not even want to be his friend. now he has a girlfriend, and i don't know what to do. he's in ...
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Bleh.
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 11:17 pm
I know this question isn't as important as most of these on here, but this bothers me! Ok, so there's this guy (haha classic opening line.) and we've kinda been talking and hanging out all summer, so uhm..yeah. let's just call him ian. So anyway, I was online tonight, and this guy who a long time told me he liked me (let's call him Charlie.) and he knows I don't like him, yet he told me to call him. Ok. One, I don't like him.& Two, I don't want to like you go behind ian's back or anything..not that we're going out. Charlie has talked to me before and told me to like meet him at Tacobell. (The only places to hang out around here are fast food restraunts, haha.) but you know I don't like him! and when he told me to call him, i told hima l...
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Jealous, distrusting, afraid of being replaced
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 11:12 pm
I have sort of asked this question before, but I rambled on and on and didn't really get the right point across, so this should make more sense of things:
I am 28/f. I'm married. We have been in marriage therapy for about 2 months now. DH has a history of hiding things from me, often important things. This makes it hard for me to trust him. He has a female best friend. When we started therapy, things were really bad and he felt he shouldn't stay at home. He made plans to live with her. The therapist made it clear that that would not help at all, so he stayed at home. We have made a great deal of progress over the past couple months and have been very happy together. This past week, however, he slipped into old habits. I found things ...
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Being comfortable
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 9:10 pm
When I get a new boyfriend, it takes me a while to be comfortable around him. Even if we've been friends before, theres always a couple days of ackwardness for some reason, before we get like super close.
I want to know, how do I send my boyfriend signals like, that I want to hug him, hold his hand, kiss him, etc. Cause, we've only been going out for 3 days, but sometime I just want to wrap my arms around him. I don't want to "just do it" cause .. that would be weird. Hah, thanks!
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gf
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 6:40 pm
i just got a gf a week ago and i'm really shy and i really want to get over it cuz i get really shy and stuff wen i'm with her around other people and i stop talking and get akward can someone plz tell me a way to get over being shy
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what should i do?
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 5:28 pm
okay, well, i went to this one school until 5th grade, and it was really small!!, and i started going to school in a big town. i just moved back to my old school in march of 7th grade. i had changed a whole bunch!! (not to brag, but i got really pretty!!) and everybody still treats me ALMOST the same!! which is good!! so everything is ALMOST like it was, right? WRONG!! i kind of have a crush on this boy that i had known since i was 4!! we dont talk to each other that much, but i mean i had gone to his house a few times when we were little. its a weird relationship. but, i have no clue what he would say if i asked him out!! what should i do?
I will answer to questions you have about the situation!!
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ADVICE ASAP
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 5:26 pm
ok me and my boyfriend got in a fight this morning and he went to work and he told me he would stop by when he got out because we needed to talk and im so scared what if he breaks up with me.. any advice on what to think or how to get my mind off of it hes not gunna be out of work till midnight so i need to keep my mind off of it help as soon as possible
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fighting
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 5:09 pm
me and my boyfriend have been going out for six months, but we fight alot. and its just terrible and it makes me feel bad and him feel bad. But we are so in love, and when were not fighting we have the best of times and we can talk to eachother about anything. And i just dont want to loose all that because were fighting. and i think we fight is because sometimes i dont feel like he treats me well but he does i just like to be pampered and i am very jealous, i just want to overcome those things so me and my boyfriend have a better chance of lasting longer. any advice on how to stop all this fighting?
also, i want to know how to spice up or change our relationship around a little bit to make things moreinteresting and f...
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is this guy jealous of something that didnt happen..
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 4:39 pm
16 female-
but ok this might be kind of long but bare with me..last night two of my friends and me went to our friend TJ's house because it was his 15th birthday and his cousin david thats my age was over there and his girlfriend and this other kid jake. well at like 1030 last night david takes my phone and starts calling people and called my good friend joe. i couldnt do anything about because i didnt even know he was talking to joe or even called him until later and he told joe that i wasnt doing so good and i was getting naked and stuff even though i WASNT. but then today i get on AIM and my friend joe i/m me and is like hey blah blah and then he is like so what happened last night missy and im like ohmygosh did someone ca...
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2 guys .. 1 me
Posted Monday August 14 2006, 4:16 pm
I've been dating my best friend for almost a month. I really care about him, but right before we started dating i met another guy. At first i had no interest in him, and now that ive gotten to know him, im really beginning to like him. I'm 16, my boyfriends 18, and this other guy is 22. I really like this 22 year old guy, and he really likes me. Today one of his friends took me and my best friend and the guy I like out to the woods to walk on some trails. The guy I like and I were holding hands like the whole time. On our way home, we stopped to get food and drinks and I was alone with this guys friend. I was asking him about the guy i like and he told me that hes never seen him act like that around a girl. He's never been the type t...
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