me and my boyfriend have been going out for six months, but we fight alot. and its just terrible and it makes me feel bad and him feel bad. But we are so in love, and when were not fighting we have the best of times and we can talk to eachother about anything. And i just dont want to loose all that because were fighting. and i think we fight is because sometimes i dont feel like he treats me well but he does i just like to be pampered and i am very jealous, i just want to overcome those things so me and my boyfriend have a better chance of lasting longer. any advice on how to stop all this fighting?
also, i want to know how to spice up or change our relationship around a little bit to make things moreinteresting and fun.
p.s. my boyfriend recenlty got a job at this place where he has to work from 3 in the afternoon to 12 at night.. so things are hard and sunday is his only day off
justaskVy answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 3:14 am: well, fighting is not always a badd things nor a good thing. But when you two have an arguement, you both learn something about one another. I know girls like to be pamper. I myself would want my boyfriend to pamper me. All you have to do is be honest with him and let him know how you feel the way he treats you. In a good relationship is HONESTY. When you and your bf are fightin, tell him is it helpin taht you guys are fightin? .. or be calm and talk about it. Jealousy isn't a big thing. Everyone get jealous. yoOh get jealous because you care. As for your bf .. you shouldn't want to change a thing about yourself over a guy. He should be able to lOve you for who you are. that what makes the relationship strong. He lOves you for your true self. He should be able to understand how you feel and your actions.
well i hope things work out for you both. ='] [ justaskVy's advice column | Ask justaskVy A Question ]
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