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i just got a gf a week ago and i'm really shy and i really want to get over it cuz i get really shy and stuff wen i'm with her around other people and i stop talking and get akward can someone plz tell me a way to get over being shy
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Hey,
In the first couple of weeks in any relationship there is always these moments of akwardness, and its like you feel so shy and you don't know what to say or do or act around your girlfreind or boyfreind, because its just all new to you and you want to make a good impression. But then after sometime, you get used to it and you start messing around and having lots of fun and living the role of the boyfreind.
So don't worry, its always like this, its not ubnormal or something. At least, try to talk to her alot when not around people and get to know her well, and then later on, when you know her, you will be surprised to find yourself talking in public infront of everyone. Besides, there is nothing to feel shy about, your not doing something wrong or funny or humiliating, and everyone else walks around with their girlfreinds joking and fooling around ,hugging and making out. So its cool , and i am sure that she really likes you and thinks that your great, and she probably shy around you too. lol. So have some confidence in yourself, and just act cool and natural.
Goodluck:) and if you need any other advice, please be free to contact me.
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this doesnt answer your question but shy guys are hot..its like there bad boys who dont get caught haha i kno that sounds weird
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Being a girl...I can honestly say that the shyness thing makes guy seem cuter. But, shyness, in my opinion, is something everyone has to get over.
If you are with a group of people and your girlfriend...you should feel less shy because she's there...and she already thinks you are great (she wouldn't be dating you if she didn't think so), so her presence should make you feel a little more at ease. Try not to freak out and make it awkward...keep the conversation flowing. someone thinks you are a great guy, so you can obviously charm other people too.
You'll do fine, if you just relax =]
Much Luck,
Teacup
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