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2 guys .. 1 me
I've been dating my best friend for almost a month. I really care about him, but right before we started dating i met another guy. At first i had no interest in him, and now that ive gotten to know him, im really beginning to like him. I'm 16, my boyfriends 18, and this other guy is 22. I really like this 22 year old guy, and he really likes me. Today one of his friends took me and my best friend and the guy I like out to the woods to walk on some trails. The guy I like and I were holding hands like the whole time. On our way home, we stopped to get food and drinks and I was alone with this guys friend. I was asking him about the guy i like and he told me that hes never seen him act like that around a girl. He's never been the type to walk around holding hands and to show affection.
Should I break up with my boyfriend and just be friends with him and date this other guy? Or should I leave it alone and just stay with my boyfriend??
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i think that you are pretty young for a 22 year old and even 18 is kind of old but i think that your boyfriend you can always trust but the other guy you dont know so well and s probably ready for things that you arent and looking for something your not. you should stick with the boyfriend
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if yu feel more effection tord wun guy then the other take the guy yu reall ylove listen to ur heart not ur brain on this wun whitch guy makes yuu happiee whitch guy will be able to take kare of yuu..answer those questions to urself..
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Youre kinda failing your boyfreinds trust in you like this.He trusted you,how can you do this to the poor guy?Would YOU like it if that happened to you?This guys 22 wayyy tooo old.He can be playing around and just wants to have sex with you.What goes around comes around and if you dump your boyfreind for this guy,this guy can dump YOU for another girl.And besides,if you dump your boyfreind for him,the 22 year old guy will never be able to trust you,therefore he will use you for sex.He will think,i cant have anything serious with this girl!If she dumped him for me then she will definetly dump me for someone eles.Stay with your boyfreind is the best advice you can get.
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well, this is kind've a tricky situation. first, you are only 16 & he's 22. that can get him into big trouble [if you choose to date]. even though your bf is 18, that's only 2 years. you have to totally trust this guy before you even think of doing anything. since you're confused, you should probably tell your bf this & break up. it wouldn't be fair to him to drag him along if you might break up with him anyway. so be honest. you probably wouldn't feel that great if you break up with your bf & this other guy turns out to be a loser. your parents might not be too happy with this [only because he's over 18] & what not. maybe try making a pros/cons list. you need to figure out all the situations before you decide. definately talk this out with your bf & the other guy though.
-hope that helped!♥
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