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cheating ex-boyfriend
about a 6 months ago i caught my b/f cheating on me. we were going out for about two years before that and i thought everything was perfect. no warning signs or anything. it hurt me really bad. after that i wouldnt go out with anyone because im so afraid that they'll hurt me like he did. i guess i have a huge trust problem. now theres this guy i like but i just cant go out with him. i know i should because he seems like the perfect guy, but so did my ex. thats my first problem. the other one is that i saw my ex a couple of weeks ago and that brought back old feelings. and he started to call me a few times too. i thought i was over him but now that hes made an appearance im not so sure. he says that he thinks we could patch things up and go out again. i told him that we could never because i wouldnt trust him. he says that he made a mistake and that hes sorry. its like i like him but i hate him. i dont know what to think anymore.
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Aw hun <3 this sounds EXACTLY like what i went through a few months ago i was wit some boy for 2 years and he cheated on me a few times. i always took him back though. then i realized i dont deserve that sp we broke up. and i still love him so much but i hate the crap out of him to. Because of him i have major trust issues with everyone i meet and im scared all the time when a boy wants me. but then like the perfect guy wanted to be with me. and i was scared at first but eventually i said yes. Now i am happy and its alot easier to get over the boy i was wit before. im forgetting him more and more each day...
so what i am saying is...try and get over it. go with that boy that u think is perfect. you have to go through alot of pain to get to real love. nothing comes easy. you never fall out of love untill you begin to fall for someone else. it may take time but soon, you'll be happy again. hope i helped.<333 good luck.
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Just because he says sorry doesnt mean he means it! He cold do it again if he felt like it and after ruining all the years and months you were together i wouldnt trust him. Just keep moving on go out with the other guy!
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If he cheated on you after 1.4 perfect years what will stop him to hurt you again?
I perfectly understand the trust problem ..but heyyyyyyyy don't let this experience keeps you away from having nice times in your life
To cheat on a someone is hurting him or her ...You would never hurt a person you trutly love right?
So my advice to you is to let him in the past and move on
Hope I helped
Good luck!!
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You still have feelings for the ex because you haven't moved on. Why go back to someone you KNOW
can hurt you again?
Try dating the new guy. Every relationship has the potential to hurt you. Even a good relationship. But, you have to try. Remember no two people are alike, and most are not out to hurt you.
Good luck with whatever you try...just try something! :)
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