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my ex likes me again


Posted Friday September 22 2006, 9:58 pm

14/f well, i meet this guy down town and we hung out for a littel while. before he left to go back to where he lives (about an hour away) we exchanged screen names. we talke dfor a bout a month or so before we decided to start soem sort of a relationship. he was too clingie though, and called everyday. he always said how he cant stop thinking about me, but after a while, i didn't liek it. i didn't know hwo to tell him though. so i broke it off. he still talkes to my friend zack though, adn it turns out that he still likes me. i feel that i broke it off and that i left things unfinished, but im afraid that if i call, he will start to like me more again. what can i do?

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i like the popular guy


Posted Friday September 22 2006, 9:55 pm

i know that everyone likes the popular guy but i really like him. i have lunch with him and we talk but normally just about sports or the math homework. he's a year older than me. basically i want to know how to talk to him and have a decent conversation and hint to him that i like him without publically humiliating myself and getting hurt if he doesn't like me back.

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messed up... need help


Posted Friday September 22 2006, 9:52 pm

14/f

i messed up with my boyfriend. i feel horrible.

ian and i have been going out for 3 months now. i just told him something big about my life that i think he should've known. i told him that i have cut myself before. he flipped out.

he also said that he was gonna end the relationship until i can prove to him that i really want to stay in it (from something else that i did i think). what can i do? talking to him on the phone wont help.

any ideas on what i should do?

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concert date!!


Posted Friday September 22 2006, 9:22 pm

I am thinking about taking a girl i like to the Panic! at the Disco concert coming to Charlotte, NC. I've been to concerts before, but never been to a concert date like with a girl. How do these work out? Could I have any tips on how to make this date successful?

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Miserable


Posted Friday September 22 2006, 8:52 pm

13/f


Lately Ive been miserable
I like this one guy who ive liked on and off for 3 years and he likes my friend.
We were really close over the summer and now that we are back at school he likes her, and he barely talks to me and he is sometimes mean to me.
But then if we are alone, hes pretty nice to me.
And the more people say hes hot, it makes me sad and mad .
I just dont know what to do!

please help!

ps ive never had a boyfriend and ive only like 5 boys in my life.


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Is my marriage over?


Posted Friday September 22 2006, 7:45 pm

We're both 21, and we've been married two years.

He never listens to anything I say. He'll walk out the door, leave the room, or start yelling about one of his "stock" arguments every time I try to bring up something serious like his spending, driving on a suspended license, or needing to take more responsibility for our toddler.

Even if I think he's listening, and even if he promises to do whatever we've agreed on, he'll go and do the opposite the next time the situation comes up.

It's like he can't be bothered with anything that keeps him from having fun. He's very self centered, and if he upsets me and I start crying at me, he'll yell at me for ruining everyones nice time, or messing...

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big boy blues.


Posted Friday September 22 2006, 7:09 pm

14/f/ freshman
i dont even know where too start.
uh, well this all start on the first day of school. i sit down in a seat with my reallllly good friend of 6 years, heather. we have a new bus schedule and it was the first day of highschool, so i was interested in any cute guys. one stop, had this really cute guy named steve on it. i only recongnize him from being on my friends myspaces. so a few days passed and then around wednesday the 13th i added him on myspace and i got his screenname hes a junior, heathers a sophmore, we started talking alot. and i started to like him. the only thing that sucked was that he had a girlfriend, we talked a little over the weekend and he told me to say hey to him on monday. monday finally came...

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Boy troubles...


Posted Friday September 22 2006, 6:43 pm

I need help!!!
I like 2 guys... and I pretty much need advice on what to do. I really like them both but I have no idea who I like better. Can somebody help me? THANKS!

PS: dont tell me to do Pro's and Con's because I already did that and they both turned out the same.

:(

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this guy who is getting on my nervs


Posted Friday September 22 2006, 3:27 pm

so there is this guy (i'm a girl). well he is my best friend. and we hang out all the time and spend 2 hours on the phone every day. but the problem is that he is totally in love with me.he tels me that almost every day and he knows i like someone else and he always askes me: do you still like him? and that really sucks. and he asked me to go to a movie once. i said yes because he even TOLD me that it's just friendshiply. so after the movie he kissed me.
after that i acted like it never really happened because i just like him as a friend and he knows that. but he just can't leave me alone and he always hugs me when my crush is somewhere near. i tried talking to him and told him in a nice way that he should stop. then he stopes for ...

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There are 3 boys......


Posted Friday September 22 2006, 10:39 am

Hi.I am a 20 year old female.
about 11 months ago I ended a 2 year relationship with someone I really loved. I could not have asked for a better relationship. I was devastated when He broke up with me out of nowhere. I gave the breakup a few months to try to heal, but within 6 months of breaking up with the first boy, I relucktantly began dating another male who I thought was a short term fling. 5 months later we are still dating. He says he thinks he loves me and thinks about me all the time. I don't feel the same way. I've broken up with him 2 times because I am not really sure that he is the type of boyfriend I want. The first time only lasted 2 days because he made me feel so guilty for breaking up. The second time was 2 w...

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GUY & ?'s


Posted Friday September 22 2006, 8:40 am

Ok so theres this guy where not going out but we have had sex and i love him very much i dont think he feels that way about me. But he's kind of a man whore...but hes says im different from everyone else. I dont know what i should do because the last couple nights he's been going over to this girl kelseys house and she gave him head and god knows what else. I dont get it because i thought he thought i like wasnt good enough for him but that chick Kelsey is a total downgrade from me. Im thinkin since when is he a chubby chaser cuz shes definitely not skinny. What should i do?

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What is Jealousy?


Posted Friday September 22 2006, 1:22 am

I have deep feelings for my best friend. Our relationship is just that friends. I've shared with him my feelings about this & he's always accepted them with an open heart. My issue I'm facing is I'm starting to act jealous. He's a very flirtatious guy. I end up wanting to cry now whenever he turns on his charm to other ladies. This was never a problem for me in the past. Being a flirt is who he is. He claims up & down that he doesn't want to be in a relationship (which is fine by me, we both have the same view points on that topic) My issue is that I'm in love with someone that shares his affection with everyone. We've talked numerous times about this. I need to find out why I feel so jealous & 99.9% of my jealousies are because...

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So sick of relationship problems...


Posted Friday September 22 2006, 1:16 am

18/f

My boyfriend and I have been together for three years [Four in July]. The past year and a half has been so hard. I'm not exactly sure how to deal with it and I know he isn't either. I get angry/upset really easily and he knows that. He's a really laid back guy, so when something's wrong with him he usually doesn't show it so he doesn't upset me or something. Anyways, we've been having alot of fights lately. I get so mad at him I don't even wanna look at him. I feel like I hate him at the time and it shows. He'll say things like "I just wish you could see things from my side.." or "I'm sorry I fucked up I guess I have to try harder.." orr "I guess im just a fuck up.."

It's like...

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Jealous..


Posted Friday September 22 2006, 12:27 am

I have a close guy friend who I've known for 2-3 years. I've liked him on and off. We talk to each other everyday.. make fun of each other, hit each other, blah blah. Then he started liking this girl last year and he'd always talk about her even until now and I get jealousss. I think she's the first girl he ever talked to me about too. It's confusinggg cause both of our friends always tease us about liking each other and then he starts talking about a girl he met online and haven't met in person. Did he even had a clue that I have or do like him? Do you think I should just keep my feelings back and support him?

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what to do.


Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 10:36 pm

id rlly appreciate a guys perspective on this but any help is fine!

im in a bit of a pickle. ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and i love him to death. well, last year i met this guy and we became friends. not close friends or anything, just friends. one day he asked if i liked him [random.. esp. since i had a different boyfriend at the time. and me and this guy dont talk a whole lot and ive never had feelings like that towards him at all]. anyway, i jus started talkin to him again this year a couple times. well tonight he called me and ended up talkin to me for an hour and a half and he asked me to the movies this weekend. ok would that seem like a date?? i dont kno if i should go or not because idk if he thinks it...

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meaning of a song..?


Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 9:28 pm

okay my ex boyfrined told me that when he listened to this is thought of me but he didnt know what it meant.
what do you think he means?, i think he likes me again but he has a girlfriend.


its through the glass bye stone sour


I'm looking at you through the glass
Don't know how much time has passed
Oh God, it feels like forever
But no one ever tells you that forever
Feels like home, sitting all alone inside your head

Cause I'm looking at you through the glass
Don't know how much time has passed
All I know is that it feels like forever
When no one ever tells you that forever
Feels like home, sitting all alone inside your...

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Monkey See Monkey Do


Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 8:40 pm

Female: 14.
Adam and I have been going out for over a month. Things are going great except for one thing, when I do something cute he CONSTANTLY does it back.

For example:
I covered his eyes to surprise him yesterday.
He's done it to me randomly almost 6 times today.
I kissed him on the cheek when saying goodbye once, now he ALWAYS kisses my cheek. Its weird and ackward.

He copies more then that, how do I politley tell him to stop? Thanks!

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Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 7:10 pm

ok so theres this girl in one of my classes and i think shes beautiful and i like her but i no if i were to ask her out that she would say no. so what should i do?


P.s. im a little over weight to just to let you know

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not talking.


Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 7:09 pm

ill try to make this simple. so me and this kid went out for like 2 months and became good friends. well we broke up but still talked but one day we got into a fight and he made me mad so i told him to stay outta my life and never talk to me again. that was in the beginning of summer. so we havent talked. well during the summer i messaged him on myspace and was like i miss talking to you and he said get used to it and then i was like whatever fuck it. well now that school has started im a freshman and hes in 8th grade. so different schools but they are right next to eachother. but we see eachother everyday and like we just stare at eachother & i really miss him but idk how to start talking to him again after that. but i really miss him ...

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how to get rid of a guy


Posted Thursday September 21 2006, 7:07 pm

ok! (sorry if it's a little long!!) so there is this guy that has liked me for a little while. at first i didn't mind because he's really hott and funny, it's just that he has a really bad history [including being in jail...long story] but anyways he's always waiting for me outside of my class to walk me to my next one, he's always saying how he wants to hang out that weekend and he's always tryin to kiss me [when i don't want him to]...he hasn't been totally successfull with that, he's just gotten my forehead and neck [which i STILL don't want though]. after things i've found out, i would NEVER consider dating him and honestly i don't even really want him as a friend, even moreso when there is some other guy that i really like. if people s...

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