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Hanging Out With A Crush


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 10:05 am



I have a huge crush and he doesnt feel the same but I really want to be closer friends anyway. He doesnt like going places where he's the only guy so it has to be a group thing. What do you think we should do? I always thought of me having a holiday party and having a sevcret santa and "secretly" giving him me.He also loves the jets so I thought a couple of friends and I could go to the game. I really want something fun that can show him that i'm a fun, cute, sweet girl. Any suggestions? Movies, Jet Game, ANYTHING? Also tips on how to act when we're together so I'm not annoying but I'm cute...

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Hanging Out With A Crush


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 9:55 am

I have a huge crush and he doesnt feel the same but I really want to be closer friends anyway. He doesnt like going places where he's the only guy so it has to be a group thing. What do you think we should do? I always thought of me having a holiday party and having a sevcret santa and "secretly" giving him me.He also loves the jets so I thought a couple of friends and I could go to the game. I really want something fun that can show him that i'm a fun, cute, sweet girl. Any suggestions?

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need to know his feelings


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 1:29 am

hie i am flora and i am from india and i am a student of class 11 and i am 16 . well i really fancy this guy in my chemistry tution and though he is a complete introvert and perhaps arrogant as well i cant help but like him. we've never spoken to each other and though he shows that i get on his nerves when i answer most of the questions i have observed that he notices my presence! i really fantasise us as companions i do feel lonely at times as i dont have a boyfriend. do tell me what to do!

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Confused bf?


Posted Sunday October 1 2006, 1:22 am

My boyfriend and I have been recently fighting about how he wants to spend more time with me..He recently went to college, and im a senior in high school. I barely see my best friends during school day between classes and after school between work..tutors..etc..wen he comes on the weekends he wants to hang out which is understandable..and i want to see him too and my friends. I try and balance it and see them one day and him one day..he is complaning and saying that it shouldnt be that way and that I should see him more then them and he thinks i would always chose them over him..any advice?

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So theres this boy.........


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 11:37 pm

he acts like an ass in front of his friends and says mean things to me that make me feel like shit

but out of school, anywhere when we are alone

he acts like he likes me and stuff
but idk

what do i do?

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Power


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 11:22 pm

Ahh! Okay, so this guy and I are in a constant power struggle, even over who calls whom and when. It's driving me crazy and I want him to stop fighting me. I refuse to back down completely, but I feel like I won't ever see him if I don't let him have his way most of the time.
Like...tonight I wanted to go somewhere with him and he left me hanging for about an hour without saying if he wanted to go or not, then said no he had other plans, but that we could possibly meet up somewhere afterwards. BUT he wanted me to like, go there and call him at a certain time, otherwise he'd just stay where he was longer, or go home.
Now the stubborn part of me is going "Duh, if you comply he's getting his way and he thinks he has you wrap...

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Girlfriend, Cutter


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 11:00 pm

okay, so my girlfriend and i have known each other for only over a year, and we dated for 5 months, then broke up (terrible for both of us) and she cut herself, now we are back together for 3 months and she still does it every so often... is there anything i can do to help her, becuase i know that she wants to stop, and every time she does it, she feels so terrible about it, it nearly makes her sick, and all of this is absolutly killing me, what can i do to help her?? please i only want good answers...

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What to do?


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 10:08 pm

I am not an attractive guy. But it's my personality that gets people. My bestfriend ( a girl) is gorgeous, she's just overweight, not by much, but still. I have liked her for 1 year now, and I don't know what to do. She is very popular, but a sweetheart to everyone. I'm scared she won't want to go out with be/I'll be rejected. Should I take a chance?

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Best Friend Love.


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 10:05 pm

I'm a guy, and have known my best girl friend for 3 years now. I'm 17 and so is she. I've fallen in love with her over the years, and I don't know how to tell her. I know our relationship wouldn't change or anything, so I'm not unsure about that..it's just how to get it out. How can I tell her, when, where?

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i like him?


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 9:56 pm

so there is this really sweet guy! and i like him. but he likes or liked this other girl. we have hooked-up and i really feel for him. but i was told he just breaks hearts left and right. i try to tell myself not to like him but somtimes i just think poeple are wrong. should i give him a chance or no?

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My Best Friend Love


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 9:36 pm

Ok. So I have a friend. and I found out that she thinks I'm hot. I also found out from a source that she broke up with her boyfriend to go out with me.oh I am a 13/Male. Now Yea I like her. and I really like her. but she wont tell me that she likes me. I don't wanna be stupid and ask her how she feels so what do I do. and see as soon as she broke up with her boyfriend, she sent me a note that said:
Hey _______,
I am wondering if you are free or not. I have a friend who wants to know. Just write me a note back. thanks,________

So how do you tell if a person likes you but won't tell you!!! Thanks,Sup4321

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What do I do about this boy?


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 9:28 pm

Hi, I'm Emily f/13 I am from Washington So heres my question to u, There is this guy in my math class he is so cute and nice so I had my friend Brittney ask him if he liked me and she said well I talked to him last night on the phone and he said he thinks your cute but he doesn't know if he gets to know then maybe he would like you. And I was the like no way and she said yep. So I was sooooo excited and told my best friend Shannon and she said Oh my gosh I am soo hooking you 2 up and I'm like Shannon no I don't know for sure yet if thats true. Well she talked to him anyways which made me sooo mad and this is what she asked him, So I heard you think Emily is cute and if you get to know her better you would go out with her and thats not what ...

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boyfriend isn't happy anymore


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 8:34 pm

My first serious boyfriend just broke up with me. We were together for almost a year, and it was a wonderful relationship until about a week ago when things went downhill. I lost my virginity to him awhile back and he was just the one person I could go to for anything. I'm just devastated and don't know what to do. I need suggestions on how to stay strong and how I should act if he happens to call.

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Confused


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 8:23 pm

Last year, i found out that this guy i liked, for the whole year, liked me also. Summer came around, and my friend told me that he had told her to tell me to "not get a boyfriend over the summer". Well, summer is over, and school has begun, and he still likes me. But supossdly he "doesn't want a relationship". This totally stinks, i dont even know how to react to this. Should i still go after him, or should i just like, leave it be?

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ME & MY BFF


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 7:21 pm

The other day I got a message from one of my really good friends that said, "I Love You!!" Over and over agian, I have a huge crush on him. We have been texting eachother and he told me the he, "Loves Me," again, but he is going to leave his girlfriend for me and it is one of my friends. I don't want her to know why he leaf her and hate me. He told me is goign to ask me out and I don't know what to tell him because I sometimes say, "Loev You," back to him. I don't know what to do about this when I liek him.

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i really miss him.


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 7:12 pm

okay, so theres this boy.. lets call him k. i went out with him a few months ago and last year. the last time i went out with him we went out for a month and a half. i really liked him, but someone told him that i didnt like him so he broke up with me. i was really angry but i never got over him.. would it be wierd if i asked him out again, since it would be the second or third time we've gone out and that he broke up with me?

i need an answer quick!!

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should i not like this boy ?


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 5:41 pm

okay in middle school i kind of got ad efun of, but i mean, i wasnt a loser or anything, actually people starting to hate me bc i was a bitch, im kinda fat (178 pounds) but i dont look that fat,and im in hs now, and i want to like guys but im scared to bc i think people will make fun of the guy if we end up going out or seomthing andim scared to like have fun bc im worred someine will be like, your fat or something :(

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Jealousy....


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 5:07 pm

How do you get over something like this? I mean like I see my girlfriend with just some friend of hers and I just get crushed I don't know how to fix it :(

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Just a friend.


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 4:54 pm

The last two guys I've liked (One I liked for seven months, but I'm over him. The other one I've only liked for about two weeks and I'm not totally over him) have liked me "as a friend."
Yes, I know it's good to have guy friends (So don't go on and on about how good it is, please. I know!), but I don't want to be JUST THE FRIEND forever! It hurts seeing my friends get guys so easily when I can't even get a guy I like to like me. What should I do?

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french kissing heeelp!!


Posted Saturday September 30 2006, 4:15 pm

alrite well i have never kissed a guy before and my boy friend wants to french kiss me i want him to but im very very very nervous seeing as i dont now what to do someone please explain to me i really dont want to make a fool out of myself please!! thank you so much xx

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