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Best Friend Love.
I'm a guy, and have known my best girl friend for 3 years now. I'm 17 and so is she. I've fallen in love with her over the years, and I don't know how to tell her. I know our relationship wouldn't change or anything, so I'm not unsure about that..it's just how to get it out. How can I tell her, when, where?
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please, i know this will probably kill you on the inside, but dont tell her. recently the same exact thing happened with me and my best guy friend and it really hurt our relationship. maybe just kinda drop subtle hints or something...eventually she might get it or start to show interest in you. i'm really sorry but i guess that its better to be friends than nothing at all...
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Good question. You have been friends with her for three years right. Then take her to a place you guys love to go to around the frist time you guys have been close. Buy her a gift. You might have to go to Victoria's secret for this one. Buy her a special scented lotion with a note inside. when you fist talk just say its a gift from a friend that youll open it later tell her how you feel that you want to hook up then give her the gif, and look her in the eyes not in the breasts and tell her you care about her and how much you want to be with her. Then you are all settled. Trust me I know alot of guys like you who not on the cheating side. The kind of man that cares about a woman for her not for looks. Trust me she will love that about you
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Take her somewhere you know shell love you should know if youre her best m8, just tell her you like her and if you know nothing will change then youve not got a lot to worry about
just make her feel special and im sure youll be fine
good luck
kim
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okay, you obviosly kno her very well, so ....
where-any where she likes
when-when you guys are at the climax of your kindof-date. *climax=most fun part*
how-sweet talk her, blow her away. keep her laughing. tell her that there is something you have been meaning to tell you *her* say ive always really liked you. i never knew how to explain it. but now i feel like it's time to open up and say how i feel, i luve you..... *like that*
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Just take her someplace real nice or wherever her favorite place is. Tell her it's her day, your treat. Whatever she wants to do and just have fun and joke and share laughs.
Then during the night time, wherever you are ( at some point you're going to be walking somewhere I'm sure outside, possibly ) just ask her if she had a great time, and let her know she deserves it. Now here's the part where you could have two choices: you could either write her a note letting her know of the feelings you have for her and everything and maybe put a flower too on the inside of the envelope so when she opens it up, she gets a suprise. :]
OR if you decided to tell her face-to-face, just let her know of your feelings. Just be like,"____, I've been dying to tell you something, and if I don't tell you now I don't know if I'm ever going to. I love you." ( or something like that however you feel most comfortable putting it ). You just need to kind of make yourself say it. It doesn't matter how it's said, just the fact you said it.
I hope I helped.
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