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ME & MY BFF The other day I got a message from one of my really good friends that said, "I Love You!!" Over and over agian, I have a huge crush on him. We have been texting eachother and he told me the he, "Loves Me," again, but he is going to leave his girlfriend for me and it is one of my friends. I don't want her to know why he leaf her and hate me. He told me is goign to ask me out and I don't know what to tell him because I sometimes say, "Loev You," back to him. I don't know what to do about this when I liek him.
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This depends on how much you value your friendship with his GF. Even if he breaks up with her before the two of you do anything, its quite possible that when she finds out the two of you got together she'll be furious at you.
And, heaven forbid, what she will think if she were to find out that you were telling him you love him, WHILE the two of them were together.
If you really do love this guy, then maybe its worth risking losing a friend, same if you don't consider this girl to be a good friend. If however you do hold her in high esteem, and/or this guy is just a passing fancy and you think you may not really love him, then it might be better to avoid him and not be with him. Not to mention, it might be a good idea to stop telling him that you love him. ]
I know you're put in a werid situation cause she's your friend but you really like him. Well if you think that there can be a future with you two then you should go for it, you can't help who you fall in love with. If you decide to go out with him, you might wanna wait a while or at least keep it on the down low, just so your friend can have some time to get over it. Good Luck!! ]
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