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Just a friend.
The last two guys I've liked (One I liked for seven months, but I'm over him. The other one I've only liked for about two weeks and I'm not totally over him) have liked me "as a friend."
Yes, I know it's good to have guy friends (So don't go on and on about how good it is, please. I know!), but I don't want to be JUST THE FRIEND forever! It hurts seeing my friends get guys so easily when I can't even get a guy I like to like me. What should I do?
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its not entirly true that ALL guys like girls who put alot into their apperence(like the prson before me said), some guys just like girls who put a little intrest into their apperence not her just goin "i need to brush my hair a strand is not even!!!! ahhhhh!!!!!" Give him some signs that you like him. Also dont hurt him to show your affection because a girl liked me once and she hurt me and after a little while i exploded in her face and never talked to her again! Instead of hurting him to the max (you can hurt him a little) show more affection a flirt with him more so he gets the idea. have him carry your books to your locker or class(if you and him go to the same school or even school.) Make him want you, make him jelous like he cant have you. Another thing, when you drop off signs be looking for him giving you signs back like him maybe holding his shirt in his fist or him allowing you to touch his hair and shirt (without invading his space.)
Im 13(m) and dont judge me on my advice if its bad, i was just giving some sugjustions. If you need anything else send a message to my inbox!
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Well, I'm going to try and not sound shallow and mean when I say this so bear with me.
What do you wear when you are around your guy friends?
Do you do your hair and make up?
Do you try and flirt at all?
What do they know about you?
The reason I ask these questions is because ALL guys want girls who put an effort into what they look like...so if you're just hanging out in sweats and have your hair in a pony tail...they are probably not going to look at you in a sexual way (and trust me...when guys are looking for a girlfriend, they think of sex).
Try flirting with guys right when you start hanging out with them. I've noticed that if guys see you as a friend for a long time (no flirting) then they will probably always think of you like that. Try telling them they smell good...touch their arms...etc...
Now, the final question I asked is what do they know about you. If you want a guy to be your boyfriend...do not tell him everything about your life! Guys want girls who have a little mystery about them...don't burp in front of them, don't fart in front of them, don't say "I have to pee" when you go to the bathroom, and DO NOT tell them when you are on your period...because that totally grosses them out!
I'm not saying to not be yourself, but if you are doing anything opposite of what I said...that may be why all of them see you as friends.
If you don't do any of those things...then I have no idea...maybe you could try asking your guy friends why they don't see you as girlfriend material. Don't get offended and cry at what they say either, because they don't want to hurt you...but maybe you need them to tell you so you know what to do (or not to do) next time.
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