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Hanging Out With A Crush
I have a huge crush and he doesnt feel the same but I really want to be closer friends anyway. He doesnt like going places where he's the only guy so it has to be a group thing. What do you think we should do? I always thought of me having a holiday party and having a sevcret santa and "secretly" giving him me.He also loves the jets so I thought a couple of friends and I could go to the game. I really want something fun that can show him that i'm a fun, cute, sweet girl. Any suggestions? Movies, Jet Game, ANYTHING? Also tips on how to act when we're together so I'm not annoying but I'm cute...
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The most valuable piece of advice I can give you is to ALWAYS be yourself.
Some guys will like you, others unfortunately will not. There's nothing you should do above what you'd normally do, to "get a guy". As soon as you start acting like someone else, then the whole thing becomes fake.
If he doesn't like hanging around with your cool self, then maybe it's time to rethink things. Don't waste your time and energy on someone who isn't going to like you for you...trust me...been there done that many times.
Keep doing the things that you enjoy and before you know it a guy (maybe him) will notice you and want to spend more time with you.
Good luck, and stay true to you.
Brenda
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Well movies are always fun to go to, whatch some movie you both would be interested in. Don`t try too hard or anything just play it cool but flirt around and stuff so he gets the hint that you like him. Hope i helped.
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This is cute by the way. Well Maybe a group of friends can go
bowling - Act like you cant bowl and be like show me the correct way and usually he'll stand close too you. And get excited alot. If you get a gutter laugh it up seriously.
Mini golf - is just fun in general.
Throwing a party would be very awesome.
Those are probly my best guesses if i think of anything else ill deff. add some
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Well it does depend on the kind of guy he is. You could go bowling and show him how talented and fun you are. All of your ideas were good too. A Jet game would show him that you are interested in the same kinds of sports and so he could talk to you about that. Well talk not a lot but try to be kinda flirty/joking but sometimes act like your one of the guys and try to feel really comfortable. I hope I helped. Any other questions or results you get please contact me. I would love to see how it works out!
Good Luck
Love Always*
Advice-Girl-28
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Well if he doesnt like you in the way you like him, its almost impossible for you to be just friends with him, because you wont act like you normally do with friends. Its impossible, when someone is attracted to someone else, you act differently, sometimes not even noticing that you are doing so. You can have a party invite him, or just hang out with him one on one, as friends, get to actually KNOW him know him you know? But if you do anything with him, dont keep trying to impress him, dont invite him to do stuff with you, just because you want to make him like you ilke you said 'show him i'm a fun, cute, sweet girl" just act how you normally would with your other guy friends, if you have some you know? Going downtown, just hanging out, playing video games, you shoudlnt have to ask me how to act when you are together, just be yourself. If you are annoying, so be it, he will eithe racccept you for that or he wont. you know?
Never change for a guy.
Good luck.
<3
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