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Confused bf?
My boyfriend and I have been recently fighting about how he wants to spend more time with me..He recently went to college, and im a senior in high school. I barely see my best friends during school day between classes and after school between work..tutors..etc..wen he comes on the weekends he wants to hang out which is understandable..and i want to see him too and my friends. I try and balance it and see them one day and him one day..he is complaning and saying that it shouldnt be that way and that I should see him more then them and he thinks i would always chose them over him..any advice?
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You need to tell him that you need friend time too. Tell him how hectic your shcedule is and that you can barely see your friends as it is and that you're making time for him as much as you can.
Why don't you talk to your friends and your boyfriend online/phone/whatever means of communication over the school days. Over the weekend, arrg to meet your friend in the morning or afternoon of saturday or sunday and meet your bf sat and sun. the remaining times until he sees that you're always gonna be there for him and that he is as important to you as your friends are.
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You want to balance your life and he isnt everything in your life tell him he is important to do and you do want to spend time with him ut you do have your friends and that he cant make you chooce because you love them both a lot. Let him know you want him in your life but it has to fit in with your schedule, just let him knwo you want to be with him.
good luck
kim
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you should tlalk to him. tell him that you need a balanced scheduel. work it out. tell him that your friends are rele important and he's important *make him feel good*. make him understand that you can hang out with bothyour friends and him [=
sorry it was soo long [=
good luck
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