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hes gay


Posted Monday October 9 2006, 1:41 pm

15/f
i really really like my best friend. We have been really good friends for about a year. We are both 15. One problem is he says he says he is gay. we hang out alot and we r very close and everywhere we go everyone always thinks we r goin out. and everytime we hang out i like him even more ... WHAT DO I DO .... i no this is probly a really hard question to answer becuz theres nothing i can do about his sexuality but i really need help

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I thought I could deal/ Please shy boys answer


Posted Monday October 9 2006, 1:29 pm

So I'm a girl and I'm 15 years old. And I really really like this boy, By now I think I really do have a crush on him, I've been busy figuring out what I really think of him since like 1 and a half year ago, I'm still stuck with him on my mind and I think it's time I should say something.

here's the problem:
I think I can't get the most simple words out of my throat. Like hi. Because I'm really shy, and yes it does suck. I think he kind of knows me by now, since we see each other like everyday on school. And he's adorable. He does the most coolest/cutest things, BUT he's really shy too. And I never said a word to him, not even hi
cause I'm so damn shy. and yes it sucks. I think I'll wait until he's alone and th...

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?


Posted Monday October 9 2006, 12:58 pm

16.f

how can you tell when you should break up with someone?

ive been with my guy for 3-4 months, and i do love him.. but idk if i love him enough to be with him in a bf/gf sense. yesterday when we hung out it felt like a just friends thing [also tho we were w/ his brother and this girl who hes has been cheatin on his gf with for a couple days soo idk if maybe that put ideas into my head about bein hurt? but my guy promises he'd never cheat because hes been cheated on too many times.]

soo basically things arent the same as they used to be... but is that normal? i dont wanna break up with him and then regret it because i realize i really do wanna be with him!! i dont kno what to do =[

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Is This Normal?


Posted Monday October 9 2006, 12:17 pm

I know that if you really like someone, you probably won't like someone else...but my case is very confusing.

Okay, so I like this guy John. I had one class with him last year and none this year or the previous years. He always flirted with me but not the way he flirts with other girls. As in he won't give me a hug or talk to me much. I kind of lost my feelings for him over the summer but I'm starting to like him again.

Then there is Matt. He's 1 or 2 grade levels above me and what can I say...he's perfect. He's cute smart funny nice athletic is in drama!!! I sit with him everyday at lunch and talk to him a lot. I think he likes me but I don't know. It's hard to say considering that I don't have any other way...

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Can our relationship go beyond best friends?


Posted Monday October 9 2006, 11:15 am

From the previous question I posted last month, I still do not have the confidence of confronting him because if he knew that I had feelings for him.. he might avoid me the next day and not wanting to talk to me anymore. Even though he is my pet brother for about 4-5 years, he sometimes can be my best friend and the closest guy I am with compared with other boys whom I knew. I am just scared that it will just ruin our friendship on this matter. How can I be sure whether he has feelings for me? Treating me nice, telling me the happening events which he went through, giving me advices and try not to disappoint me by the way he acts means he has feelings or just like a brother caring for his sister? If I were to compare with my own blood relat...

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Me and her... her and her girl


Posted Monday October 9 2006, 8:49 am

OK... theres this girl at work that im REALLY into, and i know shes feelin me too. Shes currently with her girlfriend of about almost 2 years now, but their relationship has been on the rocks for awhile now. Before, i was giving her advice, and just trying to be there for her.. but things happened from there, and now i cant get her off my mind. The thing is.. we hooked up a few times, and yes... she is still with her girlfriend. She tells me that she doesnt know if she WANTS to be with her girlfriend, but she really does still love her. She tells me that she still wants me in her life, and i do want to be there... I know she has feelings for me... but shes just in a hard spot.
Now that her girlfriend is doing better, and her relation...

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Should I leave for the Royal Marines


Posted Monday October 9 2006, 5:41 am

I have bean accepted to join the Royal Marines in July 2007 but i am not sure if i sould go, i fell in love with an amazing girl and i dont know if i can leave her. she always cries whenever i bring up the subject and she is begging me not to go. I have wanted to join for my entire life but now i am not so sure because i am scared she will not be there for me when i come back.
Please help give me your opinions.

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foreplay


Posted Monday October 9 2006, 5:19 am

im 18 and i need some advice iv been with my boyfriend 2 years now in april 2006 he had a bad bike crash he cant walk we've tryed to have sex he got a hard on but couldnt get it up me what can i do to help and when we do foreplay he always makes me cum but i cant make him cum has anyone got any tips i could use to make him cum HELP PLZ

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Why wont he ask me out??


Posted Sunday October 8 2006, 11:35 pm

ok soo.
me and this guy, Allen, have been i guess "talking" for about a week or so.
and we are ALWAYS together at school.
like, after every single class he waits on me.
and we always write each other notes and stuff.
and he comes up my house all the time and we go to the movies, or go eat or something.
he's told me he lkes me, and he knows i like him. and he calls me like everyday.
but he wont ask me out..... ?
it's killing me. lol

why wont he?

btw, hes a senior. im a freshman.
is that why?

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I am seeking help on fainting spells at the sight of my crus


Posted Sunday October 8 2006, 10:50 pm

Ok...this is going to sound soo wierd...but whenever I see, or even think about my crush...I faint...sad i know...but its so wierd and it sometimes scares me...Like this one time at school...he walked by me in the hallway and I fainted...the next thing I knew...a bunch of people were staring at me wondering what happened...and another time was on stage...I'm a cheerleader so yeah...and I was doing one of our squad's routine's and as I stred onto the stage already freaked out as it is...I saw him...and well...let's just say my flyer had to go to the hospital cause I dropped her when I fainted...
...Is this a medical condition I should be worried about?...

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How do u get a b/f back?


Posted Sunday October 8 2006, 9:46 pm

I had a b/f for about 3 months and he broke up with me last week. I thought that this is what I wanted, but then I realized I really liked him a lot. I became very depressed and realized how much I need him in my life. When we were together I didn't take the relationship very seriously and hurt him. I tried to tell him that I realized how much I liked him and that I could change yet he keeps saying no it's over. He gave me a second chance before but apparently I didn't change enough. I've realized my mistakes and can change but how do I get him to realize we should be together and to take me back. I am a 20 yr. old female and he is a 22 yr. old male and we attend the same college.

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body lang


Posted Sunday October 8 2006, 9:15 pm

are there any ways to tell if a guy likes you by paying attention to his body language and motions?

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my friends boyfriend


Posted Sunday October 8 2006, 8:54 pm

13/f have any of you heard the song "im not that girl" from wicked? well that's kind of describing my life right now....one of my really close guy friends is dating (and has been dating for 10 months) one of my really good gal friends...and i have started to REALLY REALLY like this guy friend. now i know this sounds really wrong, but i dont want "u have to tell him/her" advice because my relationships with both of them are to weird for that. i just want to know how to a. get over him or b. find ways to maybe get him to like me...i know that sounds wrong, but all's fair in love and war right...

um probably any advice on a. would be best

and please dont just tell me im 13, get over it, there are other fish in the sea, cuz i rele rele like him

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old friend


Posted Sunday October 8 2006, 7:16 pm

Ok, my problem is kind of difficult here and i would really appreciate if someone would help me...the hting is, is well i moved away from my old school about 4 years ago... i liked this kid while i was there.. he was my best friend too and we were younger when i moved..and now his parents are divorced..he's changed a lot, I saw him the other day at a football game but when he saw he just gave me a little smile and when i was smiling at him and then walked to his friends...i dontk now if he was giving me a smile cuz i was or cuz he remembers me.. i really like him and miss him along with my other friends...I really want to make friends again with him but i dont know how..when he's with his friends he insults me because i'm with my new school...

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Does he like me?


Posted Sunday October 8 2006, 5:13 pm

Ok so this is really a question but also advice.
So there’s this boy in my Church group and I think he likes me but I’m not sure.
This one time (the first time I laid eyes on him) he kept smiling at me. And even when he knew I was looking he was still smiling for a few moments and I did too. But then looked away. Then later he asked if he could trade spots with the guy next to me so he could “talk to the other guy next to him” the guy said no though. But anyway, today I came in and I all the seats were rounded in a circle and so I walked in and there was a seat right infrount of me. It looked like all the other seats were taken. And it was right by him. I don’t know if he was saving a seat for me because his stuff w...

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Pump up the flirting.


Posted Sunday October 8 2006, 4:33 pm

I really like this guy David, we flirt alot too. I'm not sure if he realizes I'm into him, so I want to pump of my flirting moves if you get what I'm saying. We already hamg out, we talk all the time, I smile and totally giggle, and we say stupid stuff to make each other laugh. Sometimes he tickles me too, but what else should I do?

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Popularity


Posted Sunday October 8 2006, 3:39 pm

how do I get the guy I really like to notice me?

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ex boyfriends


Posted Sunday October 8 2006, 2:54 pm

It has been about three years now, and I cannot get over my ex boyfriend. I don't know what to do anymore. The last couple of weeks were perfect. I thought I finally got over him when we stopped talking for a while, but we started talking yesterday and I realized that I'm not over him. He hurt me so many times. He did really messed up things and I need to get over him. And I feel as though I'm getting there until he calls or messages me. I already locked up all of his things and through away memories. I need to get over him, what else do I do??
:(

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Posted Sunday October 8 2006, 1:11 pm

How do you show a guy that you're interested?

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boy help!


Posted Sunday October 8 2006, 1:08 pm

There's this kid in my school. He's like a best friend to me. But he told me he likes me. I don't want us not to be friends anymore. But I don't like him like that. He's like a brother to me. But I don't want to tell him that I don't like him. I don't want to break his heart. What should I do? Please help!

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