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my friends boyfriend
13/f have any of you heard the song "im not that girl" from wicked? well that's kind of describing my life right now....one of my really close guy friends is dating (and has been dating for 10 months) one of my really good gal friends...and i have started to REALLY REALLY like this guy friend. now i know this sounds really wrong, but i dont want "u have to tell him/her" advice because my relationships with both of them are to weird for that. i just want to know how to a. get over him or b. find ways to maybe get him to like me...i know that sounds wrong, but all's fair in love and war right...
um probably any advice on a. would be best
and please dont just tell me im 13, get over it, there are other fish in the sea, cuz i rele rele like him
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Okay, you my dear are going to throw away not one but 2 friendships for just a stupid relationship that is not bound to work out and leave you andyour friends in an awkward position?
I mean think of it, do you really want to let a guy ruin your close friendship with your girl and him himself?? Wouldn't you rather keep 2 close friends instead of losing both of them in the end? Don't say "This isn't gonna happen" it WILL happen. That's how life goes.
If you really really like this guy and this girl and guy are rEALLY good friends, then you wouldn't be jealous or try to think of ways to steal him from your friend. If you really like them both there are several things..
1)You wouldn't be jealous of them but rather happy that they found such good companions.
2)That you're his and her good friend and that no one ca replace that
3)You would NOT be trying to figure out way to steal your bff's bf.
Maybe it's an infatuation. Maybe you only really really like him b/c you know you can't have him right now or you're jealous. Just wait it out. Look for other guys at your school. Who knows, you may be too blind by this good friend of yours to even notice that there are guy whos wants to g o out with you.
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