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Can our relationship go beyond best friends?
From the previous question I posted last month, I still do not have the confidence of confronting him because if he knew that I had feelings for him.. he might avoid me the next day and not wanting to talk to me anymore. Even though he is my pet brother for about 4-5 years, he sometimes can be my best friend and the closest guy I am with compared with other boys whom I knew. I am just scared that it will just ruin our friendship on this matter. How can I be sure whether he has feelings for me? Treating me nice, telling me the happening events which he went through, giving me advices and try not to disappoint me by the way he acts means he has feelings or just like a brother caring for his sister? If I were to compare with my own blood related brother, this guy is treating me more than just like a brother. Can anyone give me a good advice on how to overcome this problem I am facing.. I am tired with the guessing of his feelings
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This is difficult to assess, because I don't know the entire situation, like your ages and living situation. It is probably just a crush, and will fade out over time. Sometimes feelings get confused and because you know he is not blood related, the possibility of something more is in your head. How would you feel if everyone knew about your crush on your own step-brother? Are you over 18 and living on your own? Even if he returns the crush, it may be best to use self-control if you are underage, living with parents, etc...There are thousands of guys around you that you are not giving a chance to get to know, because you have this other fantasy. Give the young men who are not in the family a chance, before you enter into something that could be damaging to your family relationships and yourself.
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