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how do i get rid of him?


Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 9:05 pm

15/f

okay well there's this guy that likes me and he's going to ask me out i know it because he's already tried but i have no intrest in him but he's just not my type.

he's also in some classes for the slower pple and i don't know him too well so i don't know what to say in rejecting him.

whoa that sounds harsh please help!

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Boy?


Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 9:01 pm

So I like this kid.
He has a girlfriend now, but we used to have a thing during the summer.
We are friends and all but like in front of his friends he's mean to me.. etc.
But I noticed that on days that i look pretty , he is less mean to me and tries to be around more
and he'll talk to me on online that day and try and find reasons to talk to me [online].
I dont mind this because i love talking to him but why is this?

ps. one time he even sat with me on the bus, and that was a day where i probably looked the best.

pss, im not trying to sound stuckup , im not very pretty lol.

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scared to ask him


Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 8:22 pm

ok i like this guy alot! were friends, weve been friends for a long time but i never see him! i see him sometimes in the hall at school or something. we talk when we see eachother in school but we dont talk outside of school at all and im to scared to ask for his number and to call him or something. he flirts with me some but i cant tell if he likes me. i would be really happy if me and him went out but i dont know if he likes me. im not the kind of person that would ask someone out and i dont think im that attractive im sort of overweight (tring to work on that) please any advice on how i could possibly get him to like me??

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signals?


Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 8:11 pm

ok first of all ia m a freshman in highschool and there is a guy who is a junior he always sits at my table with me and my friends at lunch and during part of his free period he comes to my class with me and sits next to me. i just think of him as a friend and when i think of him as more than that it just freaks me out. please help me.

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Should I?


Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 4:31 pm

Okay, so at one point, there was this guy that I was involved with for awhile, and he blocked me on line, and when he blocked me, I made another screen name he didn't know in case he blocked the ones he did...recently I had the idea to start talking to him on that sn to like, attract him in a way, get him to want the character behind that sn, and then once I know he likes (her), I'd suggest we meet, and it would be me he meets up with.
I know it's a lot of lying (sort of), and a lot of deceit, but I almost want to do it. Like, start fresh, in a way.
What do you guys think?
Btw we're in college...^^

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break up


Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 4:06 pm

ive been with my boyfriend for over a year and sometimes i think about breaking up with him .. i love him more than anything .. i guess its just because im young and i kind of want to experience other things. but i cant picture not being with him. hes my everything my best friend im not sure what i should do!

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New Boy...


Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 3:20 pm

I have been hurt by a few boys previously in the past.
I have been in love once, but hurt by other boys i liked. I am 14/f btw.
So there's this one guy that i have liked for a while, and after a long time and him blowing me off, i decided i needed to move on.
So this other guy friend of mine (we've been aqantienses for about 2 years. got close a few months ago)
we went on a date. and it was so much fun. and he likes me and i do like him.
i just dont want to be hurt again
my parents are recently divorced, and every relationship i have ever seen has failed.
i am afriad of him getting bored with me just like the rest of them
so here's my question,
Give him a chance, or move on with my life?

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Mega Love Triangle


Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 2:48 pm

Right, I am not going to give their names for obvious reasons :)
so let's Call Them A B C D E
A is the girl i love, she doesn't want a relationship though i think she's likes me.
B is the girl who is one of my best mates, who really really loves me.
C is a girl who i liked, but then eventually got over, and it turn out now she likes me.
D is first proper girlfriend, who liked me but is now checking someone else, howver, she still says she's in love.
E is a girl I met when out, she likes me, but i don't feel anything for her.

What should I do, because this is messed up ?
Help!

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hes a very complicated person.


Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 12:32 pm

so i had this boyfriend that i met through my bestfriend. they had a fling. but it ended. and he turned to me. i really actually grew to love him. but we broke up for a week. that is when i found out that my "bestfriend" asked him back out. and he couldnt say no. i felt like it was because im terrribly ugly or something. because shes kinda sorta pretty. then he dumped her for me. and we went out for about a month. keep in mind hes 2 years older than me. i thought we were really happy. like hes really sweet. he told me that he wanted to marry me and actually proposed(with a ring from a little toy dispencer it was so effing cute!) he said that he planned on spending the rest of his life with me. and he wanted to have kids with me. b...

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2 great guys on the line


Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 3:45 am

ok well im 13 female.
i started high school already.well the point is that there is this guy...hes a 12th grader,cute,funny,and cool 2 talk 2.
We started talking because my friend wanted 2 get at him but he liked her as a homegirl. so she found herself a boyfriend and told me that me and him talk so good to each other that we should go out.And the thing is everybody asks me if thats my boyfriend and i say no but they don`t believe me because we are always together. n0w for the other part theres this other guy witch i like and he is just as cute,sweet,nice,and down to earth.well he tells everybody im his girl right...so he asked me to kick it with him on friday and i said sure but then the other guy asked me to go to the movies...

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I love my best freind


Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 11:25 pm

My best freind is this girl i hang out with her everyday......and i love her so much but if i tell her how much i love her i think she will never talk to me again but if i dont tell her....and then i would of wish i would of told her.......

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So, theres this guy.....


Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 11:15 pm

Okay, there is this guy. He is extremely hot, but he doesn't notice me. i mean like I'll go up to the person next to him and talk to them, and then I guess he kind of flirts with me. But like he is the bad boy lol. He told one of his friends he would never date me because he would be a "bad influence." But its terrible because he like plays with my hair and doesn't let me pass when i go by him and all that junk. So how can I get him to notice me as well not a goody girl lol.
P.S. I'm not a slut so don't suggest it.

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my g/f's friend


Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 10:33 pm

Ok,well my g/f has this guy friend who she went out with for 6 months beafore going out with me (we've been going out for over a year),she never use to hang out with him at all,well we've had problems with me and her mom so we cant exactly be together atm and all of a sudden she decides to start hanging out with him and all his freinds again.ok,they went to a concert,and they are jus to close for my comfort.She had told me not to hang out with my close girl friend and i havent i told her him and she did anyways.needless to say,i kinda hated her guts .I told her choose and she went off and started screaming in my face and i freaked out cus i have major anger issues and she knows this but she likes to make me mad anyways so we had a big arg...

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does he like me or what


Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 10:22 pm

ok well theres this guy at skool that i kinda been havin my eye on for bout the last month or so but im not sure if he likes me or not bc i only get to see him at lunch and somewhat in gym...like i sit with him and a couple other friends at lunch and occasionly ill just be randomly lookin round bc im done eating and im bored and ill find him staring at me but idk if hes staring or just zoning out and happens to be in my general direction...and he basicly picks on me somewhat alot...and at the last dance i wanted to ask him to dance but i didnt want to like freak him out or anything but i found out after the dance that he was looking for someone to dance with so next dance im planning on askin him to dance if hes single and all that...but li...

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is it a matter of trust?


Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 10:10 pm

ok so me and my boyfriend have been together a year, im really happy with him, but other than that my life pretty much sucks. He just moved to go to college and now i haven't seen him in two weeks and he is meeting new people having tons of fun and im letting him bc he needs to experience that but when i try to go somewhere he asks who and what and all sorts of questions. I dont know if he gets jealous or what, but now that he always does that i feel obligated to like call or text him while im out.. then my friends or forever tell me to get off the phone bc they hate that i do that, i mean i love him to death and he says he trust me but does it sound like he doesn't or what should i do. Im NOT happy anymore unless im with him and i hardly g...

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am i just desperate or what?


Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 9:57 pm

well im not sure if im just desperate to be in a ralationship or what because im not sure if i really like a couple people or what. like i think i might like this one person that i go to school with but im not for sure because i dont know how they feel and i really want to ask them and the other person i think i might like tends to be a player but i think theyve changed. i just dont know who i really like or i just want to be with someone that won't hurt me because ive been hurt really bad in the past. and i really dont want to be hurt again. so from this information do you think im just desperate or what? if u need more information tell me

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what should i say?


Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 9:48 pm

okay im going out with this guy
its great.
but like he wants to hang out everyday
and im the type that needs my space
like hanging out on weekends is great
and maybe sometime during the weekdays
but i feel like im too busy to hangout on
the weekdays...what should i tell him?


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Make him want more


Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 9:44 pm

I flirt alot with this boy, Adam. He told my friend I like him alot, even though I still had a boyfriend at the time. Since he was being so confident about it, I want to mess with his head a bit, leave him guessing and wanting more if you know what I mean. ;) Any tips on how to do this?

- "Playing Hard to Get"

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i love him so much.


Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 9:15 pm

hello. :] well i have a boyfriend, matthew. we've been dating for a little over three months. we're perfect for eachother. we're pretty much unsepertable. sometimes we fight though, we wanna make this relationship perfect because our love is so high. we're both just extremly jealous people, when there's no reason to be. i understand he loves me, and he knowns i love him. uh. what should we do? i love him so much, i just don't wanna fight.:]

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T HIS IS FOR GUYS!!!


Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 9:14 pm

14/f and i need guys to answer this. =]

ok...

when you're talking to a girl what do you like them to do, or just when they're around you.
what are some hints that let them know that you like them or they like you?

thanks so much.

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