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Mega Love Triangle


Question Posted Thursday October 12 2006, 2:48 pm

Right, I am not going to give their names for obvious reasons :)
so let's Call Them A B C D E
A is the girl i love, she doesn't want a relationship though i think she's likes me.
B is the girl who is one of my best mates, who really really loves me.
C is a girl who i liked, but then eventually got over, and it turn out now she likes me.
D is first proper girlfriend, who liked me but is now checking someone else, howver, she still says she's in love.
E is a girl I met when out, she likes me, but i don't feel anything for her.

What should I do, because this is messed up ?
Help!


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KaTiE_LyNn answered Thursday October 12 2006, 7:26 pm:
C- Don't put yourself through that again, because it's hard to get over someone the first time, but the second time is even harder.

D- It sounds like that one is over.

E- Be friends with her, but if you're not interested in her, you definitely shouldn't date her.


As for A and B..

A- If you really love her, she is worth the wait.

B- You can't make yourself like someone. Don't hurt her. Just stay good friends.


In the long run, it's up to you. Listen to your heart, and don't just date someone because they like/love you.

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oakcliffgirl answered Thursday October 12 2006, 7:25 pm:
well i say you go out with B bcuz you might feel something for her so give her a chance.

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Mandy1166 answered Thursday October 12 2006, 6:21 pm:
First things first, you and girl D have to figure out you and girl D feelings for one and other. If love is there stay, if not, move on. Talk to girl A find out if theres something there, if she does'nt feel the same way as you...you cant force it upon her. Girls C and E are canceld out seeing as you don't feel for them. Yet as for girl B you don't say wether or not you like her...and she seems to have a great deal of liking towards you...think about giving her a chance if you think you can return her feelings.

Hope this helps!
Mandy xox

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BitsandPieces answered Thursday October 12 2006, 5:51 pm:
Forget them and go for girls F & G...they are so cute! Kidding...A is out for now. B is too special and you don't want to break her heart. C is so yesterday! D is waiting for a sign that you will commit. E will never amount to anything!

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MelLeDisko answered Thursday October 12 2006, 4:57 pm:
Well seeing as you don't have feelings for any of the other girls except for A, I say just explain to them all you want to be friends and nothing more, and you're sorry. Don't just choose one and date her because you want to be in a relationship with someone, or don't just sit there because that'll be just be leading her on to getting false hopes and thinking she has a chance.

I would just continue to be friends with all of them like I said, and just try and find another girl that you might be interested, or just wait until A thinks she's ready for a relationship. So just hang around, show A how great of a person you are and everything, and just make her laugh and show her what she's missing.

I hope I helped.

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rainbowcherrie answered Thursday October 12 2006, 4:01 pm:
I think this is fairly straight forward.

You say you 'love' girl A, but she doesn't want to be with you. You say you don't currently like any of the other girls, so you don't do anything. Don't randomly pick a girl and go for her, because that's unfair. Forget about all of them, or wait until girl A wants to be with you.

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