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New Boy...
I have been hurt by a few boys previously in the past.
I have been in love once, but hurt by other boys i liked. I am 14/f btw.
So there's this one guy that i have liked for a while, and after a long time and him blowing me off, i decided i needed to move on.
So this other guy friend of mine (we've been aqantienses for about 2 years. got close a few months ago)
we went on a date. and it was so much fun. and he likes me and i do like him.
i just dont want to be hurt again
my parents are recently divorced, and every relationship i have ever seen has failed.
i am afriad of him getting bored with me just like the rest of them
so here's my question,
Give him a chance, or move on with my life?
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i really think you should give him a chance if you really like him, he may be the perfect guy for you, and just remember everytime you get hurt as you move on you get stronger, trust me i know i have had tons of guys hurt me, but i really hope i helped
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try giving him a chance cuz you may never know if he mite b the right guy.
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Heck,give him a chance you two could have a great deal of fun with one and other. You should'nt give up on guys just becaus of a few bad relationships you had in the past. Your 14, you don't usualy find true love at your fisrt shot.
Hope this helped!
Mandy xox
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Moving on this your life is about taking chances, not hiding in a closet or joining the nunnery. Life has no guarantees, except for death. Failure is a strong word, and change could be substituted in place of fail for many circumstances. All aspects of life change...maybe not in ways we thought we wanted at the time, but sometimes they open new opportunities we are grateful for. Sweetie, you are much to young to give up on love. You just need to adjust your perception a little. Romantic love is not supposed to find you yet, because you are not ready. You have a lot of growing to do and experiences both good and bad to encounter and bring you new visions of who you can be. This is a time to explore, take chances, learn, create, grow, experiment, and have fun most of all. A good way to not get too hurt is to not set yourself up for disappointment by having unrealistic expectations of what dating should be. Boys are not men, and they have very boyish ways, that can be charming, yet superficial. Get to know the ones that seem more in tune with your level of development and intellect and you'll be less discouraged. Don't expect any guy you date to be "the one," just let him be the one for now, and know there will be many more boys and eventually men that will dazzle and disappoint, but will not destroy you. I am sorry your parents have divorced, but that does not mean that they have failed you. They may be doing the best for themselves and you. Only the two people who are married have a clue about the relationship. The rest of us on the outside can only guess, and there is no point of that. Give this guy a chance, but more importantly give yourself a chance...as many as you need!!!
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I think you should go for it!
I mean maybe you will end up getting hurt agian, but you should never doubt your self. I mean he might just be the one. Years from now, when your with another guy you might be thinking about him, and start wondering
"what could of happend, what would have happend?"
So I say go for it and give this guy a chance, the worst thing that could happen is you guys break up. Its okay to be broken up with, it is how we grow as lovers. Who knows, maybe you guys will date for awhile and then break up an become best friends.
SHORT STORY.
Me and one of my old aqantienses started becoming friends and we dated for a long long long time and I thought I loved him, and yes I did LOVE him but I was not IN LOVE with him, ya know??
I still hangout with him all the time and we are so tight he is my boyyy.
BUt I say follow your heart, as gay as that sounds it is so true.
I hope I helped, let me know how things go.
LOVEADDDDDY!
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of course give him a chance! you'll gonna get hurt more than once in your lifetime, and that's to prepare us for the future. the way i see it with relationships, you have to know the worst person to be with, to know the best person to be with. since you like each other, it'll work better. don't be afraid to take the chance. be afraid that you might miss out on something good.
hope i helped.
if you need anybody to talk to, you can IM me in AIM. my s/n is :: WANNA BE iiN LUV
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Give him a chance! Even though most relationships tend to fail, that's normal when it comes to teenagers. You need to break up with guys to find out, what you like, what you don't, learn from experiecnes, grow, and move on until you do find that one perfect guy that's not going to fail. You're young. Guys are going to come, and they're going to go and you can't just pass them by forever. If you work hard enough at the relationship and just have fun with it and have a great time, I'm sure he'll be sticking around. :) If you two break up though, it just simply wasn't meant to be, and that means mr. right is still out there!
I hope I helped.
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