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I have been hurt by a few boys previously in the past.
I have been in love once, but hurt by other boys i liked. I am 14/f btw.
So there's this one guy that i have liked for a while, and after a long time and him blowing me off, i decided i needed to move on.
So this other guy friend of mine (we've been aqantienses for about 2 years. got close a few months ago)
we went on a date. and it was so much fun. and he likes me and i do like him.
i just dont want to be hurt again
my parents are recently divorced, and every relationship i have ever seen has failed.
i am afriad of him getting bored with me just like the rest of them
so here's my question,
Give him a chance, or move on with my life?

I think you should go for it!
I mean maybe you will end up getting hurt agian, but you should never doubt your self. I mean he might just be the one. Years from now, when your with another guy you might be thinking about him, and start wondering
"what could of happend, what would have happend?"

So I say go for it and give this guy a chance, the worst thing that could happen is you guys break up. Its okay to be broken up with, it is how we grow as lovers. Who knows, maybe you guys will date for awhile and then break up an become best friends.

SHORT STORY.
Me and one of my old aqantienses started becoming friends and we dated for a long long long time and I thought I loved him, and yes I did LOVE him but I was not IN LOVE with him, ya know??

I still hangout with him all the time and we are so tight he is my boyyy.

BUt I say follow your heart, as gay as that sounds it is so true.


I hope I helped, let me know how things go.

LOVEADDDDDY!

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There is this guy named Paul in 2 of my classes. A little info about him: he's the kind of guy that slacks off at school, doesn't care about life, is very insecure, and falls head over heels over a girl he likes.

Well, everyone says that he wants to ask me to homecoming. He always ALWAYS asks me to be his partner in everything, he strikes up conversations, he flirst a lot with me, etc. The thing is taht I only like him as a friend and nothing more. He's not my type either. I'm afraid that if I turn him down, he'll get depressed, mad, etc. Is there a way to turn him down gently without breaking his heart? And please don't suggest the trite: "I only like you as a friend" because that will hurt him

Well I have been in this postion before, and simply say something like


aww thats so sweet, but I was kind of planning on going and meeting up with some friends, but it would really cool if you just meet up with me at the dance and we can chill together.


I don't him, or you so I don't know how you guys talk or handle things, or what you guys ussally do at your homecomming.

I hope all goes well, let me know what happends okayyy.

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