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is it a matter of trust?


Question Posted Wednesday October 11 2006, 10:10 pm

ok so me and my boyfriend have been together a year, im really happy with him, but other than that my life pretty much sucks. He just moved to go to college and now i haven't seen him in two weeks and he is meeting new people having tons of fun and im letting him bc he needs to experience that but when i try to go somewhere he asks who and what and all sorts of questions. I dont know if he gets jealous or what, but now that he always does that i feel obligated to like call or text him while im out.. then my friends or forever tell me to get off the phone bc they hate that i do that, i mean i love him to death and he says he trust me but does it sound like he doesn't or what should i do. Im NOT happy anymore unless im with him and i hardly get to see him, any other time im in a really bad mood or down or really ready to get out and do something but its like im nervous to or something, idk. i just need advice or something. anything would be great.

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marti answered Thursday October 12 2006, 9:08 pm:
I am pretty sure he trrusts you. He probably just doesn't trust the people around you. You have been with him a year. You are both committed and both probably worried about temptation and what not. I mean if you left and went to college wouldn't you think that maybe your boyfriend feels that you are leaving him and you are free to do what you want. That is probably what he is feeling. He probably feels that you think he will leave you or some sort. You need to have trust and push out the bad things in the relationship because without trust it will never work. I hope I helped.

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