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When I get close to him - he gets close to her.


Posted Monday October 30 2006, 6:09 pm

Advicenators, help me, I think I might be heartbroken. For three years now, I've been stepping over bodies for this one guy to notice me, I've really done everything. I live for him. There's nothing I do - if it doesn'thave to do with him. And I can't remember the last time an hour went (just an hour!) without me thinking about him.. so im obsessed. but that's not the problem, the problem is... everytime i get close to him, or confess my feelings for him, he does the same to another girl. i dont udnerstand! he doesnt seem to be rejecting me, he's always saying "i miss you! i cant wait until i see you and get to SHOW YOU exactly how much ive missed you!..i wish we could be together!" and so on, so i donot think its a way of rejecti...

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I love this guy


Posted Monday October 30 2006, 5:46 pm

i love this boy.
Ive liked him for about 3 years on and off
and we used to be close but have grown further and i still talk to him but he has a girlfriend and it makes me more jealous by the minute
but he talks to me online etc. but at school hes a jerk to me.
I dont know what to do , i cant stop liking him!


help!

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I got Dumped


Posted Monday October 30 2006, 5:37 pm

Yesterday i was texting my boyfriend of 1 month like i usually do and he texted back ( dont hate but can we just be friends) now im usualy not the type to get to attached after only a month but i felt my heart skip a beat and i felt like i couldnt breathe its crazy i kno but hes a senior and i am a freshman and we really liked each other so wut i need help with is how to get him back.. hes guna be 18 on thursday and i think hes scared of that being together whens hes an adult plz help! wut should i do!

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xmas


Posted Monday October 30 2006, 5:29 pm

whats a good christmas present for my boyfriend? we've been together for a year and 4 months. also whats some good ideas for his family?

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HUGE PIMPLE


Posted Monday October 30 2006, 4:51 pm

I usually have a clear clomplexion but this morning i woke up and i had a huge pimple right in the middle of my forehead. It feels like it's a knot and it hurts sooo bad! How can I get it not to be sooo swollen and to clear up really fast I have a date tomorrow!

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Anniversary


Posted Monday October 30 2006, 4:27 pm

Haye yawl, this is kindof stupid n all but like me and my boyfriend hav been goin out 4 like a year this thursday and i kindof need a cute gift idea. i really love him and i need it 2 b awsome. he iz a country redneck boy cauz we r frum ga.so if u have a good idear id luv 2 hear it.thanx yawl :)!!
luv caroHaley

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My friends death


Posted Monday October 30 2006, 3:59 pm

My friend that i had dated afew times just died very tragic, I haven't seen him for a while and when i went to the funeral home i could hear him begging me not to leave him,when i was leaving and now i am really having a hard time with his death, Did he know i was there ? did I really hear him, and is he ok now, and does he know that I really did care. can he hear me, did he feel the same as I did? I need to know how to deal with this. My age 55 and I a female

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playing hard to get


Posted Monday October 30 2006, 2:47 pm

My ex and I have been broken up for a month or so. It was a serious relationship, but we seem to be on a 'friend' level now where we talk/joke around. I love him and would like to get back together to see if things might workout, but everyone is telling me to play hard to get. The advice I get from my friends & family is to act like I don't care and he'll come to me. It has started to work, but I need to know if it will backfire? Does the playing hard to get for a guy or even an ex really work? (18/f)

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Should i go out with him


Posted Monday October 30 2006, 1:57 pm

I reallylike this boy and he likes me too. The thing is i dont like how he dresses my friends have even said he looks like trailer trash but im crazy about his personaliity. What do i do? p.s. he has heart problems and has a heart monitor

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Boyfriend problems..


Posted Monday October 30 2006, 1:48 pm

Ok I have a ex boyfriend..well he broke up with me 2 and half weeks ago because of some problems going on with his family..well about 2 weeks ago he started dating another girl..now that we talked this weekend he is wanting to go back out with me he even broke up with his gf... what should i do?? please get back to me

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Should I??


Posted Monday October 30 2006, 4:35 am

Hello I am a 13 year old girl and I don't know what to do. I like this guy ALOT and I was going to tell him that I liked him but I found out he was going to ask out this really nice girl out. I don't know if I should tell him or not now. If I don't I'll regret it. But if I do tell him it might reck his relationship with the girl. He could change his feelings or something... I don't know what to do...

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Dating in your 20s.


Posted Monday October 30 2006, 1:46 am

The bar scene is beginning to make me sick.
I really wanted to try the whole "interweb dating" thing, so I did! I met someone from MySpace and he completely hated me. You might say "Oh Erica, you're clearly exaggerating."
No. If this guy had a machete, I wouldn't have a head.
I want to date. Any advice, oh hell, just any response whatsoever, would make me happy.

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Love is an interesting concept.


Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 11:30 pm

I'm not sure that advice is EXACTLY what I'm looking for, but I'd like to understand something. Love seems to have a different impact on everyone who feels it. (This is about romantic love.) Why do you think love is important? What does it do for people? What is the point? Fulfillment? I have heard that no two people can ever fully understand each other, but we all spend years trying to find that one person who can understand us. Why ?

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a freshman?


Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 10:22 pm

okay so im 16/f and im a junior.
and i like this kid whos a freshman i know how awful is that? but i mean hes supposed to be a sophmore. so its not that bad. but yeah. and my friend said i should invite him to junior prom. and i know thats a long way away. but would it be kinda dorkish to bring a freshman to junior prom??

thanks in advance.
=)

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boy trouble


Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 9:59 pm

Help! Please. Ok so I had this boyfriend for like 8 months. He was always so sweet and everything seemes to go right. He's a (A.) Student so he always expects to get good grades. But this year we entered highschool (we both go to different ones) and he failed 4 classes he was really sad and he said that he needs a brake. He said that he needed time to think and that he loves me but that he needs a brake also that his life isn't going the way he planned. And then I told him that I wasreally hurt. And then I signed off. But I haven't spoken to him for like 4 days he goes online all the time and its hard to see him online and not be able to talk to him. I don't want to talk to him because I'm afraid he won't write back or he says something mea...

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15 and confused with guys


Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 9:58 pm

ok so i have a boyfriend weve been daying for 5 months and i love him to death. the problem is when i got my schedule changed i ended up in none of the same classes or lunches as my boyfriend =[
in my new classes im with this one guy lets call him d. hes so nice and he used ot like me. but hes about to ask this one girl out but i like him. i dont like him as much as my boyfriend but there is a little crush. Im happy for d but i dont want him to go out with another girl because i loved it when i knew i was the only girl.
what do i do?

confused with everything

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is it time to break up?


Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 8:50 pm

i pretty much already know the answer to my question, but i wanted to see other people`s perspectives...

so i have a boyfriend & i have known him since february, 2006, and we actually saw each other again in june. then in august, he got the balls to ask me to be his girlfriend. over the few months that i got to know him, i saw that..."it" factor i`ve always been looking for. He seemed perfect for me. The bad thing...we`re both major druggies but he`s a lot worse than me. He thinks he`s invinceable and that he knows what he`s doing (which he pretty much does) but i still get worried. Sometimes i think that he`d rather party and be with his friends than be with me. Since my mom found out about us, i haven`t been ...

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Girlfriends Mother


Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 8:47 pm

We'll i have been going out with this girl britney for about four months, but we have been talking for a little over three years. We'll me and her dad ahve become great friends and talk, and sometimes we even hang out with out britney there. Just chill like some sweet ass dude's. lol, we are cool. We'll i have only seen her mom a few times because she is a nurse and is barely ever home. she seems kind of ignorant, but yeah. and we'll personally i think she hates my guts!! when i'm there and she comes home she never says hi or anything to me she just ignores me. sometimes i try to make conversation and stuff,but i just keep thinking she hates me!! what do i do?

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Breakups


Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 8:42 pm

so i told my boyfriend I think we shoudl take abreak because he was being way to controlling and overpowering and he fraked out saying he was gonna drive his car into a tree and drove away..i found him and we talked and he keeps saying that if we broke up he would die..this relationship isn't good for me..how do i get out of it

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Jelousy


Posted Sunday October 29 2006, 8:17 pm

So I'm like really close friends with this guy named adrian. We just met this year and I've liked him and he knows I do. We tell each otehr a lot of things and talk about almost everything. Well he flirts with me a lot.. like hes always hugging me and we fell asleep on a couch together last night. But he doesnt like me even though he flirts with me..maybe thats how he is but hes not reallly like that to everyone. We used to talk on the phone every night but now theres a girl in the picture her name is Patty. She likes him and he likes her and supposably they arent dating yet but they are close. I'm soo jealous and hes always asking to use my phone to call her and shes called my phone looking for him the other night. Ugh it pisses me off and...

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