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Boyfriend problems..
Ok I have a ex boyfriend..well he broke up with me 2 and half weeks ago because of some problems going on with his family..well about 2 weeks ago he started dating another girl..now that we talked this weekend he is wanting to go back out with me he even broke up with his gf... what should i do?? please get back to me
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You know, it is all up to how you feel. Think honestly, hoe did you feel when he broke up with you, were you heartbroken, or was it a good thing that he broke up with you. You also have to take into consideration, why he broke up with you, you mentioned that it had to do with his family, but was it something that affects you, or did he just need some space? Consider whether or not you actually want to be with this person.
Basically it is all up to you, you dont have to get back together with him, you should only do it if you really want to, and you are the onyl one who can tell you if you really want to. So listen to your heart and see what that says. Don't feel like just because he is making sacrifices for you, you have to be with him, its totally up to you. Good luck, I hope that I helped a bit.
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If you really like this guy and want to get back together with him, then do it.
You two really only broke up because he was having family issues, so it really wasn't anything between the two of you like a fight or anything to result in the break up.
But I would talk to him about this girl he dated and see what was going on with that. Whenever you talk to him about getting back together with him, just mention her. Be like,"I'm just curious. You broke up with me because you had family issues and everything, which I can understand, but then why would you go and date another girl while you're having your family issues and everything?" Because I'm thinking of another possible option which you might not want to hear, but I'm just putting it out there: maybe he liked this other girl and dumped you for her, but realized he liked you more and wants to go back out with you. Or he wants to try and be with the both of you, which I doubt, but I'm just listing options.
Just make sure that him and this girl are definetely broken up and everything, and give him another shot and see how everything goes. It sounds to me like he really likes you still and misses you and really wants to be with you again.
I hope I helped.
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