Yesterday i was texting my boyfriend of 1 month like i usually do and he texted back ( dont hate but can we just be friends) now im usualy not the type to get to attached after only a month but i felt my heart skip a beat and i felt like i couldnt breathe its crazy i kno but hes a senior and i am a freshman and we really liked each other so wut i need help with is how to get him back.. hes guna be 18 on thursday and i think hes scared of that being together whens hes an adult plz help! wut should i do!
If that is the reason, let him know that it doesn't matter, and neither of you are going to get in trouble or anything for being together ( it's only illegal to have sex with a minor, if you two aren't having sex, it's fine ).
Even if that's not the answer, just let him know that ( whatever it is ) you'll work on it because you really like him and you really want to be with him.
But if it's something like, he wants to just date other people or something, then I wouldn't try anymore to get back with him. Obviously that guy wants his space, and you should give it to him, because chasing after him after he dumped you, isn't going to make him want to take you back. Also, it's going to just give you more hurt to deal with, and you shouldn't do that to yourself. So just keep talking to him, share jokes with him and everything, and show him what the great girlfriend he's missing out on now. Hopefully he'll smarten up after awhile and want to come back to you.
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