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Jealousy.
Posted Monday November 6 2006, 3:05 pm
I like my best guy friend. He doesn't know it. But I get extremely jealous when he spends time with this one girl. I don't care if he spends time with girls, there's just this certain girl I'm worried about. I KNOW they're just friends, and that he for sure doesn't like her, but why do I get so jealous? I cry myself to sleep every night they hang out/talk. I know I can't control him, he's not mine. We've talked about it, he knows I don't like her, etc. Whenever they talk/hang out I never get mad I just get seriously depressed, I can cry for up to 2 hours. What is wrong with me? I think I just don't understand why he's spending time with her, and not me, but I'm not sure. Is there any tips you guys can give me about how to calm down when I get jealous? Thanks.
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I just recently moved
Posted Monday November 6 2006, 7:58 am
Not to far, just a good 2 miles or so up the street.
But little did I know i would be put on a different bus route.
I used to ride the bus with the boy i really really like, and he lived right up the street from me too!
I still go to his school and all but i miss the bus rides and stuff.
we talk online sometimes but now i think that i dont ride the bus , its gonna interfer with our talking but we hangout with like the same group of people!
help!!
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dances...
Posted Monday November 6 2006, 1:55 am
ok so this guy that i REALLY like likes me back, and at partys and dances and such i will look for him (discreetly) then i will start dancin, my friends see him and they can tell that he watches and wants to dance with me, but he never does and keeps his distance...whats goin on and wut do i do?!
and its not that im not a good dancer, cuz im pretty much known 4 takin over the dance floor, and i dont think hes scared of not "measuring up" to me, because when i c him i try to dance a little simpler and more i guess u could say easy to dance with
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New boy in my life.
Posted Monday November 6 2006, 1:11 am
So I went out with this guy for over a year.
I was hung over him for quite some time. I let him hurt me numerous times. For several months now, we are friends. Sometimes it's like friends with benefits.. without any sex attached.
I no longer want to be in this situation.
I'm interested in this new guy now. He has an interest in me too.
**I'm asking for some advice on how to get closer to this guy.**
I don't want to ask him out because I don't know him that well.
But I will ask him to go on a date. Ya know?
**And how to break away from my ex.
I'm afraid he would kiss me or something, I'm TIRED of being used.
(Recently, he had a crush on some OTHER girl ...
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Stay or Go?
Posted Monday November 6 2006, 12:57 am
Hello, I dated someone for 6 years of my life... little did I know it would be the best 6 years of my life. We broke up for a variety of reasons but mostly because neither of us was in the right place for the type of relationship that was required. About 6 months later, perhaps less, my partner decided she was ready to move on, and started dated someone else. I was completely crushed but still wasn't ready to date her again. So I sat back while she dated this girl whom I knew was totally wrong for her and I kept trying to improve on myself. In the meantime they were up and down and finally I decided to disclose how I felt. That seemed like a great idea at first because she was receptive to the idea so I thought and said she'd give us a...
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Does age matter?
Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 10:03 pm
okayy. So is it possible for a guy 2 years older than you to like you. Last year we went to the same schoool, this year, we go to different schoools. Last year, he was like "well ill go out wtih you in like 3 years" just like randomly as im talking to him online. And at that point, i had no feelings for him so i thought it was kind of odd. then through the year, after talking to him, i really started to like him. And now that we dont go to the same schools, i barely talk to him. And i dont know if im wasting my time and should move on? Or if i should really consider going out with him. Last year some of his friends would be like yeah i think he likes you. But i always am like "no thats too good to be true" I just want to...
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what should i do?
Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 10:01 pm
14/f. i like my guy best friend. he's so awesome and i feel like we can have a really good relationship, but i don't know if he likes me. plus, there's this other girl he's friends with, and during a field trip we had friday, they were together the whole time. they're not going out, but it really made me SOO JEALOUS. and i don't like feeling jealous, but what can i do?! there's times that i feel like asking him out to make sure he's mine and cuz i've been waiting for so long. i really really do like him. the people who knows that i like him told me to just tell him, but i'm scared as hell. this is not like the other boys that i've liked, cuz i wasn't such great friends with them, and i don't wanna ruin our friendship. so what should i do?
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My EX
Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 9:38 pm
okay well my EX is trying to get with one of my CLOSEST friends and i dont know what to do,i mean i know that seh likes him and i dont want to ruin that for her, but there are 3 things:
1. he still is tryin to get back with his EX
2. he treated me like shit so i kno hell do the same with her
3. hes MY EX!!!
how do i tell her how i feel and that i disagree with them getting together???
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Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 9:32 pm
im 17 and i am very close with my 19 year old cousin. i hang out with her and her friends close to every weekend.we do drink and party etc..when she was a sr in high school i was a freshman, so i met her friend mike. a few months ago we were all at a party and mike tends to show interest in me. but he always felt bad because hes 20. i started to have feelings for mike so one day i IMed him online. he actually wanted to talk, and that made me feel good like he didnt push me away, he actually wanted to ) we talked alot every few days because hes usually busy at school. i saw him a few weeks ago and it was weird, he was acting pretty shy.so this weekend when my cousin had a party, he was all over me and we ended up making out and then we dropp...
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Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 9:29 pm
im 17 and i am very close with my 19 year old cousin. i hang out with her and her friends close to every weekend.we do drink and party etc..when she was a sr in high school i was a freshman, so i met her friend mike. a few months ago we were all at a party and mike tends to show interest in me. but he always felt bad because hes 20. i started to have feelings for mike so one day i IMed him online. he actually wanted to talk, and that made me feel good like he didnt push me away, he actually wanted to ) we talked alot every few days because hes usually busy at school. i saw him a few weeks ago and it was weird, he was acting pretty shy.so this weekend when my cousin had a party, he was all over me and we ended up making out and then we dropp...
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BaBy BoY <3
Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 9:28 pm
16/F
okay well theres this boy that ive like for a while and i KNOW that he likes me back, weve been talkin on the phone and weve been talking about us being together but i know that im not that good in relationships.. ive only had a couple of good relationships and obviously they didnt work out in the end or i wouldnt be single noe.. btu well my point is i REALLY do like him and i wanna try to make things work but idk how to tell him all of this that i just explained.. likke in a way he will understand.. can u help me??
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feeling alone
Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 9:08 pm
Female/sophomore in highschool
Guys just don't see me in "that way"
I'm overweight and I feel ugly all the time
It's really bringing down my confidence.
I try to brush it off, but it still hurts.
What can I do to give my confidence a boost?
Sincerely, ME.
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SHE'S STILL GIVIN ME SIGNS
Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 9:00 pm
MY EX WHO I STILL LOVE SOOO MUCH IS STILL GIVIN ME SIGNS THAT SHE STILL WANTS ME BUT SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND AND HAS DENIED THERE IS ANY CONNECTION BETWEEN US STILL BUT I KNOW FOR A FACT THERE IS. WHAT CAN I DO TO GET BACK WITH HER? I HAVE GIVEN HER ENOUGH SPACE ALREADY SO I THINK IT IS TIME TO REPAIR OUR RELATIONSHIP. BUT LIKE I SAID SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND BUT I BELIEVE ITS JUST TO GET ME JEALOUS. WHAT DO I DO TO GET HER BACK?
my ex who i still love soooooo much is still givin me signs that she still loves me and wants me and we still say i love you to each other but she is actin like she's over me but i know for a fact that she isnt. i have given her time already and she has another boyfriend but now its time to repair our relatio...
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Does he still like me?
Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 8:12 pm
About a month ago we had homecoming at our school, and during that week this one guy seemed to be really interested in me. He called me each night, and was sad if I couldn't talk for long periods of time. We spent homecoming night together and the following monday we hung out after school. We seemed to really hit it off, and he always made it a point to see me each day in school and talked about taking our relationship to the next step. Then he had a really bad night with his friends, I asked him about it, and he refused to tell me about it so I couldn't comfort him or anything. Since then, he doesn't really answer his phone or talk to me, he's almost the exact opposite. Is it just because of what hes going through with his friends or did I...
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Cologne
Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 8:11 pm
15/M Do girls like guys that wear cologne? Would they like a 15 year old with cologne? I've heard that girls don't like it because cologne reminds them of their dad or grandpa. I was just wondering.
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does he like me?
Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 8:10 pm
i REALLY tried to make this short but ya... im a girl, im 15, a soph in high school, and i like a guy who's also a soph at my school and i think hes either 15 or 16, basically ive met my perfect guy and i dont know if he likes me
lets say his name’s Ed, Ed is in my 0 period english class, here are some situations that had happened... (1)for some reason he is not the type of guy to follow a girl with his eyes when she stands up and walks across the room, and he didn't do that to me either but now i notice that he does (2)he look at me “secretly” in class (3)whenever im walking with my friend after 0 period to my next class, him and his friend will coincidently be always behind us (4)at games, when im cheering on the side...
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What Would You Do?
Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 7:50 pm
kk well me and ex broke up almost 3 weeks ago and i still have feelings for him but am in the process of moving on. He still has feelings for me too but just doesnt act on them. Anyway today while i was working (@ a grocery store) his parents met and spoke to me-im a cashier and they went through my cash....anyway i guess when they got home they told him all about it and how i had changed cause he spoke to me! and told me all about what his parents said.I tried talking to him before and he seemed all cocky and mean but this time he was nice and friendly. However I played it cool and pretended i had homework to do so i didnt talk too much but what do you think of this? is he intrested and what would be my next step to get him to come back...
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Dating
Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 7:03 pm
Hello, I am a fifteen year old female. In the past I have dated two guys but broke up with them after a very short time because the relationships seemed boring, and I was (obviously) not ready for sex to "spice it up."
Now I feel like I do not want to date anyone again. I am unsure of the reason, it may be stress, nervousness or the fact there is no one whom I like. In the past I have been hurt a lot by guys, despite only dating two of them, and I do not trust anyone with my feelings. Nor do I think that anyone should be burdened with them.
I am wondering if I should try to look hard to find a the right guy, or if I should continue on as I am, basically avoiding relationships.
I want to...
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she confessed to hacking and manipulating me
Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 5:48 pm
if a girl would come to you, cryin, and saying she has to come clean about something..she's been manipulating you to get you to like her. she convinced herself it was ok to hack you and read your emails because she cares about you and she was jealous..but now she's sorry. she says she regrets it, and is coming clean because she loves you and knows you deserve it.
what would you do? forgive her for respecting you enough to come clean? tell her you want nothing to do with her because she's been decieving you and you don't need that kind of drama in your life? or just completely ignore her because it's kind of creepy how you barely know eachother and she likes you THAT much and is obsessed to that degree..
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mr.spicey
Posted Sunday November 5 2006, 4:49 pm
okay theres this guy, Mr.spicey. and hes incrediby fine, and ive seen him around latley. we go to different schools but ill be going to his next year. anyways we recently got involved in some some square us both being the back up people. until the people we were backing up got together and left us. anyways. we talked about it then we stopped talking. then at the football game we talked about pick up lines and i was like haha ima practice on you. then the next day i commented him saying something about the other night and he replyed and then i replyed then he replyed again and i didnt reply back. but i really really want him. like ionno why but i want him but hes superr shy and im super outgoing but i dont wanna come on too strong. soo im st...
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