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im 17 and i am very close with my 19 year old cousin. i hang out with her and her friends close to every weekend.we do drink and party etc..when she was a sr in high school i was a freshman, so i met her friend mike. a few months ago we were all at a party and mike tends to show interest in me. but he always felt bad because hes 20. i started to have feelings for mike so one day i IMed him online. he actually wanted to talk, and that made me feel good like he didnt push me away, he actually wanted to ) we talked alot every few days because hes usually busy at school. i saw him a few weeks ago and it was weird, he was acting pretty shy.so this weekend when my cousin had a party, he was all over me and we ended up making out and then we dropped him off and we kissed, he called me late night and wanted to pick me up but i said it was a bad idea because he was too drunk to drive, and he aggreed. the next day he IMed me right when he came on and wanted to hangout so i went to this other kid, tom. my cousin and her friends went to a college so i was the only girl besides two other girls and like 6 boys. he was very shy at first and it was a little awkward but then we grew to be more touchy, snuggled on the couch, madeout and he was tellin me we should go out to eat sometime. him and his friend dropped me off late night and i texted him thinking hed text back but he called to make sure i was okay and i told him id talk to him monday since he was going to the patriots football game all day/ all night and he said hed call me. like i dont want to get my hopes up but i think he might like me, even tom said he thinks he does. so what do you think? thanks and also what should i do so it doesnt seem like im like obsessed or like him this early
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I think that he may be crushing on you, too. If his friend is telling you he has feelings for you than he probably does. I mean, you do have some clues here. He's always talking to you. When he drops you off, he calls you to see if you're okay. When you're on the computer, you talk all the time. But while in person, he tends to be a little shy. When guys are shy, they're usually crushing on that person they're shy with. He does seem like a shy person, so I think you should take the first step and tell him you're crushing on him. You'll never know how he feels until you tell him how you feel about him. So just explain how you feel about him, than take it from there and see where it goes.
Also, there's nothing to worry about with the age difference. There's loads of couples out there that are different in age. You guys are only 2 years apart, that's not a big deal at all. My boyfriend and I are 4 years apart and no one seems to care. Age doesn't matter, though. If you like him, you like him. You can't help what your heart feels.
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Yeah, he does like you. Don't worry about looking 'obsessed' over him, from the signs he's already given you he seems to be having that problem right now anyway.
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I'm not sure why you, or he, should feel bad...there isnt all that large of a difference in your ages. Trust me, a 2-3 year age difference is TINY when you get older. And IMO if he has anything to worry about, its that your 17...but then again I dont know the law where you live. At worst, you can date and keep it PG-13 until you turn 18 /shrug.
I'd say go for it, dont obsess but be open to the possibilty at least. IMO I would try to avoid going out too often or coming on too strong, maybe date once or twice a week tops. And you might let him make the next move, which seems like that might happen soonish since it seems he likes you. Really though, I'd suggest treating him like any other guy, and being just as careful.
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