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she confessed to hacking and manipulating me
if a girl would come to you, cryin, and saying she has to come clean about something..she's been manipulating you to get you to like her. she convinced herself it was ok to hack you and read your emails because she cares about you and she was jealous..but now she's sorry. she says she regrets it, and is coming clean because she loves you and knows you deserve it.
what would you do? forgive her for respecting you enough to come clean? tell her you want nothing to do with her because she's been decieving you and you don't need that kind of drama in your life? or just completely ignore her because it's kind of creepy how you barely know eachother and she likes you THAT much and is obsessed to that degree..
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keep in mind, we are not in a relationship, she just has a "deep crush" for me.
thank you
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I would stay away, if she does that sort of stuff before you are even in a relationship who knows what she would do if you were in one.
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My brilliant answer? A little of both. I probably wouldn't completely hate her because she came clean and apologized, but I still wouldn't think of us as friends because she did that.
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Well, you're right about that "deep crush" part. As a girl, I know I have wished that I had known what a guy was saying about me. She probably cares a lot about you, she may or may not be taking it too far. She is willing to do anything to find out if you feel the same about her. Since she told you, and didn't keep it a secret, she is probably a very trustworthy person if you ever were to date her.
It all depends on how you felt about her before this happen. Before you found out. Stick with those feelings, thats how you really feel about her. If you liked her (as a friend) tell her that, but make sure she knows nothing more. If you disliked her, be nice, but let her know how you feel. And finally, if you had strong feelings for her, you are guaranteed that she cares a lot about you, will do anything for you and will be loyal.
I know you barely knew her, but before this, would you have ever considered liking her as more than a friend? That should help you decided how to react.
Whatever you do, do it nicely. Her heart is just waiting to be broken. But do make sure you get the point across and you don't ignore it. If you don't like her, she needs to move on with her life.
Good luck :)
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I think it depends on your age. If you are any older than highschool i would ditch her what a creeper but stuff like that happens in highschool. What i would do is set everything aside and say to yourself if she didn't do that how do you feel about her and go off of that
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