i REALLY tried to make this short but ya... im a girl, im 15, a soph in high school, and i like a guy who's also a soph at my school and i think hes either 15 or 16, basically ive met my perfect guy and i dont know if he likes me
lets say his name’s Ed, Ed is in my 0 period english class, here are some situations that had happened... (1)for some reason he is not the type of guy to follow a girl with his eyes when she stands up and walks across the room, and he didn't do that to me either but now i notice that he does (2)he look at me “secretly” in class (3)whenever im walking with my friend after 0 period to my next class, him and his friend will coincidently be always behind us (4)at games, when im cheering on the sidelines, he will look for me in our cheerlines (5)sometimes when we just get to watch the game (instead of cheering) and he isnt playing yet (hes a football player), I’ll look for him in the group of football players and our eyes will meet and we’ll quickly look away (6)BUT: in english class we do a lot of group work, and my group is usually right next to his, and when we are done and just have some free time, I will go over and talk to random groups and in turn talk to his group and him, but when i will ask the simplest of questions to get a conversation going, he will with a short answer and wont keep goin(as if he is a shy and quiet guy, but he's is SO not quiet around everyone else, guys AND girls) (7)To make things worse: I’m getting REALLY mad that he cant talk 2 me, and im noticing that he now might watch another girl in our english class in “that” way and maybe hes not noticing me and...am I losing him?? what do I do??
orphans answered Sunday November 5 2006, 8:42 pm: You can always try to maybe start narrowing down your talk to just between you and him. Some things that you said make me think that he might have a "thing" for you, but how will you ever know if nobody makes a move? I say talk to him more often. Any chance you get make small talk. Don't get in his face and be annoying, but talk to him. Get to know him more. Chances are he'll see that you are interested and in turn take interest in you. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
bscotch answered Sunday November 5 2006, 8:22 pm: im a 15 soph to and i have def. tryed doing the same thing you are..
first of all stop being shy..when your talkign to him, be like why are you being shy..i have noticed your not. because maybe he IS being shy beacsue he might hae mixed feelings about you..let him know u want to talk to him and be a little more straight forward. if you have noticed that he is looking at other girls now,,maybe its beacause he wants to make you jelous or maybe he thinks that will make u give the initiative to talk to him more or something. trust me it isnt a coincidence that he follows you our of your english class..try asking him if hed wanna hang out sometime or something..that usually works for me..but im not the shy type so who knows..wel i hope i was a help
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