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im 17 and i am very close with my 19 year old cousin. i hang out with her and her friends close to every weekend.we do drink and party etc..when she was a sr in high school i was a freshman, so i met her friend mike. a few months ago we were all at a party and mike tends to show interest in me. but he always felt bad because hes 20. i started to have feelings for mike so one day i IMed him online. he actually wanted to talk, and that made me feel good like he didnt push me away, he actually wanted to ) we talked alot every few days because hes usually busy at school. i saw him a few weeks ago and it was weird, he was acting pretty shy.so this weekend when my cousin had a party, he was all over me and we ended up making out and then we dropped him off and we kissed, he called me late night and wanted to pick me up but i said it was a bad idea because he was too drunk to drive, and he aggreed. the next day he IMed me right when he came on and wanted to hangout so i went to this other kid, tom. my cousin and her friends went to a college so i was the only girl besides two other girls and like 6 boys. he was very shy at first and it was a little awkward but then we grew to be more touchy, snuggled on the couch, madeout and he was tellin me we should go out to eat sometime. him and his friend dropped me off late night and i texted him thinking hed text back but he called to make sure i was okay and i told him id talk to him monday since he was going to the patriots football game all day/ all night and he said hed call me. like i dont want to get my hopes up but i think he might like me, even tom said he thinks he does. so what do you think? thanks and also what should i do so it doesnt seem like im like obsessed or like him this early. he also attends college like 20 minutes away. thanks
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Well. I'd say that by what hes doing that he likes you. He's called you back, offered to get you in the middle of the night, and even called to make sure you were okay ! Most guys dont do that for just anyone, cause most have a short attention span haha. I'd say that he does care for you. Also, the fact that he felt bad because he was older, is a plus because it shows that he respects the age difference and what your feelings on it might be. As for the second part, just be yourself. If you like him, dont be afraid to show him. Just dont overdo it by saying you love him or anything, that freaks guys out if its said too early and it might make him want to run. I'd say just have fun with it and do what you have been doing with him and let things flow naturally. When he feels the time is right he will ask you out, or talk to you about it. He's older so he should be mature about things like that and know how to approach the situation. =D
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He definitely likes you. I don't think it's just a physical attration either. He said that you should go out to eat together sometime. It's pretty obvious that he wants it to be a date. I would be careful if I were you though. If you get too attached to him before a relationship begins, you'll be especially heartbroken if it doesn't work out. Don't make out with him anymore until you're dating. You can even tell him that. He'll understand and it may even be a good time for a relationship to start! Right then and there. Don't worry about seeming obsessed. Don't you want him to like and be obsessed with you? He probably wants the same thing. It looks like this is going to turn out very well for you. I'd wish you luck, but it doesn't look like you need it! :):)
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