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dances...
ok so this guy that i REALLY like likes me back, and at partys and dances and such i will look for him (discreetly) then i will start dancin, my friends see him and they can tell that he watches and wants to dance with me, but he never does and keeps his distance...whats goin on and wut do i do?!
and its not that im not a good dancer, cuz im pretty much known 4 takin over the dance floor, and i dont think hes scared of not "measuring up" to me, because when i c him i try to dance a little simpler and more i guess u could say easy to dance with
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Strut yourself over to him. Don't wait for him to make the move. Just go over to him and start dancing. I'm sure he'll get your, "not so subtle" drift.
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I think he may be slightly intimidated. When you're dancing and drawing an audience, he certainly isn't going to interrupt that and ask you to dance with him. You obviously love dancing, and he probably figures that when you "tone it down" for him, he's making it so you're not having as much fun.
Based on that assumption (that he's intimidated), you need to set up a situation where he won't be so much. Here's what I suggest: Arrange to have a SLOW song come up at a moment that you'll be prepared for, and make sure you're right next to him when it starts. At that moment, turn to him and look him in the eyes, and see if he asks you to dance for that song (or, ask him; no need to wait for an invitation!).
If it doesn't work - for instance, if you can't find him at the right moment - you can still make it work after the fact. When you talk to him later, tell him how the slow song came on, and everyone started dancing to it, and you were just (sigh) SO disappointed that he wasn't anywhere to be found at the time...
He'll get the point. If he doesn't, then he's probably not as into you as you think he is.
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He is just shy.Just go over to him and ask if you want to dance!!If he won't make the move - you'll certantantily have to!!What can go wrong??
He likes you - he won't sya no.Throw a party and invite him.In doing this he knows that you do notice him and you consider him as a friend anyway.
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just go up to him and ask if he wan't to dance. you can't wait on boys to do things sometimes ha
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