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New boy in my life.


Question Posted Monday November 6 2006, 1:11 am

So I went out with this guy for over a year.
I was hung over him for quite some time. I let him hurt me numerous times. For several months now, we are friends. Sometimes it's like friends with benefits.. without any sex attached.

I no longer want to be in this situation.

I'm interested in this new guy now. He has an interest in me too.
**I'm asking for some advice on how to get closer to this guy.**
I don't want to ask him out because I don't know him that well.
But I will ask him to go on a date. Ya know?

**And how to break away from my ex.
I'm afraid he would kiss me or something, I'm TIRED of being used.
(Recently, he had a crush on some OTHER girl and he doesnt like her. He's sad about it.)

He's still a friend though, and he's nice. I just don't want to do that anymore and his birthday is coming up in 3 days. I think he might want to kiss me. I really dont want to make him sad on his bday.


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Ahnee answered Monday November 6 2006, 12:53 pm:
this is really one of those situations where you have to say all this to the guy. explain how you like this new guy and how your guys' situation just isnt practical or working anymore. explain how you still want to be friend, normal friends, and that you really do value his friendship but it's time for everyone to move on.

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