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this boy...


Posted Friday November 10 2006, 7:02 pm

yeah yeah yeah another one of those questions..

okay so theres this boy in one of my classes and i think he's really cute and i want to get to know him more..but how do you like "get to know someone" ...like if i just randomly went up to him and started talking he'd be like "um?" ..because we've never talked before..so how can i become his friend without being too weird about meeting him? if that makes sense?


today i added him as a friend on myspace though...(he hasnt been on though so he didnt accept me yet.)

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Should I go for him...


Posted Friday November 10 2006, 4:51 pm

KINDA LONG BUT PLEASE BARE WITH ME!!! Okay, I've been with my bf Josh now for 11 months. Around the 9th month, we've been fighting quite more often... and sometimes he just takes it overboard, he dosent hit me or anything, but he practially cusses me out and call me a stupid b***h, and stuff like that, I mean I love him very very much, but I tell him he can't just talk to me like I'm some kind of puppy.... so I just got this new job and the person who trained me is named johnny. Something about him just attracts me too him... he's patient with me, he never once did ridicule me about making mistakes (cause I am sooo clumsy!), he knows how to make me smile, we share alot of interests... we just click very well. Like one night we had to close ...

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Before he gets away


Posted Friday November 10 2006, 4:39 pm

Okay, I have a friend and we've been friends for six years. But I've been secretly in LOVE with him all this time. We used to flirt when we were younger, but now that we've been friends for so long, it's like we're more like brother and sister than we could be going out. It would be weird, but he's going off to college in May and I REALLY want my chance before he gets away. I know he'll be back for holidays and everything, but I'm literally in love and I just want to be with him, yet he's just a friend and I also don't want to ruin the friendship. What if he doesn't feel the same about me?

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help


Posted Friday November 10 2006, 10:56 am

ok so i had sex with my boyfriend two days after my period and three days after i stated birth cotrol. It was my first time and he didnt use a condom. im on my 13th day on the pill now and we had sex about 5 other times, only once with a condom. i never bleed and i didnt feel or hear my cherry pop so i dont think it did. im so scared that i am pregnant and i dont know what to do.

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i dont know what to do...


Posted Friday November 10 2006, 10:47 am

well, i lke someone ALOT and they used to like me but they got a girlfriend and we got into a fight over that and then we were gonna talk about it but that never ended up happening and so im really frustrated that we never got to talk about him haveing a girlfriend but what i just found out that made my frustration worse is that i found out that he broke up with his girlfriend and now is trying to get with one of my close friends.. i dont know what to do... someone help

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liar


Posted Friday November 10 2006, 10:28 am

my man and i have been dating for three years. I have caught him lying a few times about where he has been. One time he took his son to a concert 30 miles away. Problem, I called him to ask where he was, he said he didnt want to drive all the way back home so he was going to go hang out at a bar and wait. I said ok,well he came home and the next morning i found a receipt on his dresser it was for a restaurant, I yelled and he admitted he never went to a bar he hung out in a mall and ran into a former female coworker and they just caught up, my suspicion is he set up a meeting all along, i forgave him and moved on. A year later, he was supposed to meet his son at the mall to buy him a pair of shoes. When he got home he smelled of cig smoke....

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whats a cute way of telling a guy you like him


Posted Friday November 10 2006, 8:32 am

if you dont go to school with him youve known him for a bout 2 years and its tonight...

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wife to be wants to stay firends with exes


Posted Friday November 10 2006, 3:20 am

I'm engaged and my wife to be is still friends with her ex-boyfriend. She even expects me to have dinner with them both if we move to the same city. He still wants to be with her, and she says that I don't understand that it is the mature thing to do. I think it is pretty straightforward: we should stay away from exes. No talking, no dinner. Am I crazy?

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Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 11:40 pm

Hi, what are some cute, flirty things a girl can whisper, or say to a boy? They need to be super cute and flirty. I really don't know what to say anymore, but I want to start flirting better and stuff. I know how to flirt, I just want to be BETTER, and say cuter things. ANYTHING will help. PLEASE tell me what some things I could say are! THANK YOU!

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Okay, what does this mean?


Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 11:31 pm

I've gone on 2 dates with this guy who's still in the closet. He's never been in a relationship and we've kissed and made out and did other sensual things, not sex. I asked him if he wanted to go out and do something with me next week and his response was, "maybe" I asked him why "maybe" and he said, "well I could be going on a date next week." I was like, "oh okay that's cool, keeping your options open."
He's like, "yeah" "are you okay with that?" I was like, "not really, but I don't want to act like i'm too attached." then I ask, "would you be okay if I went on a date with another guy between then and now?" he said, "yeah, i'm not clingy." Oka...

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I have a boyfriend, but I'm falling for my best friend


Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 10:22 pm

What do you do when you have a boyfriend who you love and you have been goign out for 5 1/2 months but you statrt to fall for your best friend and your best friend likes you?
I think I'm starting to fall for my best friend who I am always with and I know I flirt with him. He likes me too but the problem is I have a boyfriend. I feel like each of them has one of my arms and they are both tugging away and I can't decide whos hand I want to let go of because I don't want them to fall.
What Should I Do?
~Confused in Love

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new boyfriend/feelings


Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 10:22 pm

I'm 14/f and my boyfriend is 16/m. We got together pretty recently and things have been going great so far. But I've been having a problem dealing with his past. Sometimes I'll come across a picture of him drunk with a bunch of girls and it bothers me, but I know he didn't do anything with them besides maybe hooking up. (For the record, he doesn't drink at all like he used to and won't do it unless I'm there) Yet it still drives me insane to see those pictures on his friends sites. He isn't afraid to call a girl hot,(example being Tila Tequila) but I know he's kidding because when other guys talk about girls being hot or whatever, I'll go "Oh yeah, shes so hot" in a sacastic tone. Hes just doing it back jokingly to make me sound l...

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Is he starting to notice?


Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 10:15 pm

15 y.o. freshman girl. So, I've liked this guy for just a couple of weeks now. He sits next to me in one of my classes, but he usually didn't talk to me that much. But lately he's been talking to me more frequently. Today, we practically talked the entire period because we had a substitute and she just gave us busy work, so we didn't get in trouble. He even grabbed my knee and held on for about a minute or two, which surprised me. About a month ago, my friend told me he liked some girl that went to another school, but maybe he's over her? Should I pursue him? Was he flirting, or does he just want to be friends?

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Can X's Be Friends?


Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 9:24 pm

Can an exes really be friends after a break-up that neither one knows why it ended? I need straight to the point answers

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DRIVIN ME CRAZY


Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 9:19 pm

There is this guy, at my church and I also work with him,that I really like, and I think he likes me too. I don't know why I think this, but It's just a girls hunch. He and I skated together for like an hour one night at a church lock in. That isn't really a sign, but I wished it was. My friend bein retarted one day asked him if he would ever go out with me. I'm not sure how to take all this, but I'm gonna go crazy. Any one have any advice on what you think, or what you think I should do to find out.

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i think i have a problem...preferably guys HELP


Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 8:25 pm

okay, well its not likea medical problem or anything its just that well, i havent had a boyfriend for a LONG time.. its been about 1 year and a couple months.. thats a LONG time.. and i mean ive talked to guys and ive hooked up with them but i dk i think that there might be like a physical issue or something might be wrong with the way i act.. i mean i have lots of guy friends so i dont think its my personality.. i thin its more of the physical .. i dont think its my face because i have a pretty cute face but i think its because i weigh a little more than most girls, i wouldnt call myself huge but im up there im about 135 lbs.. but i dk can you just tell me what to do.. i think that guys would be able to help me more with my problem.. i ne...

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I love my ex and one of my bffs


Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 8:00 pm

Okay i went out with a guy and he broke up with me!!! I still love him and i know for a fact that he wants to ask me out again!!! But ive developed a crush for one of my best friends who i really think likes me hes always staring at me (especialy my eyes) I dont know what to do or who i like more

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clingy b/f's = the worst!


Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 7:30 pm

ok so i have this boyfriend right? i like him alot and stuff... but in school i see him

before 1st
after 1st
after 2nd
after 4th
I HAVE 5TH WITH HIM
after 5th
after 6th
after advisory


and yeah...


how can i tell him... that i need space. and that hes being a little too .. "clingy"
xxx

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yuck.


Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 7:25 pm

Alright, so I really like this guy, and he is in two of my classes, and sometimes in my lunch, though I don't sit with him. I sit next to him in one class, and near him in another. What are some things I can do to be, I don't know, I guess flirty? Like, what do guys want/see in girls that they like? Or what can I do? Any advice would help. I'm not really an outgoing kind of person, and its not like I would just say "Hey! You want to hang out tomorrow night, or go to the movies some time?" Literally, there is nothing I can do about that, so don't say just get over your fears and go for it.
Thanks.



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I LOVE YOU


Posted Thursday November 9 2006, 6:59 pm

Ok...so i'm a 15/f and I'm talking to my friend. She has liked me forever and she just told me she loved me. I just wasn't expecting it at all. Is it too soon for her to love me? Is it ok since we have been friends for about 2 years? I didn't say it back either, because I don't love her yet, but I eventually could.

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