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ok so i had sex with my boyfriend two days after my period and three days after i stated birth cotrol. It was my first time and he didnt use a condom. im on my 13th day on the pill now and we had sex about 5 other times, only once with a condom. i never bleed and i didnt feel or hear my cherry pop so i dont think it did. im so scared that i am pregnant and i dont know what to do.
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I'm so sorry if this sounds mean:
You made a big mistake by having sex with your boyfriend. You could be pregnant. Anytime even on birth control and a condom....Lets say their is no such thing 100% safe sex and if you want to be safe don't have sex at all.In the bible it says not to have sex until your married.
Oh I wouldn't be just be worried about being pregnant also think sexual transmitted diseases.
You may want to buy pregeancy test
I'll be praying for you
God bless
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You should use other protection until you have been on the pill for 30 days. Until then there is a chance you will become pregnant.
If you have had sex you could be pregnant. Contrary to popular belief you may or may not have had your
"cherry" popped before you ever had sex. It makes no sound and not every girl bleeds. Your cherry has been popped one way or another.
If you don't get your period when this cycle of pills is over, then take a home pregnancy test to be sure before you take next months pills.
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You should have been more careful but i wouldn't worry, if you are pregnant then you should be making plans about the baby.
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You started using birth control (the combination pill?) about the beginning of your period and hopefully you took the first active pill of the first pack at that time. You should be fully protected from pregnancy, although 8% of women using the pill become pregnant in the first year from not using it properly, so make sure not to miss pills. If you have more questions call the doctor who prescribed them. The pill will not protect you from diseases, so insist that your partner use condoms every time! You can't hear your cherry "pop", it is just an expression for breaking the hymen. The hymen is just a little thin skin-like tissure that covers part of the vaginal opening, and many females break their hymen through sport activities and don't notice. Some women were born with very little hymen tissue to begin with and don't notice it breaking. You are feeling scared about pregnancy even though you are on birth control, because you are entering into a new phase of your life. Now you are sexually active, and that does put you into a new category of risks and responsibilites. Protect yourself from disease and get regular check-ups from your gynocologist or clinic physician. Just because you have consented to having sex with your boyfriend, does not mean that you have to do it everytime he wants to, if you don't feel like it. Be in charge of your body and sexuality. Don't do anything with anyone that you do not really want to do. You still have the right to set limits on your sexual activity, and you are the only one who owns your body.
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oK, BIRTH CONTROL IS USUALLY effective, but there are chances and cases that i hadnt, and it wont always work. To be completely safe, use the condom and the pill, becuase you dont want to take that risk, If you want to see if you are preganant go to CVS or some pharmacy/drug store and buy a pregnancy test. And it will tell you if you are preganant or not. And be careful, becuase the pill may not work, and condoms can break, but just take the test to see. And if you are pregnant tell your parent, it will be the right thing to do. Good luck! :)Plus, i think if you miss a period, it means u are pregnant.
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