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I love my ex and one of my bffs
Okay i went out with a guy and he broke up with me!!! I still love him and i know for a fact that he wants to ask me out again!!! But ive developed a crush for one of my best friends who i really think likes me hes always staring at me (especialy my eyes) I dont know what to do or who i like more
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Who do you trust more?
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Have a trial date with both of them. Don't call it a date, though. Ask them if they want to "do something". Make it clear that it'll be as friends. Don't use any terms or phrases that would mean a date such as "go out" when you ask them. Spend an afternoon or evening with one, then do the same with the other and pick the one you like the best. Make sure the setting is the same for both. If you go to a movie with one and to dinner with the other, you may enjoy one over the other because of the activity instead of the guy. If either of them ask you out during this, say you need time to think. After these dates, don't let it rest. Try to make the decision as soon as you can. If you absolutely can't make the decision, don't pick either. Stay single and if something happens it happens. Good luck. :)
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Wow, you must be quite a catch! (old-fahioned, iknow). Well first, think if there was any serioous problems you and your ex faced during ur relationship, to the point where you shouldnt get back together. If you want to choose who to be with, you can ask your friends or you can even do a pros and cons list. And then pick. If you really like a guy, you will always be thinking about him. Does this happen with any of these guys, if not, then you may not like either, but if yo do, go with that guy. But if you do to choose to go for the best friend, make sure he actually likes you, and is not just flirting. But if he is looking at your eyes, then it usually menas he likes you. :) Lv ya! Good lukk!
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