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friends needed


Posted Monday January 15 2007, 10:19 am

okay so last year i was like pretty popular with a bunch of friends. and this one girl, lets call her layne, we were like best friends. She would steal my sayings and my ideas and use them as her own. Shes a MEAN GIRL..mainly REGINA GEORGE. b/c if she knows you like someone & she likes him too, she gets him ALWAYS. She does this thing..its called flirting...and i cant do that. I've tried to hard to understand & ive tried it, but boys just like her the most. ANYYWAY

This year i only have two good friends. Compare that to last year. Last year everyone wanted to be around me and stuff. YOU KNOW?

is there any advice that helps me get better friends or anything? I want to be fun to be around and i want to have people who want to be around me.

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flirting tips?


Posted Monday January 15 2007, 10:12 am

[so its the same story as the last one]
I like this guy named ryan,but i think he only likes me as a friend(i think).is there any techniques i can do to flirt with him so he will LIKE me LIKE me?

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that boy


Posted Monday January 15 2007, 4:22 am

He says I love you to some other girls but he told me he means it friendly and like he loves a lot of people in general.

I told him about how it kinda annoys me because I'm not used to things like that.

He told me if it bothers me then he'll stop but i don't want to be controling.

I've had trouble in one relationship but controlling him from other girls because I'm kinda jealous easily but not extremely jealous.
its only when he says I love you or when these girls flirt with him because obviously I can tell and i hate it.

Is telling him to stop kinda controlling because its what it feels like to me but I'm not sure.

He can talk to them but i don't like when he...

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Hanging out


Posted Monday January 15 2007, 3:19 am

I am a 16 year old female with a 17 year old boyfriend. I drive, he doesn't. We live about 30 minutes from each other.

My boyfriend gets upset with me because I don't want to hang out every opportunity we have. It's very difficult for us to hang out. I can drive BUT my parents won't allow me to drive him anywhere or go to his house.

When he comes over to my house, my parents usually let him stay no later than 9:00 and my parents drive him home. I live about 45 minutes away from the movie theater (this is really the only teenage hangout spot around here). It really wears me out to go to the movies even for a few hours. I'm really one who doesn't like to hang out with friends. I'm tend to be a homebody.
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torn between 2 guys.


Posted Monday January 15 2007, 12:38 am

ok, so here's my problem.... My name's Nikki and I'm in a relationship with a guy, lets call him john. Me and "john" have been dating for the last couple of months, and i really like him, but the other day, i was at my cousins birthday and he had invited some of his other friends over and there was this one guy there that i started to like, lets call him kyle. but anyway, i dont wanna break up with "john" bcuz he gave me some stuff for christmas and it's really special to me and if we break up, then he'll want it back and he broke up with his old girlfriend to get with me and i dont want to leave him alone, but "john" lives in connecticut and i live in texas, while "kyle" lives in the same zip code as...

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Confused!


Posted Monday January 15 2007, 12:07 am

There is a boy at my school who i seroiusly adore, and sometimes he flirts with me, but other times he just blows me off. Hes my friend, but we never get in any 'friend talks' just flirting. Is he into me? Is he playing hard-to-get? I need love advice!

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Memories...I cant take it anymore


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 11:14 pm

I dont know what to do, it's been months and i just can't forget him.OK i was going out with this guy for about 2 years, I loved him so much. But we have broke up and im sure he's waay over me. He has had like 7 girl friends already. Now he's with one he really seems to like and she is beautiful. Meanwhile I'm here 7months later still crying as if it was the first day we broke up. I have a new boyfriend. He treats me great and I like him alot but, I could never love him. I dont think i could love anyone else. I have tried so hard to get over my ex, to fall in love with my new boyfried, but i just cant. I cant take it. Im dieing. NO matter how happy i may spend the day at night it all comes down to thoughts of him. Its like im happy with my ...

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freshman-senior love?


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 10:48 pm

Hey everyone :D,
I'm Hailey, and im 15 years old (freshman in highschool)
I need advice on my love life lol. I like a boy named jake that goes to my school.. but hes a Senior. Hes 17. I don't know what to do.. Do you think that a freshman dating a Senior is wrong? And if you think its okkay, do you have any advice on how to get to know him. He goes out to lunch and i dont have any classes with him, occasionally I see him in the hallway and i start up some kind of small talk untill we get to our classes, but it usually doesn;t branch off from there. Any siguestions? Thanks a million! i REALLY appreciate the help!! :D

hailey,3<3

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how do i stop??


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 9:57 pm

how do i stop liking a guy and move on?

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how can i get him to like me


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 9:51 pm

im 15/f and i know this guy whos 16 or maybe 17, not sure, but i like him alot. like i cant stop staring at him, he's gorgeous, but he's really popular and im not sure if i have a chance. i have lunch and math class with him and we talk and laugh and joke around, so i would consider him a friend. he would buy me ice cream if i asked but thats besides the point. i really like him and i dont know if he ever noticed it or if he's just ignoring that i like him. he's just started a new relationship with this girl from the next town over, but its not really serious and i know my age isnt a problem, but i need some better ways to flirt with him that arent too bold, but will help him really get the hint that i like him, ALOT!!

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cant get her off my mind


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 9:21 pm

ok, so theres this girl i like and it seems liek she likes me back, but im shy and all that stuff. well lastnight i went to a lock in at a bowlign alley and all night i couldnt get her off my mind. its starting to rip me apart inside. well i dotn really know if things would work out too well between us if we did start dating. i need help with what i should do. i appreciate advice. please help me.

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does he like me?


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 5:01 pm

hey i like this guy named ryan.I bacically talk to him every morning at school and we SEEM to agree to everything.Everything i say he bacically laughs at..and we SEEM to have alot in common.idk if he flirts with me. like ill be writing something, then he will like get a pen and scribble on it.But when hes around his friends, he flirts with this cheerleader,Nicole. But the next day at school(morning) he starts talking to me again. Does he like me?

age;14
gender;female

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confused if i am a slut


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 4:57 pm

i am 13 female and this guy invited me over to his palce after school. he like really hot so i said yeah. well we got there and he gave me a drink booze. and soon i was like really spining. he start to make out with me and i let him. as he got my skirt up and panties down. some other guys show up and well they all end up have sex with me. I am not sure why i let it happen am i a slut?

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Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 3:49 pm

ok, the other day i was speaking to my cousins mate online (him and my cousin are 13 im 14) and my cousin's mate (alex) he gave me some boys email address and said that he was in his class at school so i added him and he came online and said who is this blah blah blah...
anyway we got to talking and i said who i was nd that nd he said i think i know you send me a pic of you so we swapped pics etc. and i thought he was cute, but then i thought and i remembered he's like a year younger than me but i keep lookin at his pic and i just keep thinking "he is sooo cute" and it was right after he had seen my picture he was acting really nice.
But, he's a year younger than me, i dont really "know" him and im never ...

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feelings come back when i think he likes me


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 3:37 pm

ok so i FINALLY got over this guy i liked for FOUR WHOLE YEARS..and i felt soo free and liberated, but then all of sudden his msn-name was the lyrics for OUR song and my mind directly thought "aww he likes me again!" and i started likking him again and now i cant stop thinking about him (even though I KNOW he doesnt like me) so whta do i do? do you suggest i delete him (i realllly dont want to!)

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boyfriend feeling guilty


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 2:48 pm

okay so, my boyfriend and I have known each other for a little over a year now. [since freshmen year, now we're sophmores] we've been together since last october & we're going on 3 months, but our relationship, before it was official, started to develop over a year ago. I truly love him. he's on one of the sweetest guys I'll ever encounter in my life. We're both Christians, so we're saving our virginity for marriage. But we do other things...so far, we've only gone to 2nd base [touching under the clothes] and he feels really bad about doing it...i mean of course he loves it, he's a guy...but he feels so guilty like he's taking something away from me cuz we went to 2nd base together...i keep trying to tell him that i'm completely for it ...

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i like him a lot....


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 2:00 pm

So there is this guy I like... a lot. He maks me happy, laugh, feel good about myself and i can be 100% myself when i am with him. But the thing is.. he is a couple years older than me and he thinks i am inmature and too young for him... (were only 2 years apart) and i like him a lot.. and he used to like me... untill he realized i was young.... but age is nothing but a number... what can i do to show him i am mature and i am not too young and that i like him a lot and want to be with him??

any advise will help..

i cant keep my eyes off him him and i cant get him out of my head.

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Valentines day


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 1:35 pm

I was just wondering , what would be a good present to get a boyfriend for valentines day? Cause i never know what to get them. Hes soon to be 14 and i would really like some ideas. Thanks!

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breaking promises


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 1:03 pm

15/f me and my boyfriend of went on a break as of yesterday because i keep breaking promises to him. I need some way to prove to him that im not going to do that anymore.. someway to get him back. please help im desperate

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It's never long term


Posted Sunday January 14 2007, 12:23 pm

Female. 13.
I'm mature for my age. Not boasting or whatever, it's just a wellknown fact for people who know me well. Well, I'm not talking about a relationship until marriage or whatever, but nothing between me and a boy ever lasts. I went to a Christian school for my whole life up until this year, so all the guys were to nerdy and weird to ask ANYONE out, so that kind of ruined it for me. I'm in 8th grade now and I go to a public school and a super big church. Guys always ask me for my number and stuff and we talk, but it never sticks. Mostly it's guys 15 and up, but, that's what I like because boys my age are grossly immature and little.
And, usually it's not my personality that makes it not stick, sometimes it's my age. Whe...

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