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that boy
He says I love you to some other girls but he told me he means it friendly and like he loves a lot of people in general.
I told him about how it kinda annoys me because I'm not used to things like that.
He told me if it bothers me then he'll stop but i don't want to be controling.
I've had trouble in one relationship but controlling him from other girls because I'm kinda jealous easily but not extremely jealous.
its only when he says I love you or when these girls flirt with him because obviously I can tell and i hate it.
Is telling him to stop kinda controlling because its what it feels like to me but I'm not sure.
He can talk to them but i don't like when he says I love you to them or when they flirt because I know he'll do nothing about it
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I think you are behaving quite rationally. If your boyfriend says "I love you" to other girls, you being controlling is the least of your worries. If you have asked him already and he has ignored that it makes you feel uncomforatable [sp?] then you just need to tell him again. Get it through his head that it bothers you. Ask him how he would feel if you did the same thing only with other guys. As I say again, it's not controlling. You just don't want to loose him. A common thing all girls don't want to do. :)
Hope I have helped and I hope everything works out. :)
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You should tell him not to tell other girls that he loves them, even if he means it casually. And it wouldn't be controlling to tell him to stop, because he should respect how you feel.Good luck!
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telling your boyfriend your feeling doesn't make you controlling, you don't have to tell him to stop saying i love u to other girls, just say i don't like it when you tell other girls that you love them, it make me feel jealous, if he care about your feelings he will stop, without you telling him to stop, and about the other girls flirting with him, that u got to work on it, bcoz if your man is handsome, other girls will always be there to steal him away.i hope i help.
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okay. haha.
you're boyfriend sounds a lot like myself
& what my boyfriend did:
was sat me down & just said that when people flirt with me and i dont do anything about it, he gets jealous & he doesnt like it. so he asked if i would please stop saying i love you to them, or flirting, or he'd walk.
& i didnt really think that it was controlling
i just thought 'well, he actually cares enough not to want me with anyone else & he had the decency to talk to me about it.
so, i suggest you mention it to him & see what kind of reaction you get.
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