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feelings come back when i think he likes me
ok so i FINALLY got over this guy i liked for FOUR WHOLE YEARS..and i felt soo free and liberated, but then all of sudden his msn-name was the lyrics for OUR song and my mind directly thought "aww he likes me again!" and i started likking him again and now i cant stop thinking about him (even though I KNOW he doesnt like me) so whta do i do? do you suggest i delete him (i realllly dont want to!)
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I have definitely been there. But no, i say you dont have to delete him, if anything to really put ure feelings for him or lack there of is to call him up. Not so much call him up to have a long convo...but to see how he's doing, and to see for yourself, how you feel about him once you hear him in reality. Because sometimes, especially when we like someone, they morph into someone different then the real one. Whether he likes you again or not, I think you need a change of scene. SO the trick is to call him....kind of get sort of reaquainted, and look at your other boy prospects. Maybe if you talk to the guy that you think you might like again, you can work on accepting only his freindship, and if you start talking to other gys at the same time, it will be easier. Win Win situation, you got yourself here.
Hope I helped
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well i have been in sorta the same situation before and i know how hard it is but dont delete him because even if you do you know it and you can check it without having it in your memory. Give yourself some space from him so you can get over him for good. But then if you are definitely sure you are over him then you can play the friendship card and let it take its course. Either he has known what it is like for you to be in his life for the past 4 years and maybe a little time away wouldnt hurt. so give him space and remain friends but let yourself get over him for good and then see were it goes from there. you may never now the whole msn name might just be random and he hasnt reliezed it that it is your song name, dont let it phase you.
p.s. keep me updated
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I would say to not delete him. Maybe you should just kid around and be like, "Nice msn-name". See what he says. If he is kindof hinting around that he likes you then you should try to get with him. But maybe it was just a coincidence. You never know. I have learned from expirence to never get your hopes up in these kind of things. He might just like the song alot.
Hope I have helped. :)
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Four Whole years is a long time period to like someone... I am getting the thought that it hurt you! If i were you, i would sit down and talk to him... tell him how you fgeel and see what he sayd... keep in mind to state you still wanna be friends even if he doesn't like you in that way!!! Be open and be honest, you have nothing to lose!!! If he doesn't like you then i'm sorry sweetie but i think its time to move on... Break open the choclate, have a candle lit bath and a girlie sleep over....
Best of luck
Elle
P.s let me know how things go!
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You like him...no biggie.
He may just like the song and never really linked it to being you guys' song.
Don't delete him because..well that's just stupid. Just be friendly with him
If you want to get him out of your mind, talk to you girl friends and hang out with them more.
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If you really do like him again then there's only way to resolve this situation and it's not by running away. You need to talk to him about this. Either tell him straight out how you feel about him or ask him about the lyrics, perhaps just reminding him that they're the lyrics to your song.
Whatever you decide to do, if you were finally over him, you wouldn't start liking him again so quickly, so there are clearly some residual feelings and they won't go away until you confront them and see if it can go somewhere so take a deep breath and jump in head first.
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