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ok, the other day i was speaking to my cousins mate online (him and my cousin are 13 im 14) and my cousin's mate (alex) he gave me some boys email address and said that he was in his class at school so i added him and he came online and said who is this blah blah blah...
anyway we got to talking and i said who i was nd that nd he said i think i know you send me a pic of you so we swapped pics etc. and i thought he was cute, but then i thought and i remembered he's like a year younger than me but i keep lookin at his pic and i just keep thinking "he is sooo cute" and it was right after he had seen my picture he was acting really nice.
But, he's a year younger than me, i dont really "know" him and im never guna meet him (he lives like half an hour away) but i think he's like really nice but all we'll ever do is talk on msn!!!
so, do i just keep on talking to him blah blah blah...or should i not talk 2 him as much bcoz i think that he more i talk 2 him, the more i might like him :S...i really dont know!!!
thanks for ANY answers
xxxx
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Well.. do you want to like him?
You can talk to him all you want but feelings could easily develop that way.
And if you stop talking to him... you might lose a really good friend.
By the way it's going on.. it seems like you might have a crush and if that's what you want.. then go for it?
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okay, maybe you should try to stay away frim him be'cauze you may like him more!!!
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As long as you know who this guy is, and he's not some stranger I don't think there is anything wrong with it at all. But the only thing, is if you feel you can't handle your feelings, knowing that you will not be able to see him, I wouldn't do it. Because you're feelings will probably grow for this guy, so it's really your decision. Whatever makes you feel comfortable and happy -- go ahead!
Good Luck! :)
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No way! Online talking is great! you can tell people things you couldn't mention if you actually knew them, because there's very little embarassment room. I prefer IMing so much to talking, just because its easier to be myself. don't ditch the guy, and don't say you'll never meet him. Never say never, unless you mean it enough to say it 3 times.
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Hey,
ummm... I think you should keep talking to him, you could become great friends, but keep in min you may not ever meet him... But just say you goto your cousins house, you might get to meet him... I don't think you should just stop talknig... It is probably good that you have someone you can talk to !!
Best of luck
Elle
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I know that it's hard talking to someone that you'll never meet, but don't just give up. You never know, you might actually get to meet him once. Just because you guys won't hang out anytime soon, doesn't mean you should just stop talking to him. It wouldn't be fair. You have to keep telling yourself that you guys can only be friends and maybe that would motivate you not to fall for him. It worked for me. You just have to accept it & understand.
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Well if you are never going to meet him, I don't see the problem with talking to him. Besides if you hypothetically ever met him, he might not be who you thought. You could possibly like him more by talking to him, but if you have a problem with not meeting him, then I suggest that you try to stay just friends for now. Keep talking on msn and such, but tell him that you like him, but the chances of ever meeting are slim to none and you would just like to stay friends for now. That way he knows where he stands and there's no miscomunications about your friendship. Of course that's just what I would do if I were you, but it's up to you to decide what you really want to do. I hope I helped you in some small way at least! Good luck!
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