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torn between 2 guys.
ok, so here's my problem.... My name's Nikki and I'm in a relationship with a guy, lets call him john. Me and "john" have been dating for the last couple of months, and i really like him, but the other day, i was at my cousins birthday and he had invited some of his other friends over and there was this one guy there that i started to like, lets call him kyle. but anyway, i dont wanna break up with "john" bcuz he gave me some stuff for christmas and it's really special to me and if we break up, then he'll want it back and he broke up with his old girlfriend to get with me and i dont want to leave him alone, but "john" lives in connecticut and i live in texas, while "kyle" lives in the same zip code as me. and i really like "kyle" and i want to get w/ him, but i'm not sure if i should. and i just kno that john will be really upset and hate me for the rest of my life and we'll probably never talk again, and I might move over the summer and i dont want to miss my chance to get with "kyle". before you send your advice, keep in mind that I DONT WANT TO CHEAT ON ANYONE! please help me.....
~Nikki~
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Hey Nikki! I think that you should follow your heart and be with whoever you want to be with. But wat if your heart doesnt know? then I would go with this "kyle" because you want to try new pebbles on the beach not only one pebble. I hope that solves your problem and I think you have a special heart for this kyle and dump the john and get a new one and still be friends wit the john still!
~*jcjenniz987*~
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what you need to do, is see who you like the best.See if you can answer these questions:
-who can you talk better to?
-who is cuter? :]
-who is more conserned with whats going on [w/you]
-who talks about themselves alot?
-who brags you to their friends?
i cant think of anymore..but I would answer those questions and compare JOHN'S ANSWERS to KYLE'S ANSWERS. if that doesnt help, just keep JOHN. im sure hes a great guy, and really likes you. and HEY! if he messes up on something, just dump him and move to KYLE. haha
good luck.
hope i helped
Much love,
MOlly
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darlin hi i dont think you should b mean but youneed 2 kick john 2 the left he will think the relationship is developin wen its not and just say i dont think we r gud together b smooth and if u get wit kyle dont shove it in his face even if you dont mean 2 trie 2 b aware
hope it works out
amina
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Long distance relationships usually don't work. They're really hard to work out. If you don't love John, break up with him. Since you live so far away, you have permission to do it over the phone. Then get with Kyle.
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