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What to get him?


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 4:06 pm

What is a girl spose to get a guy for valentines day?

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Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 3:47 pm

This is sort of complicated but i really need help because it's driving me insane.

background:

I'm a senior in high school, 17 years old/girl. Anyway, there is this sophomore who was apparently 'madly in love' with me at the start of the year. A random fact was that even his mom knew and ended up telling my friend this... he told me this too but i didnt really believe him. I mean, i liked him a lot too, but insecurity has always been an issue with me.

But during the month of coronation, he ended up going to coronation with his ex-crush and they started going out afterwards. And it hurt. i mean, before he was telling me all these reasons why he liked me and how he really loved me. But he ...

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Age difference


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 3:17 pm

So I am almost 15 and everyone says i act and look like i am about 17. And there is this guy, he is 18 and he is supper sweet and nice. And not like other guys. And I like him and I am pretty sure he likes me. And dont think he is some nasy guy looking for some. He is a virgin, has had like 2-3 girlfriends, and has only gone to like 2nd base. He's a good guy. Im a freshman and he is a freshman in college, is this wrong?
like think about it, it is 4 years apart. my parents are 5 years apart, and there are people who are like 10 years. and i know its all a matter of maturity and i guess i have it. just, i dont know what to do. and advise, thought or anything would help.

Thank you!

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he smokes?!


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 3:03 pm

A couple of days ago my best friend asked my boyfriend if he smoked and he told her that he used to, but quit and still has cravings every now and then. I have smelled smoke on him several times, but just figured that he was hanging around his friends who smoke and the scent lingered on him. Several of our mutual friends tell me that he smokes though. He never told me that he didn't smoke, but he never told me straighforward that he smokes either. Everyone knows that I don't like smoking, so he must have known that I would disapprove of it. I just don't know what to do. Oh and we have only been going out for about two weeks.

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I cant lose him


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 2:51 pm

The love of my life is in the hospital And i`m not aloud to go see him. He is in critical condition. We arent going out because we have been waiting until we could see eachother more often but he is my soul mate and i know it. He is most likely not going to make it and I dont know what to do please help!

I cant live without him

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should i call?


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 2:39 pm

I was just at the slopes last night, and i saw this really cute guy. me and him made eye contact the whole night, then at the end i saw his friend and told him that his friend was cute. He then told him, then the guy came up to me and i got his number. I dont know if i should call him or when to call him. I'm also afraid that if i do call he will think im weird, or we wont have anything to talk about. Any ideas what to do?

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My friend's jealous the he is talking to me now


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 2:36 pm

One of my friends lets call her Sara knows this kid lets call him Ray. Well Sara doesnt actually know Ray, but she met him on myspace, because on of Sara's friends actually knows Ray because he is friends with her boyfriend. Well Ray just came to our school this year. When I asked my friend Sara who Ray was she told me and said that she doesnt like him, hes not very good looking and she's just talking to him. So one day I sent Ray a friend request and he immediatley started talking to me, and now we talk ALOT. My friend Sara has not talked to him (on myspace) in a couple months and when me and him started talking she started talking to him. She brought it up to me like "why are you taling to MY boy" when she doesnt and has not eve...

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Relationships/being horny.


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 1:42 pm

I'm a girl by the way.

How can I separate my relationships from me being horny? My last relationship ended because of my sexual desires. Even though the guy tempted me.

I'm a virgin, I just meant making out, etc too much.
How can I stop being so horny?

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blond or brunette


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 1:16 pm

guys do you prefer blonds or brunettes, thanks.

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valentines day


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 12:59 pm

so yeah i really looove this guy. and he used 2 go to ma school but now he's in high school (I'm in 8th grade)
so i dunno if he remembers me - i hope he does. sometimes we talked and stuff
and i wanna send him a valtentines day card. so now i'm asking. what should i write that will melt his heart and makes him like me? i'm not saying LOVE ME. just liiike. well love would be good 2 though =D
so yeah ...help?

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guys help


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 12:59 pm

ok i need a guy to tell me what guys really look for in a girl.

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i need help =(


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 12:18 pm

I have this friend.. who i love being around. we do a lot of things outside of school together, and he always comes over, and we just have an understanding with eachother where we know exactly how we act.. i guess you could say we feel comfortable around eachother. secretly i fell in love.. at least i think. He is the most amazing person i have ever met. ive never seen him be mean to anyone and i think that attracts me most. last night i found out he had a girlfriend and i was just in complete shock.. that this has been going on for a couple weeks now.. and he never told me. i dont know what to feel or what to say. im heartbroken

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HUGE DILEMMA!!


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 12:08 pm

okay..heres the thing.

i had a boyfriend for 2 and 1/2 years. i love him from the bottom of my heart, and i know he loves me. we wanted to get married but his mom was against it. so we just stayed kind of stuck.

then a couple weeks ago a guy came to ask for my hand (different culture), and i tlked with my bf about it and he practically told me to marry the guy. he was sad and depressed and dint want to, but he wants me to be happy.

so i sai yes. and now 4 weeks later..im soooooo unsure. i'm still in love with my bf. and i dnt know how to back out of this. or if i should.

i mean i can't be 100% certain that my bf's mom will say yes to me. but i can be certain that my fiance wil pro...

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mehh =[


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 12:06 pm

i no you probably see 395839 of these questions a day but i need some helpp.
i really really like this guy and we have like 2 classes together. he recently just started coming over after school. well like 2wice. but my other friends are there. he acts like hes just a friend but i try flirting every way possible and idk if its working. my friends suck becuase they always cough when were together or theyre like *look at the love birds* and he doesnt even no i like him. i dont think. fhaipfadh i relle am soo confised because hes a sophmore and im a freshman and hes always like wow you freshman are gayy blah blah blahh...and he sits behind me in one class and is always playing with my chair ..kicking it.. and just like talking to me. w...

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ANSWERR ASAP


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 11:05 am

so im going to the movies tonight and i wanna this guy to come with me but im not sure how to ask him. i kind of just want to bring it up and have him say yo ill be there too or something. like i met him there when i went with my friend and these two other guys and like we talked like the whole movie. and whenever i talk on the phone with him it ends up to be like two hours. problem is he has a girlfriend and she'll prob. hate me if i go to the movies with him, or she'll end up going and it will be the most awqward thing. && his friend thats a girl hates me. like she called pretending to be his gf and said i couldnt talk to him anymore. ha. well he found out and got all pissed off and shit. so we still talk. i want it to be like las...

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In love but his ex won't leave!


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 8:10 am

I'm 18 and I recently met this guy and I really like him alot. He's everything I ever wanted in a guy. He's sweet and caring and I think it could turn into something serious. The only downfall to this fairytale is that he was married. He hates his ex-wife and can't stand her. The woman is psycho and won't leave him alone. They were seperated in October and by VA law you have to be seperated for 6 months before you can get divorced. He wants so badly to finalize his divorce but recently she had the seperation canceled and wants them to go to counceling to work on their marriage issues. He has told her a thousand times he doesn't love her and doesn't want to be with her but she won't listen and she is making his life and mine hell. She even b...

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valentines day dance


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 7:22 am

how do i get a guy to like me more so he can ask me out for a valentines dance? now im already like kinda his friend now.. not really, but more like friendly acquantances? lol actually its two guys but i dunno who to choose. one of them like stood up for me once when some retard kid made fun of me, and etc, and the second I guess I'm more of friends with.. but hes also kinda stubborn. and they're both REALLY HOTT!

13/f

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lose a crush


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 7:08 am

how do you lose a crush? im a 13 year old girl and i cant stop liking some guy! well, hes cute and nice and all, and sometimes i remind myself of their flaws if they really have any, but it doesnt help. infact, ive never really stopped liking my crushes.. when i was younger, from like first grade to 3rd, crushes were basically meaningless. then from 4th grade on, like my main crush in 4th, 5th, and 6th, if i saw them, i'd still kinda have a crush on them.. and now i like 2 guys, but i dunno who i like better, either............... gosh middle school is hard. and like whenever i hear love songs and stuff i always think of the guys i like! lol

my friend kinda has the same problem. well for her, she thinks of this guy ALL THE T...

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commitment


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 1:45 am

ok im 13/f and in eighth grade

ok this guy i really like likes me back and he asked me and i said no because im scared to be in a commitment like in grade 6 and 7 i used to hate being single and never was and now i cant even be in a short term relationship with the one guy i wanna be in a relationship with

*sleepiesheep*

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girlfriend's best friend


Posted Saturday February 3 2007, 12:37 am

ok so here's the deal:

i have a crush on my girlfriend's best friend. . .and i'm pretty sure she's likewise, with the way she acts around me.

anyway, i really love my girlfriend, and i don't want our relationship to end. i need some advice on how to get over her.

it's not that i want to date her. it's that i have a crush on her.

she's my friend too if that helps.

thanks

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