I'm 18 and I recently met this guy and I really like him alot. He's everything I ever wanted in a guy. He's sweet and caring and I think it could turn into something serious. The only downfall to this fairytale is that he was married. He hates his ex-wife and can't stand her. The woman is psycho and won't leave him alone. They were seperated in October and by VA law you have to be seperated for 6 months before you can get divorced. He wants so badly to finalize his divorce but recently she had the seperation canceled and wants them to go to counceling to work on their marriage issues. He has told her a thousand times he doesn't love her and doesn't want to be with her but she won't listen and she is making his life and mine hell. She even brought his job into it. I like him alot and I wanna help him but I am at a loss. I dunno what to do bout his psycho ex-wife. please someone anyone if you can help me!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Potential answered Saturday February 3 2007, 6:54 pm: You might have to get just as psycho as her. I always say if you wanna control someone, do what they do but on a higher level. You have to show this woman that your not anything to mess with, and you will go to any length to protect what you want. If the guys worth it then this won't be a problem. Everytime she shows up at his house, make sure you're there, everytime she shows up at his job, make sure your there. Whenever she calls, you answer the phone and let her know that your man doesn't have anything to say to her and that it's over. You're with him now, you have to protect what you deserve.You have to dig deep inside your self and pull out the crazy side of you. You have to show her that she's not the only one losing her mind. When all of it is finally over, you'll laugh.....Hope I helped, <3Potential. [ Potential's advice column | Ask Potential A Question ]
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